Mo Yan said that the excellence of children is soaked in the sweat of their parents. Life is a process of conquering demons and cultivating righteousness all the way, and parents are the living bodhisattvas of their children, who can help them open roads in the mountains, build bridges in the water, and achieve a career. Yes, nothing comes out of nowhere. Behind every outstanding child is the hard work of his parents. Have you ever seen a kitchen at 4:30 in the morning? A post from Xiaolin, a candidate, said that one day, he woke up from a nightmare at 4:30, and his father wearing an apron immediately rushed into his bedroom. If it weren\’t for that nightmare, Xiaolin would never have discovered her father\’s touching \”back\”. He got up at 4:30 in the morning to make porridge every day. Did you know? A seemingly simple bowl of millet porridge takes at least half an hour from boiling water, washing rice, putting it in the pot, cooking it to serving it. Young people always use \”I\’ve seen a place at 4:30 in the morning\” to describe diligence, because 4:30 is an awkward time. Those who stay up late will fall asleep at that time, and those who get up early will get up after that. In the kitchen at 4:30 in the morning, there was a touching figure of a father who was accompanying him to take the exam. Xiaolin\’s father is one of thousands of parents of high school and college entrance examination students. During the year of high school and college entrance examination, they often endure fatigue and loneliness, but they still have to show a positive and optimistic side and be a solid backing for their children. Some sacrifices are only known to you. Xiaolin\’s state of desperately reviewing is something that almost all candidates will experience. This is an old story. The schedule below is probably the daily routine for all candidates. 22:00 Test questions 00:00 Sleep 05:00 Get up 06:00 Morning reading 07:00 Running exercise 08:00 Class 12:00 Lunch 21:00 It is really hard for the candidates who go home. They often stay up late to read, I got up at 5 a.m., had breakfast, and sat in the classroom at 6 a.m. to read early. Running exercise at 7 o\’clock, formal class at 8 o\’clock. Except for eating and going to the toilet, he sat motionless for more than ten hours. When he got home at night, he cheered up and read at night… Wait, don\’t you think something is missing? Who brings hot breakfast to the table at 5 o\’clock in the morning? Who delivers lunch to the school gate at 12 noon? Who washes, dries, irons, and puts a cup of hot milk on the desk at 9:30 pm? Candidates are always complaining that the life of preparing for the exam is too boring, repeating the two points and one line between home and school every day, like a robot working on a regular basis. At this time, it is better to think about who silently supports and makes this fast-paced study life orderly. If the high school entrance examination is a war without gunpowder, then the parents of the candidates are the logistics warriors in the base areas behind enemy lines. Who can say that the rear is not a battlefield? \”Ten years of hard work will take a hundred years to make steel.\” The growth of each talent is not innate. The students are working hard to cultivate their own tomorrow for the sake of knowledge and the future. Parents give their children life and are willing to protect them from wind and rain and create a warm world. But how many children can see their parents who silently gave everything behind them, who alone bear the disease, poverty, and pain in life… My child, I know that you are under great pressure to study. The joy and happiness in this world are all hard-won. In the examination system of \”thousands of troops crossing a single-plank bridge\”,As parents, I have seen that you have been carrying your own heavy responsibilities on your small shoulders. How many times have you hunched over your desk at the window at night, just to get your name higher on the top 100 list? In the cold winter morning, you reluctantly left the warm bed and rode your bicycle, your face flushed. My parents saw it in their eyes and felt pain in their hearts. But kid, there is no free lunch in the world. You must work hard to get ahead in order to be eligible to enjoy the fruits! Because you must take the road of growth by yourself, no one can grow up for you. We can only work hard to urge you to make progress, hoping that you will soon grow into a useful person to society. When you were studying, your parents worried about everything for you. There is a sentence on the Internet that makes people feel deeply: \”Dad must let you stand up first, lest dad suddenly falls down and you don\’t know how to stand.\” Work tirelessly and work hard. , just so that the children can sit in a quiet and comfortable classroom to study; in the cold winter and hot weather, I don’t mind going out to do a part-time job, thinking that I can at least buy a few reference books for my children; pick up the newly launched meats and vegetables Go and think about how to supplement nutrition for your children; sometimes you are so busy that you can’t even take care of yourself when you are sick… There is only one kind of love in the world that does not ask for anything in return, and that is the love of parents for their children! From the moment a child is born, parents begin to give without regrets, giving the best things they can to their children so that they can grow, willingly and without asking for anything in return. The future is your own. As a parent, don’t ask for anything in return. You only have one life, no turning back. Parents can accompany you for a while, but they cannot accompany you for a lifetime. Parents know that what they can leave to you is to let you understand that to win the respect of others and live a happy life, you need to use your own abilities to strive for a bright future! Because one day you will understand that wealth will not last forever, and life will tell you that you have to rely on yourself to truly succeed. What you can do now, child, is to continue to accumulate knowledge and build a beautiful character. Your efforts will be rewarded in the future. But at that time, maybe my parents had white spots on their temples and were faltering. You will also understand that for all the efforts your parents have made, they will get nothing in the end. Everything is for you. I criticize you harshly just because my love is too deep. Some people say that \”love is cruel\”, which may be what the ancients often said, \”deep love means deep responsibility\”! You are not allowed to watch TV, you are restricted from surfing the Internet, your homework is monitored, and your playfulness is restrained. Even if you accidentally make a mistake sometimes and contradict us angrily, we will be so angry that we will say \”severe\” words to you. If you feel wronged and sad, will your parents feel better? As a parent, I really want you to know that your parents’ blame and criticism of you are all with good intentions; they are nagging you with great sincerity, all in order to make you sensible sooner and become a better person! Many years ago, when we were still your age, we were somewhat dissatisfied and frivolous. However, only when people grow up can they understand that all children grow up on the shoulders of their parents. You have worked hard for your youth, and your parents have also worked a hundred times harder for your youth. This is a beautiful word. In this youthful campus, every child has equal opportunities. You can weave your own lofty dreams.You can also describe your own ideal sky; no matter how much you pay, you will definitely gain. There, your academic achievements and your excellence as a person have nothing to do with your family, your appearance, or \”fighting for your parents.\” So some people say that youth is for struggle. Youth without struggle will eventually leave regrets! When many people have entered society, even in their forties, they still regret: It turns out that working hard for your future in youth is the most beautiful thing in life! As your parents, I don’t want you to worry about the future, nor do I want you to have regrets when you become an adult. Parents are willing to face difficulties with you and share joy with you on your growth path. We never talk about our own hard work easily. Dear child, as the dearest person in your life, I hope you can understand the heartfelt voices of your parents. We are just doing our best to work with you. But you have to understand that reading is not a hardship, but a process of learning and growing. Only when you experience growth and study hard will life open the door to happiness for you. And this is the lifelong wish of all parents.
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