Child, you look so low when you bully others.

The \”bullying incident\” at Zhongguancun No. 2 Primary School in Beijing reminded me of the incident involving my colleague\’s child. Just after the Spring Festival this year, my colleague Yang Yang asked me for help, hoping that his child would go to kindergarten. The child was previously taken care of by his grandparents. He originally planned to enter the kindergarten after the summer vacation, but did not register in advance. During the Spring Festival, Yang Yang stayed with his son for a few days. He felt that the child had bad habits and decided to let him go to school early. I have a relative who works as a teacher in a large kindergarten. After contacting him for a long time, he finally got a spot. But just three days later, Yang Yang\’s son persuaded him to quit. My relative called me and told me the reason: This child had hit several children in the past few days since he came here. When the teacher pulled him, he kicked and bit him like crazy. At noon, when the children were all sleeping, he secretly painted faces on the sleeping children while the teacher wasn\’t paying attention. When his parents came to pick him up after school, they lied and said the teacher hit him. After three days, the teachers were so exhausted that they had no choice but to send the child out of the kindergarten on the grounds that he was too young. When I got off work, I met Yang Yang taking his son home. I asked: Baby, why are you not well-behaved in kindergarten? The child raised his eyebrows and said to me: My grandfather said, if you see who is bad, kick him as hard as you can! Looking at the backs of Yang Yang and his son walking away, I was stunned for a long time. Parents educate their children in this way, no wonder they are so overbearing. I wrote before about a little bully named Pang Dun in junior high school. He would fight with fists and kicks whenever they disagreed, and when he couldn\’t beat him, he would call his father for help. His father was even more \”strongly supportive\” and personally went into battle and gave one of our classmates a concussion. Pang Dun was expelled because of this incident and lost the opportunity to continue his studies. When we met again many years later, Pang Dun was painting the exterior walls of our building. His face showed reluctance and helplessness towards his fate. Life is like this. Sometimes, a fork in the road determines your life. Parents play a key role in the critical period of children\’s growth. I remember when I was in elementary school, we were divided into classes, and I sat at the same table with a boy. At that time, boys and girls were not as friendly as today\’s children. A \”38th line\” was always drawn on the table, half for each person, and no one could cross the line. One day in the self-study class, my arm crossed the line while doing my homework. My deskmate pricked me with a compass. It was September, not long after school started. I was wearing very thin clothes and screamed and cried. It happened that the head teacher came in, happened to see it, and asked what was going on, so I complained to him. The teacher said something harsh to my deskmate. I can’t remember the exact words. The general idea was: Boys who have no future bully girls. The consequence of my complaint was that the second time I crossed the line, I was stabbed even harder. I didn\’t dare to hit him back for fear that he would hit me, so the only way to resist was to sue the teacher. The teacher was also very angry. Although the term \”campus bullying\” did not exist at that time, he was still angry that a boy bullied a girl, so he invited his parents. It was his father who came, a very honest-looking uncle. The teacher called my deskmate and me to the office and told him about it in front of his father. His father kept apologizing to the teacher and touched my head and said: Girl, if he bullies you again, tell your uncle and see if I can’t beat him to death! From then on, I really never got beaten again. During recess, the boy even played tricks with me.game. Today, he has his own company and is considered a successful person. We have interacted several times and he behaves like a gentleman. I teased him about bullying me, and he smiled sheepishly and said: \”When I was a child, my grandma brought me up and she spoiled me to death. When I fought with other children, if I was beaten by others, my grandma would destroy their house. Come on; if I hit someone, my grandma would pretend not to notice. After I went to school, I went home to follow my parents. They especially didn’t like my domineering look. Because of this, I received a lot of beatings from my father. However, If my parents were like my grandma, they would probably destroy me. Behind every naughty child, there is a naughty parent. The parent is the gardener. If he can prune the long and crooked branches in time, the small tree will become useful; If left alone, this little tree will have a greater chance of becoming disabled.\” Yes, every child is born an angel, and what determines a child\’s character depends on what kind of enlightenment education he received at the beginning of his life. I also hope that every parent can be an excellent gardener and cultivate their children into useful things. Instead of just indulging your child and bullying him in school, that would be really not good for him. If you bully others, seriously, it will leave a lifelong shadow on them, and if you hit someone\’s hand, you will open a door called \”scum\”. You will become a devil in the eyes of your classmates. Everyone is afraid of you and avoids you. You have no real friends or true friendship. The arrogance you think you have is just a despicable lack of tutoring. The way you bully others is so low. If this continues, your life path will become narrower and narrower, and you will step into a tight dead end. This kind of life is definitely not what you want, right? In this world, the greatest power is gentleness, not fists. Doing evil will eventually kill you. No one will become a great person because of doing evil. The Correction Chapter of \”The Four Trainings of Liao Fan\” says: If you correct small mistakes, you will naturally not make big mistakes. Knowing your mistakes can make a lot of improvements. From now on, be a kind person, and only then will good luck come to you unexpectedly. My child, I wish you could understand these principles when you are very young, instead of only understanding them after you have to pay the price of your life. If your parents are just bear parents, I can only hope that you can be upright and upright, listen more to your teachers, read the books of sages, and be kind to the people you meet. May you treat the world gently, because only in this way will you be treated gently by the world.