Beautiful sentences about parents accompanying their children: Sincerity is the most precious gift for children

When chatting with friends about the problem of picking up and dropping off her daughter from kindergarten, her friend told her something that made her very sad. My friend is a well-known local tour guide. She had a baby soon after getting married. However, as a top-notch and senior tour guide, her normal workload is very heavy. As long as she is on a tour and whatever happens at home, she cannot leave her behind. The travelers went back on their own. She once said: \”To me, my groupmates are not relatives, but they are better than relatives. I provide more services to them than I do to my family.\” She is busiest during holidays when others take vacations and travel with their children. time, so even though her baby is 5 years old, she has never gone to the kindergarten to pick up the child. Once she had a sarcoid in her throat and needed surgery to remove it, and she couldn\’t speak aloud for a month, but she was very happy because she finally had time to pick up her son from kindergarten. When she showed up at the entrance of the kindergarten fully dressed and planned to go in to pick up her son, she was stopped by the teacher in her son\’s class. To the teacher, she was extremely unfamiliar because she had not appeared once in the two years since the beginning of school, and she could not answer any questions she asked (because she could not speak aloud at the time). In the end, my friend could only show her ID card to the kindergarten teacher to prove that she was really the child\’s mother, and she was able to take her son home. What my friend said made me, as a mother, very sad. A mother worked hard to be pregnant for ten months. In order to provide her child with abundant materials and high-quality education, she worked diligently every day. When she was full of joy and wanted to surprise her child, she was blocked by questioning her mother\’s identity. This Undoubtedly, it was a bucket of cold water thrown at me. Because her identity as a mother, which she has always insisted on, is nothing in the eyes of others. Sometimes, if you were not the one who gave birth to the child, he would naturally call you mom. If you were only responsible for giving birth to him, but were absent from his growth for a long time, to him, you would be no different from anyone else. Just strangers. I believe that every mother who has watched \”Superman 3\” will feel sorry for the little Andy who doesn\’t talk much, is very arrogant, but is very warm-hearted in private. Although he lives in a large and luxurious villa, the only one who accompanies him every day is his grandma. Although his grandma built a huge ski resort and amusement park for him, he is the only one who plays in it. The program team asked Andy if his parents were not there. Will you feel lonely when you are around me? A 5-year-old child can easily answer without thinking: \”I\’m not alone, I\’m used to it.\” This sentence has made many parents cry. When we try our best and use all our time and energy to accumulate capital for our children\’s lives, we never find that no matter how rich we are in material things, we cannot fill the loneliness in our children\’s hearts. In the show, Huang Shengyi wanted to express her love for Andy. She carefully acted as a police officer for her son as a surprise. She wanted to choose clothes for him, take a photo with him, and have some intimate gestures with him. , but was rejected and disliked by Andy again and again. Finally, Andy said in front of the camera: \”I don\’t want her to accompany me. I don\’t like her to accompany me.\” Because she missed the first and most important three years of her child\’s growth, but did not spend any timeI really got to know my son during the very few interactions I had with him. The missed companionship cannot be made up overnight. A mother who doesn’t even know her child’s favorite food and has been absent during her child’s growing years suddenly breaks into her child’s original life. To her child, she only knows He is an uninvited guest, so why talk about love. In the fast-paced life, spending time with children and getting bread seem to be two opposite things. Many parents choose to sacrifice time with their children and work day and night just to earn bread. In the movie \”Spring of the Cowherd Class\”, the child Morangjie with the face of an angel and the heart of a devil is impressive. He would draw the teacher with a big bald head on the classroom blackboard; he would vilify the principal in his notebook and write about the principal eating poop; he was withdrawn, stole things, skipped classes and was expelled from public schools; because his mother was a As a single mother, she worked day and night in the restaurant to make a living. She had no time to understand and guide her children, and her children\’s bad behavior made her despair. Although she was unwilling, she sent Morangjie to a correctional education for troubled teenagers. Boarding schools were established. She once asked the judge: \”As long as he can have hot meals at noon and night.\” After that, the time she spent with her child was only the few minutes she spent delivering clothes during visits. In her view, ensuring that the child has the physiological needs of food and clothing is her expression of love for her child. She thought that since she did not have the time or ability to change her child\’s bad behavior, she should let professional agencies solve the problem. Maybe the child would get better. However, children who lack close contact and emotional support from their mothers will only become more sensitive, withdrawn, and destructive. The role of parents for their children is not only to provide material help, but more importantly, to make their children feel warm and attached. The essence of maternal love is definitely not simply to satisfy the child\’s physical needs such as hunger, but more to accompany the child attentively, giving the child physical close contact and psychological care and comfort. Children cannot choose their parents when they are born, but as parents, we can choose the way we love our children. We can have no money, no social status, and no high education. Even though we are a bit unbearable, in the child\’s world, we are his world, and we are supermen who can hold up a world for him. Even if we are poor, we can still choose to give our children loving companionship, because companionship is the only way to open up the most precious and priceless love that does not cost money. A piece of news from Fuyang, Anhui Province allows us to see a mother’s thoughtful choice in making a living and spending time with her children. 21-year-old Zhang Yu and her 9-month-old son set up a stall on the roadside. She said she has been setting up a stall with her son for half a year. Because she was a left-behind child, she did not want her son to become another \”left-behind second generation\” without the company of his parents since he was a child. \”. Perhaps her childhood experience of being left behind left a deep and indelible shadow on her, so no matter how hard, difficult, or tiring life was, she would take her son with her so that he would not wake up and look at the deserted people everywhere. Howling in the room, she would not be alone at the door waiting for her parents to return. In fact, life is not so difficult that you can’t spare some timeSpending time with your children is never the only excuse for parents who are too lazy to \”accompany\” them. Long Yingtai once said in \”Dear Andre\”: \”Love does not mean liking, and love does not mean knowing. Love is actually a lot of excuses for not liking, not knowing, and not communicating. Because of love, it is normal There is no need for communication. How many parents and children are in the same room but have nothing to talk about. They love each other deeply but do not know each other. They yearn for contact but cannot find a bridge. They long for expression but have no language.\” Sometimes, not We don’t love our children, and it’s not that the children really hate their parents. In fact, it’s more that each other doesn’t know how to express it. Children all long for the intimate love from their parents, but their parents always treat them as “good” in their own eyes. In this way, children are given things or behaviors that they don’t need and may even be harmful. However, the password to solve all these difficulties is nothing but companionship. No matter how busy you are, as long as you are willing, you can always make time. Accompany your child carefully and experience the child\’s various actions and performances, and you will be able to discover the password to unlock the door in your child\’s heart. If children are the most beautiful gift God has given us, then companionship is the most precious gift parents give to their children. I hope every parent can make time to accompany their children in their busy schedule, so that you will most likely receive different surprises from your children.