Behind the case of molesting girls, there is a greater ugliness!

Maybe, you have already paid attention to these two news. According to writer Chen Lan, on August 12, in the waiting room of Nanjing South Railway Station, a young man held a girl traveling with him on his lap several times, put his hands into the girl\’s clothes, and \”moved\” on her breasts. On August 14, another netizen broke the news that a man put his hand inside the pants of an underage girl and molested her in a hospital in Chongqing. Perhaps, you also followed the progress of the case. After police investigation, the girl who was molested in Nanjing was the \”adopted daughter\” of the young man\’s parents, and the Chongqing man was the girl\’s uncle. There’s another piece of data you should know. More than 70% of sexual assaults are committed by acquaintances. We often tell our children: \”Don\’t talk to strangers, don\’t eat food given by strangers, don\’t walk with strangers…\” But as everyone knows, a lot of harm comes from \”acquaintances\” that we think are safe, such as relatives, teachers, and friends. Even family. The \”Statistical Report on Child Sexual Assault Cases and Child Sexual Assault Prevention Education in 2015\” released by the China Children\’s Culture and Art Foundation Girls\’ Protection Fund shows that among the publicly reported cases of child sexual abuse in 2015, there were 240 acquaintance crimes, accounting for 70.59% %. Among sexual assault perpetrators, acquaintances include teachers, neighbors, relatives, etc. There were 71 cases of sexual assault by teachers, 33 cases of sexual assault by neighbors, and 29 cases of sexual assault by family members (such as fathers, brothers, stepfathers, etc.). Therefore, do not hand over your children to \”acquaintances\” easily. If this must be the case, please investigate more, observe more, and be more vigilant. Perhaps, you also noticed that the two girls did not put up any resistance. Given the age of girls, even if they lack sex education, they should understand that it is wrong to be treated like this. Their indifference makes people feel incomprehensible and chilling. The \”learned helplessness\” mentioned by Hu Ping in \”Good Understanding of Virginity\” may be the best explanation. \”Because in the repeated transgressions, the children are unable to resist, or the resistance is ineffective. Over time, they gradually lose the consciousness and strength to protect their bodies and minds, and no longer resist.\” Looking at the backgrounds of the two girls, one is The adopted daughter of the family, whose parents have divorced, is living in her grandmother\’s house. Initially, when they seek help after being violated, no one may respond, they may be treated as a child\’s joke, or they may even be scolded and threatened to \”destroy their family\’s image and relationship\”! In fact, when the incident occurred, the adoptive parents of the Nanjing girl and the relatives of the Chongqing girl who were present were indifferent and seemed to be accustomed to it. They lack people who truly trust, protect and support them! But our children do! When we teach our children how to protect themselves, we must not forget to tell them: Mom and Dad will trust you unconditionally and protect you. No matter who that person is. But you may not know the greater ugliness behind the incident. Shanghai writer Chen Lan received nearly a thousand death threats, curses and abuse on Weibo within a few hours of revealing the case of molesting a girl at Nanjing South Railway Station. From the initial questions and answers between a few people and dozens of Weibo vest accounts, to receiving nearly a thousand death threats, continuous harassing phone calls, and even posting the whistleblower on the entire network within dozens of hours.home address and private information, the incident seems to be getting worse. Faced with all this, Chen Lan just laughed it off at first, thinking it was just an ordinary cyber attack, \”Let them talk fast and forget it.\” But later she found that something was not right. The insults appeared in groups, and they continued to brush off the insults. More than 24 hours without sleep. \”They also surrounded my fans at fixed points and carried out encirclement attacks. They seemed to be coordinated and leading the rhythm.\” Only then did Chen Lan realize that the danger was increasing and that the incident might be intricate and organized. \”Some of the people who harassed me may have communicated with each other through groups and forums to rape, seduce, and molest children.\” Chen Lan analyzed that many of them may be guilty of crimes. For the safety of his family, Chen Lan decided to move immediately. Seeing this, I can\’t help but feel a chill on my back. I was shocked that the bad guys were so rampant and had such energy! It shows that this group is very large, and the number exceeds our imagination; it shows that these bad guys who may appear normal but are abnormal inside are not far from our children at all;… Moreover, as Chen Lan said on Weibo As said, these pedophiles have no control over their criminal tendencies and must be closely monitored. For example, can we learn from the United States and establish information data on sex offenders (http://www.familywatchdog.us/; http://www.sexualoffenders.com/Sexual)? Collect and disclose the criminal records of sex offenders to remind the public to take precautions. Of course, more importantly, we must warn ourselves ten thousand times that we cannot take any chances when raising children, and we cannot be too cautious. May our children grow up safely and happily.