CCTV reminds us of the first lesson of the 2019 semester: catch up on habits first and then talk about grades

American psychologist William James once said: \”Sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny.\” Good habits are the beginning The key to success, bad habits are an open door to failure! It is not difficult to find that students with excellent grades usually have good study habits, such as the habit of self-study, the habit of previewing in advance, the habit of recording wrong questions, etc. The new semester is about to begin, which is the best time for children to develop good habits. I would like to remind parents and students to develop habits first before talking about grades in the new semester. Once children have good habits, good results will come naturally. It can be said that good habits accompany a child throughout his life and even determine his destiny. Here, I would like to remind all parents that in the new semester, what is more important than focusing on their children’s grades is forcing their children to develop the following 8 good habits. Children who are accustomed to being punctual will inevitably encounter lateness when they go to school. Some parents think that being late for a few minutes is not a big deal. Indeed, it is not a big problem if a child is late for a few minutes now. At most, he will be criticized a few times by the teacher. But if he develops a bad habit of not being punctual, the hidden danger will be great. If a child is not punctual today, he will lose a few minutes of classroom learning. If a child is not punctual tomorrow, he may miss an exam or an interview opportunity. Time is the most precious thing in the world. If you are not punctual, you are not only wasting your own time, but also wasting other people\’s time. An inch of time is worth an inch of gold, but an inch of gold cannot buy an inch of time. Punctuality is a requirement for oneself, and it is also a kind of respect for others. In the new semester, children must develop a good habit of punctuality, get up on time, arrive at school on time, and complete the day\’s learning tasks on time. Let children cherish time and be the masters of time. The habit of planning is to make everything in advance, otherwise it will be ruined. It is equally important for children to have a plan when doing things. Many children study very hard every day, listen carefully in class, and do a lot of exercises after class, but they always fail in their studies. To a large extent, it is because children\’s learning is not planned. Although they work hard, it is all in vain. Studies have shown that students with excellent academic performance have a common characteristic, that is, they study in a planned and step-by-step manner. It can be seen that planning is very important for children\’s learning. Before the start of the new semester, parents should urge their children to make a study plan, and scientifically and reasonably arrange their children\’s learning tasks for each stage and daily learning tasks according to their children\’s learning characteristics and habits. It is also important to cultivate the habit of planning everything in your children so that they can be organized no matter what they do. Reading habits say that if you want to educate your children well, please teach them to read first! For children who cannot read, their time and space are restricted by the world in front of them. Reading can allow children to appreciate different lives, realize their own shortcomings and shallowness, and always remain humble and cautious. Knowledge affects vision, vision determines the pattern, and the pattern affects a person\’s life. Reading is a lifelong thing. It can not only enrich children\’s knowledge, but also improve children\’s thinking and imagination abilities. Through reading, you can feel that \”there is a road to the mountain of books and diligence is the path, and there is no limit to the sea of ​​learning and hard work.\”The true meaning of \”making a boat\” becomes inner clarity, noble quality, more elegant, more confident, and more knowledgeable. Reading is a noble behavior with the lowest threshold. There are no children who don\’t like reading, only parents who don\’t pay enough attention to reading. Let your children develop the habit of reading, which will benefit them throughout their lives! The habit of previewing is \”listen to the teacher in class, work around the exercises after class, and work hard before the exam.\” This is the study habit of most children. Without previewing, in class I can only listen passively and have no time to think for myself. I can only try my best to stuff everything the teacher said into my mind. After a class, I seem to understand everything, but when I do the questions, I seem to understand nothing. This is the class The disadvantages of not previewing in advance. Let children develop the good habit of previewing in advance. This is an important way to cultivate independent learning spirit and self-study ability, and improve the efficiency of listening to lectures. Preview teaching materials in advance, search for information independently, and study the main points and key points of new knowledge. Discover difficult problems so that they can be solved in class, and take the initiative in listening to the class, making the class more targeted. Children can not only follow the teacher\’s ideas in class, but also think independently with ease, making the class more efficient and learning knowledge more thoroughly. , the children\’s academic performance will naturally and steadily improve. The habit of review Confucius said: \”Reviewing the past and learning the new can make you a teacher.\” \”Children who don\’t know how to review after class will gradually forget the knowledge no matter how deep they learn it. Reviewing before the exam is equivalent to learning new knowledge all over again. For children who can\’t review, the higher the grade, the worse their grades will be. Affected. Knowledge cannot be learned in one go. There must be a process of continuous summarization, induction, and consolidation, in order to organize the fragmented knowledge into a knowledge framework, integrate it, and truly \”learn\”. Those children who are good at learning, Generally, we have the habit of reviewing. Review in time after class to consolidate the new knowledge learned that day. Review in time after the first stage of knowledge learning is completed to deepen the systematic understanding and memory of knowledge. Conduct a general review before the exam to sort out all the content learned. Systematize knowledge and achieve the state of drawing inferences from one example. Montessori, the famous Italian educationist, once said: “The best learning method for children is to let them concentrate on learning. \”Children\’s education expert Stena once said: \”Only when children first form a habit of concentration can they devote themselves wholeheartedly to their careers in the future and not be distracted by other things. \”Focus is a prerequisite for a person\’s success, and it is also a necessary condition for children to achieve good results. For children, the earlier they develop the habit of concentration, the more beneficial it will be for their future study life and even their work as adults. Benefits. Therefore, cultivating children\’s concentration as early as possible and letting them learn to focus on something and not be easily influenced by the outside world is very important for children\’s learning and future life. Thinking Habits from a Harvard Graduate The father said that after the child started to have basic language skills at the age of one or two, he inspired the child to ask at least three whys a day. It can be any question, everything he sees, hears, thinks, and everything that happens around him , you will be rewarded if you ask. If you have the ability, ask your father. Dad uses question marks onA never-ending engine is installed in the heart of a child, which also develops the habit of thinking in the child, which is inspiring to us. Parents are their children\’s first teachers. If parents can often use heuristic questions at home, they can intelligently guide their children to observe and think, and at the same time be willing to share their opinions and perceptions. Children who grow up in such an environment, why worry about having no ideas and thinking? When children develop the habit of positive thinking, they will not only be able to follow the teacher\’s ideas in class and think about problems on their own, but they will also be able to ask questions in life. When children keep thinking, they are constantly learning. The habit of organizing wrong question sets Engels said: \”No matter where you learn, it is not as fast as learning from the consequences of your own mistakes.\” Children\’s learning is a process of constant making and correcting mistakes. If the child can gather all the wrong questions in the study together, guide the child to reflect and analyze the reasons for the error, then the child can avoid making mistakes on the same question. The wrong question set learning method is a process of constantly refining wrong questions, which runs through the process of learning new knowledge and reviewing old knowledge. Constantly reflect on your own learning ideas, constantly correct the mistakes you have made, and constantly check for gaps in what you have learned. Establishing a wrong question set is to allow children to reflect on themselves when making mistakes, so that children will not take the same detour after going through one detour. This is the greatest help to children\’s learning by establishing a wrong question set. A person\’s behavioral habits are not formed overnight. The reason why he can grow into an excellent person must have good habits that are different from others. Education starts with cultivating good habits in children. Only by cultivating good habits from an early age can children benefit from them throughout their lives. A new semester, a new beginning, let us seize the time to cultivate good children\’s habits, so that they can better devote themselves to study and life!