Behind every top student, there are excellent and strong parents (must read this)

Mr. Nan Huaijin said: \”Don\’t rely entirely on school for education, but on family and parents themselves.\” No matter how good the 45-minute school education is, if it is not matched by good family education, education will collapse like a house made of paper. . In the blink of an eye, we are halfway through this semester. At this critical stage, family education cannot be absent. For the sake of their children, parents are asked to read these five classic educational truths. 01Truth 1: Behind every top student is an excellent and strong parent. As the saying goes: A child must support himself, and a child must grow his own food. Educating children is not only the responsibility of the teacher, but also the lifelong career of every parent. Growth is a journey of slaying demons and cultivating righteousness along the way. Parents are the living bodhisattvas of their children, paving the way for their children when encountering mountains and building bridges when encountering water, and achieving success for their children along the way. Do you still remember Zhou Yinuo, the girl from Hangzhou who was popularly searched for her self-discipline? During one summer vacation, she drew up a study schedule. Every day, even though there is no one around to supervise her, she will study consciously and read more when she has time. This self-discipline is inseparable from the guidance of her parents. Zhou Yinuo’s parents will use various strategies to stimulate their daughter’s enthusiasm for learning. Every space in the home is filled with books so children can read at any time. As long as the children are studying, they sit aside and do their work seriously, always accompanying the children. Behind the so-called self-disciplined children, there must be a pair of parents who are willing to \”lead by example.\” As the American philosopher Emerson said: \”The key to what kind of life a child will ultimately achieve lies in the quality of love, companionship and example he receives from his parents.\” When educating children, we cannot expect others. Only parents can guide their children along the way. Forward. 02Truth 2: The greatest cruelty parents can do to their children is to let them learn freely. Do you still remember the “happy education” that was once popular? Most parents only see \”happiness\” but ignore \”education\” and dote on their children wantonly. However, this kind of happy education is like setting a child\’s starting line on loose sand. A gust of wind or a wave can wipe away the fruits of education. You might say that European and American happiness education is effective. However, Europe and the United States also have high-pressure elite education, with difficult courses and heavy workloads, which are even more severe than those in key middle schools in China. Only children who have experienced elite education can enter Oxford and Cambridge. Children without job constraints will end up at the bottom of society. The so-called \”happy education\” is nothing more than a \”means\” used by the West to implement social stratification. You also said that children will naturally become sensible when they grow up and there is no need to over-teach them. But you have never tutored him in his homework, can you ensure that he concentrates on studying? If you don’t read a good book for your child, how can you ensure that your child falls in love with reading? If you fail to establish good study habits for your child, how can you ensure that he has excellent exam performance? If you let your child go while studying, it will only delay his life. Indulgence does not mean love, strictness is also for the growth of children. Behind every outstanding child is the hard work of his parents. 03Truth 3: The essence of competition among children is the competition between parents’ comprehensive strength. In the same class and the same teacher, the children will be different due to differences in parents. Children who are praised as \”other children\”, whose parents are nothing more than more attentive. They have cultivated their children\’s habits since childhood, have strict requirements on their children, and have always taught them patiently. There is a saying that goes well: before educating your children, you must first educate yourself. Parents are their children\’s most direct textbooks, and everything they say and do will have a profound impact on their children. The parents of scholarly children are also scholars; the parents of children who are obsessed with mobile phones are also obsessed with mobile phones. Suhomlinsky once said, \”You will definitely see your own shadow in your children. If we do it right, the children will naturally do it.\” The benchmark for outstanding parents is not their profound knowledge, but their attitude towards their children. Responsibility. Just as the well-known teacher Wang Songzhou said: \”On the way to accompany their children, parents should always be learners.\” The key to education lies in parents. The competition between children is ultimately a competition between parents’ vision and strength. 04Truth 4: Treating teachers who are strict with children means treating children’s future well. The ancients said: Failure to teach is the fault of the father; failure to teach strictly is the fault of the teacher. Please be kind to those teachers who are strict with education and are willing to criticize children when they don\’t have to do so. Strict, just can\’t bear to see the child go astray. Education is never an easy task. There is a teacher Wang in our school who is famous for being \”severe\”. She agreed with her students on three rules at the beginning of the school year: first, listen attentively; second, hand in homework at all times; and finally, abide by school rules. When the students heard this, they thought it was not very simple. But a few days later, some students were punished for talking in class and not doing their homework. If someone breaks school rules, the classroom must be cleaned until a \”mobile red flag\” is obtained, otherwise the duty will continue… The students are unhappy and complain to their parents. The parents were very dissatisfied and complained to the principal\’s office. But Teacher Wang adheres to the principle of being strict when he should be strict and punishing when he should be punished. In just one semester, the students have changed significantly, the class style has been significantly improved, and parents finally understand the teachers\’ good intentions. A teacher\’s education can only be effective if strictness and love coexist. Ignoring student mistakes and ignoring class problems are not good teachers. Only responsible teachers can withstand various pressures and risks and correct students with sincerity. Teach them with the Tao and show them with your body. Only education with discipline, teaching, punishment and love can be regarded as real education. 05Fact 5: The degree of cooperation between parents and teachers determines the extent to which children benefit from school. What children really need is not cram schools or school district housing, but the cooperation between parents and teachers. As the writer Mingzhu Xuyu said: \”The best education model must be a trinity of serious and responsible teachers, reasonable parents, and diligent students.\” Respecting teachers and trusting teachers are not only things that children need to do. , parents need to do it too. 1. Please give teachers more understanding. Due to their busy schedules, teachers inevitably make mistakes and fail to treat all students equally. When encountering a problem, parents are asked not to conclude that the teacher acted inappropriately based solely on their child\’s description. Please believe that as a teacher, you will be responsible for the students in the class. 2. Please actively participate in your child’s learning. Parents are their children\’s first teachers, and family education plays a very important role in their children\’s growth. Parents should be involved rather than completely shifting the responsibility for education toSchools and teachers, the only victims will be the children. 3. Please actively communicate and assist teachers in their work. Teachers have limited understanding of their children’s situation at home, and parents have incomplete understanding of their children’s behavior at school, so home-school communication is crucial. Parents and teachers need to achieve \”information exchange\”, communicate immediately when problems are discovered, find more ways to solve problems for their children, and work together to solve problems for their children. The greater the degree of home-school collaboration, the more successful a child\’s education will be. Let us continue to work together to achieve children\’s dreams and future. Although the journey is far, the journey is coming soon!