Before the age of 10, please \”force\” your child to develop a good habit of reading, and he will benefit from it throughout his life.

Due to my own preferences and work, I found that there are more and more books at home, and the bookcases need to be constantly added. I think it would be nice to have a few more bookcases on the walls at home so that every book can live comfortably in my home. People who love books will feel that a book is like a close friend. Touching the cover and smelling the book\’s fragrance is really refreshing. Xiao Xiaoyu also had his own bookcase early. He should have more books than toys. In addition to the books prepared for him, there are also many short bookshelves and large boxes for him, which contain picture books that he often reads. I sometimes think that if there are many books at home, my children may not love reading in the future. Because there are two situations: one is that the child is rebellious and gets tired of reading too many books. The other way is to read a lot of books, be knowledgeable, and be able to do something. I believe many parents are like me and hope that their children will be the latter! It is inseparable from the guidance and cultivation of parents, such as a good reading habit. My child, when your parents get old, will you leave a wall of books for you? 2 In fact, parents should give their children a good atmosphere for reading as early as possible. Parents should lead by example and follow the guidance. Every child can learn from the book. My child, when your parents get old, will you leave a wall of books for you? Before asking this question, let’s ask ourselves. What will the future look like for the children we raise? Often influenced by parents. Because of the words and deeds of parents, the pattern of parents themselves will affect their children. One cannot stop learning, because you have to improve yourself and have a pattern. If parents love reading and value learning, their children will also be affected. The family can listen to poetry or exchange books they have read after dinner. There is no need to pretend to like it, just because the parents love it, the children like it, and they are happy with each other. When you become a parent, you have an extra responsibility, like a lighthouse on the seashore, guiding you. Therefore, before cultivating your child\’s reading habit, accompany your child to read more books and read some useless books. There is no need to make reading complicated. Liang Wendao said: \”Read some useless books, do some useless things, and spend some useless time, all in order to retain an opportunity to surpass yourself outside of everything known. Some of the great changes in life come from this kind of Don\’t always stress about making up lessons for your children, thinking that reading is a waste of your children\’s time. In fact, this is a big misunderstanding. I think that before entering elementary school, no interest class is more important than cultivating children\’s reading habits. Then you may ask, what happens after elementary school? Because I have cultivated my children’s interest before they entered elementary school. After they entered elementary school, I felt that I would continue to accompany my children on the road to reading. 3 Reading is the best “make-up lesson”. A mother said that she once took her child to visit the most knowledgeable relative in the village. The old man is a teacher in a key middle school. He has taught all his life and educated countless people. After dinner, the child\’s study was mentioned. Her daughter, who had just entered middle school, had always had poor grades in physics and chemistry, so she asked if there was any good way. The old man asked: \”Does the child usually like to read?\” She said she was a little confused at the time, thinking that the old man was hard of hearing and said again, it was for those in the science department.I am not good at studying science. Does this have anything to do with reading? The old man said: \”Of course it does matter! For example, if a child has a wide range of reading, his knowledge will be broad. Especially after he has in-depth reading, his ability to analyze problems will also be enhanced. Don\’t look at physics and chemistry. In fact, they are related to many The subjects are related. No subject is independent, but reading is the foundation of all subjects, not only related to Chinese language!\” In fact, this is a very pertinent suggestion. We often think that if our children are not good at math, they should enroll in math classes, and if they are not good at physics, they should study for physics. If you are not good at history and geography, go and make up for it. In this way, little is gained, and the child\’s interest and confidence are getting worse and worse. Soviet educator Suhomlinsky said in \”Suggestions for Teachers\”: \”Reading is an important means of intellectual education for students with \’learning difficulties\’. The more difficult students find it in learning, the more difficulties they encounter in mental work. The more he learns, the more he needs to read. Just like a photograph with poor sensitivity needs a longer exposure, the minds of students with poor academic performance also need a brighter and longer exposure to the light of scientific knowledge. Do not rely on supplementary lessons. , don\’t rely on endless \”pulling\”, but rely on reading, reading, and reading again. The more students with \”learning difficulties\” read, the clearer their thinking will be and the more active their intellectual power will be. \” Therefore, we must let our children develop reading habits as early as possible. 4It is said that there is a golden decade for developing reading habits. Which decade is that? The golden decade of reading can be said to be from the age of 0 to 10 years old. The most important thing to do is to develop the reading habit. Because children have a critical sensory period between the ages of 0 and 6. From birth, children will use their senses of hearing, vision, taste, touch, and smell to become familiar with the environment and understand things. Children can be exposed to books during this period. Many parents will ask me what age is appropriate to start? There is really no standard answer to this question. Some children start listening to their mothers telling stories when they are still in the womb. My family officially started with the most basic object recognition cards when they were six months old, and then moved on to flip books, game books, hole-in-the-wall books, etc., starting from cultivating a close relationship between children and books. At the earliest stage, parents need to accompany them for parent-child reading. Last time I went back to my hometown, I brought a baby picture book back to my cousin’s baby. The one-year-old little guy who has never been exposed to books usually opened the book to him and told him that these are eggs, which are round and round, and these are flowers, red flowers. The child listened, touched it himself, and then turned his head to look at me. This is interaction. As long as the frequency of this contact is strengthened and maintained, children will slowly fall in love with books. You can set a time every day to tell stories to your children and expose them to new books on a regular basis. Slowly, you will fall in love with reading. The efforts during this period will lay a solid foundation for the subsequent cultivation of reading habits. Brother Xiaoyu, like 83. Montessori pointed out that young children have a culturally sensitive period. It sprouts at 3 years old. During this period, children will have a sensitive period for literacy. The reading suggestions during this period are: you can read some classic picture books to your children. Don’t think that your children are illiterate and don’t read to them. Instead, read more so that your children can learn from them. Recognize words at a macro level. At this timeAt this stage, children can understand words macroscopically and have an overall image. They are not yet able to decompose the strokes of words, cannot write well, let alone grasp the meaning of words. At the age of 5-7, children enter the stage of recognizing a lot of words and can read some simple text books, such as picture books and stories, some interactive cognitive books, and classic traditional story books. 7-8 years old, this stage is a very special period. Children know a lot of words. Parents have expectations and hope that children can read independently, but children still rely on their parents\’ company. Moreover, children will reject books with pure text, preferring picture books and comics instead. You must not get angry in a hurry, because one of the misunderstandings of many parents is that picture books are for children. However, children at this stage are in the transitional period of reading. Instead, they should be given some good picture books (bridge books, as a guide). role), it needs a better storyline and more impactful pictures. Between the ages of 8 and 10, children experience early childhood literacy, transition from pictures to words, initially develop an interest in reading, and begin to have their own clear reading hobbies. Children should enter the first and most important golden reading period in their lives. So, why should we cultivate it before the age of 10? Because this stage is a critical period for children’s brain development and learning, both good and bad habits are mainly formed before the age of 10. Rousseau once said: \”The most dangerous period in life is from birth to 10 years old. During this period, if measures are not taken to destroy all kinds of errors and bad habits, they will sprout and grow, and even measures will be taken to correct them later. By then, they have taken root and can never be pulled out or removed. \”Reading should be a natural way of life. This habit is like dressing, eating, and breathing air. It is a natural behavior that is born deep in the soul. Therefore, before the age of 10, please force your child to develop a good habit of reading, and he will benefit from it throughout his life.