By doing these three things, a child’s IQ can actually increase by 30%

These days, all parents are concerned about whether their children are smart or not. After all, this has a lot to do with future academic performance and achievements. After searching on the Internet, there are quite a few articles on \”How to make children smarter\”, and they all list ten or eight points, which seems very boring. Of course Maodou’s mother would not do that, so let me tell you some stories that really happened in my family! Three specific operations in my family: 1. Fathers and children do more physical games. 2. Let your children exercise more. Children with more developed limbs have less simple minds. 3. Want your children to be smart? Never praise him for being smart. Detailed introduction below. If you exercise more with your father, your children will be smarter. Maodou is not an active child. He is cautious, introverted, sensitive, susceptible, and prefers to act after careful consideration. I can accept these. Only not liking sports makes us worry. Regarding Maodou\’s unwillingness to exercise, we rushed, urged, and even yelled, but it didn\’t work. However, we unexpectedly discovered that it was Dad\’s body guidance that touched the chord of Maodou\’s movement. This is because mothers communicate more with their children verbally, while fathers communicate with their children mainly through body movements. When he was a child, Maodou didn\’t like to crawl. His father would crawl in front with his butt sticking out, and Maodou would happily crawl in the back. Mao Dou doesn\’t like riding bikes, so his dad leads the game in front of him, and Mao Dou happily rides behind and chases after him. I secretly thought: The father in Maodou’s eyes is probably a humanoid smart game console! A report from the Brain Science Research Center of Harvard University shows that the interaction between father and baby makes up for the shortcomings caused by the mother\’s excessive care and careful care. It brings more brain stimulation to the child and promotes the interaction between neurons in the baby\’s brain. Establishing more and better connections plays a key role in children\’s intellectual development. Have you noticed that 99% of the people who read parenting books and listen to parenting lectures are mothers? Dad comes rarely. It seems that now it should be the mother’s job to educate and take care of the children, while the father’s responsibility is only to bring money home from work. But one day after Maodou’s father finished playing games with his son, he said to me with deep emotion: “Money cannot accompany children’s growth; money cannot cultivate children’s ability to interact with society; money cannot enable children to have better language skills; money cannot help children have better language skills; Money cannot make children smarter and more obedient; money cannot make children have a truly happy marriage in the future. Money cannot do all of this, but a father can do all of this. Children who exercise more will Children who are smart and have developed limbs have less simple minds. Charles Hillman of the University of Illinois in the United States conducted a study. In the study, he compared the brain activity of 20 students after sitting quietly and walking for 20 minutes. From the picture below We can see that children who walked for 20 minutes have significantly more active brains than children who simply sit still. Children who exercise regularly are smarter. This is because: when we exercise, we produce dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, which Three neurotransmitters greatly promote intelligence. Moreover, our boys need more exercise. Research shows that the volume of boys’ cerebellum is about 14% larger than that of girls. Generally speaking, the size of various parts of the brain is related to its size. proportional to the total amount of tasks to be tackled, which means that boysFrom a physiological mechanism, they are more active than girls. Therefore, when at home, parents should create more opportunities for the little boy to get active, instead of forcing him to read picture books all day long and complaining, \”Why doesn\’t my child like to read books?\”… △ A 3-year-old Maodou is kicking Different ages require different sports. Maodou Mom will briefly list some here. Parents aged 0 to 1 can do passive exercises such as baby exercises, massage and caressing for their children, or let the children lie on the carpet to do exercises such as raising their heads, turning over, crawling, etc., and play games such as rope toys, bending to pick up objects, and rolling balls. . Children aged 1 to 2 years old should be allowed to walk, run, jump, go up and down steps, throw balls and other sports, and play games such as picking up leaves, squatting to play in the sand, and kicking a ball. 2 to 3 years old can do sports such as running, jumping, climbing, and going up and down stairs, and play games such as ball jump, standing long jump, toe walking, and shadow stepping. To make children smarter, don’t praise them as “smart.” My graduate tutor told us in the first class: “When developmental psychology talks about educating children, the word ‘smart’ is the most taboo. \”We were all stunned, huh?\” The instructor explained: This is because children and parents have very different understandings of \”smart\”. Children will think: \”If I am smart, I can solve any problem effortlessly. I am smart, so I don\’t have to put in too much effort.\” A child who is always praised as \”smart\” may say \”I am very smart\”. The \”smart\” frame lacks these qualities: not giving up, having fun in the process, and greater resilience. Therefore, I would like to share with you my family\’s list of \”praising children\”, which can not only cleverly avoid praising children for being smart, but also express my appreciation for children. First, praise hard work – say to the child: \”You work very hard!\” Maodou once climbed a mountain. In the eyes of adults, the low steps are like towering mountains to children. He climbed a few steps and then wanted to cheat. He asked me to hold him, and I encouraged him to climb halfway up the mountain, and then said to him: \”You are working really hard!\” There were many times when Maodou was afraid of the new upgraded version of the puzzle. When he tried When he finally got it right after making several mistakes, I would not praise him for being smart. I would only say: \”You worked really hard in the face of difficulties!\” Second, praise perseverance – praising the child, \”Although it is difficult, you have never been able to do it.\” Give up.\” Grit is currently the most popular educational concept in the United States. Grit is simple to say, it means that a child \”can do one thing very immersedly for a long time.\” This reminds me of Edamame just learning to ride a scooter. For him, who is averagely athletic but timid, learning to ride a scooter and a balance bike is not as easy as other children. Several times, when faced with disobedient cars, he became so angry that he wanted to give up, but in the end he persisted. When he finally had the guts to start skating for the first time in his life, I didn\’t praise him for being smart, but I said: \”Awesome! It\’s so difficult, but you never gave up!\” Third, praise the details – praise the child: \”You He has made a lot of progress in XXX!\” Maodou\’s reading ability is slightly better than that of children of the same age, and his friends and neighbors who come here like to praise him for his intelligence. I ask the guest not to say this, but to find out his progress every timePraise him with specific details. For example, when he is no longer satisfied with me reading him a story, but takes the initiative to retell the story to me, I will applaud happily: \”Wow! Maodou can tell a new story again, your expressive ability is better than Yesterday was better!\” Fourth, praise creativity – praise children, \”This method is really innovative!\” I won\’t go into details about this. Children\’s quirky little minds can always come up with much better ideas than adults. Encourage Let them continue their imagination! Fifth, praise courage – praise your children, \”You are not afraid of difficulties at all, it is so rare!\” In short, the word \”smart\” is too vague, and children do not know how to improve. If you want to make your children smarter, do not praise them. The child is smart! Let’s summarize these three items again: 1. Fathers should play more physical games with their children. 2. Exercise more. Children with more developed limbs have less simple minds. 3. Don’t praise your children for being smart.