Besides \”I am your daddy\”, what other jokes should not be made with children?

What is a joke? You told a joke and I laughed, then the joke was successful and everyone laughed together. If I didn\’t laugh and felt offended, then your words were inappropriate and you should reflect on it. But I didn\’t laugh, but you said I couldn\’t take a joke. Excuse me? Is there really something wrong with your cultivation, fat friend? Today, after watching the award-winning clip of Guo Degang and Sha Yi\’s family, Naotao G felt that it was really annoying. Guo Degang completely ignored the other party\’s psychological feelings. After the other party expressed displeasure, he was still complacent, refused to apologize, and scolded netizens. Let’s play back what happened. Students who are in a hurry can read the text version below. Guo Degang: I see how Anji looks so much like me and Hu Ke’s child Sha Yi: Teacher Guo can’t be like this. They say Xiaoyuer looks like Yue Yunpeng. If Anji looks like you, I won’t be able to live anymore? (Resolving the embarrassment) Guo Degang: This shows that your family is hospitable (Sha Yi and Hu Ke look embarrassed) He Jiong reminded Guo Degang that Anji’s award was given by Sha Yi (wanting to bring the topic back to the parent-child relationship) and said to Anji: Your award was given by your father Guo Degang : I thought it was my biological father who presented the trophy to Sha Yi. Guo Degang: This is also called Dad. Sha Yi: Whatever it is called, Anji is mine, and this award is also mine. He Jiong asked Anji: Do you know Deyun Club? Guo Degang: (Answer) This is my father’s workplace. He Jiong tapped Guo Degang and signaled not to continue this conversation. Guo Degang said that he was Anji’s father five times and insulted Hu Ke along the way. Angie obviously understood. When he first came on stage, he happily did somersaults while walking, but later he lowered his head and refused to speak. Even though Sha Yi smoothed his words in the middle, Hu Ke smiled awkwardly, He Jiong hinted, and Guo Degang still refused to shut up. Of course, how can the other person\’s self-esteem be compared with your sense of humor, Mr. Guo? You are so valuable. The Chinese cross talk world cannot do without you. You are the mainstay of the cross talk world in the 21st century and the light of tomorrow! His words highlighted three points: 1. I have been joking with Hu Keshayi for more than 10 years and are very familiar with each other. 2. As long as you bring your children into the entertainment industry, they are all pursuing fame and fortune. They must adapt to the rules of the entertainment industry and be able to make jokes. Even if you are only 5 years old, it is no exception. 3. Harm netizens. As a melon-eater, Taotao G chose not to listen to Guo Degang\’s cross talk to express his position. Children are childish and naive, and they will believe everything you say. Even if you mutter a joke for several days, it will be fine, but it may cause serious psychological damage. Are there too many people who take extreme actions just because of a joke? The neighbor said that his parents no longer loved him after the second baby was born, so the eldest baby threw the second baby out of the window. I heard adults say that I was picked up from the trash can, and secretly planned to run away from home. Are these cases familiar? Do you hear them in the news every year? Your casual words may shake a child\’s world. Do you really know the harm it can do? The Chinese New Year is coming soon, and there will be various gatherings of relatives and friends. Today we will talk about some types of jokes that must not be made with children. What kind of jokes should not be made with children? Divorcing the relationship between children and parents: \”You were picked up/adopted\”, \”Mom and dad don\’t love you anymore when they have a younger brother/sister\”, \”Come and be my daughter/son, your parents agree\”, \”YouIf your parents don\’t accompany you, they don\’t want you anymore.\” \”Who will you go to if your parents get divorced? \”Jay Chou is your biological father, and now this is your uncle\” (a very close person) plays hide-and-seek with the children, and deliberately disappears to see the children anxious. These words and actions make children feel panic and hurt their sense of security. , making children feel abandoned, doubting and testing their parents\’ love for them repeatedly, making it difficult to trust others in the long run. Children who run away from home are not made in a day. Even relatives should not say this, such as grandpa Grandma/grandparents may sometimes say things that hurt the relationship between the child and their parents in order to bring the child closer to them. This is very wrong. Children\’s trust and security in the world, as well as the establishment of close relationships, are mainly through the relationship with their father. The relationship between mothers, especially mothers. Forcibly wooing will definitely hinder the formation of a sound personality. Teasing children\’s emotions \”Give me your favorite toy, please?\” \”It\’s so delicious. Can you give it to me?\” \”After the children made the decision to share after a strong psychological struggle, they laughed and said, I am teasing you, I don\’t really want to. If your sincerity is trampled on by you, the children will learn to lie for self-protection. Children with strong learning ability may be confused by your behavior, and may have distorted personalities or split personalities. Playful teasing like \”calling you uncle\” and \”brother\” can cause cognitive biases in children. It’s still a trivial matter. The key is that the child can understand that your mocking of him is a malicious act. The child will distrust the society and think that most people have bad intentions, and will develop a pessimistic mentality. Stimulate the child to achieve abnormal reactions.\” \”I\’ve eaten all your Halloween candy.\” \”There are too many people in the park, so we won\’t go.\” After the children burst into tears and looked sad and aggrieved, they changed their minds and agreed. This kind of repetition and inconsistency in attitude will make Children learn to constantly test each other\’s bottom line and use crying to achieve their goals. Have you or your relatives and friends said these things? If so, please stop immediately. In front of children, lies, lies, puns, Any words with colors are inappropriate. \”Children can\’t understand it when they are still young, and they will forget it in two days\” is not true. Even if they are blood relatives, don\’t be too confident in your children\’s trust. Children are very smart. Trust is especially fragile, so pay attention to the limit. To be honest, this is a matter of principle. If communication is fruitless and you still go your own way, don\’t make friends!