Children are the best teachers, bring me back my sense of life

We talk all day about how to educate children and how to make him a better \”him\”. But sometimes, he will use his way to teach us vivid life philosophy lessons and help us become better \”us\”. Let’s see if you have such a similar experience~01 Brave Heart During the Qingming Festival holiday, we originally planned to spend a few days leisurely with Xiaochuan at home, strolling in the park, reading books, and playing a few games of chess. Unfortunately, smog hit Beijing, and we had to take him to quickly escape to Chongli, Zhangjiakou, where we caught up with the last day of operation of the ski resort. Dad suggested going skiing: \”Skiing in spring is so fun. The weather is not cold and it is very comfortable. There are so few people now.\” But I didn\’t want to go in the bottom of my heart. Before Xiaochuan, I had skated several times and fell miserably every time. I was really scared. \”But, mom, I want to try.\” Xiaochuan was eager to give it a try. \”It\’s okay, don\’t worry, I\’m here!\” Dad assured him, patting his chest. If you don’t raise a child, you never know what surprises he will bring you. It was Ogawa\’s first time skiing, and he actually skied well, sliding to the bottom of the slope very smoothly and even gracefully. \”Mom, I just fell down once. Skiing is so much fun, I want to continue skiing.\” He was still enjoying the fun. Looking at his proud and excited little face, I suddenly became brave and quickly learned to ski that I couldn\’t learn in N years. That day, our family of three had a great time. Once upon a time, we were no longer so brave, and became more and more cautious, afraid of wolves before and tigers behind. We had several small setbacks, and we were even more afraid of getting hurt and refused to try again. Children’s fearless spirit of adventure can often awaken our dormant fighting spirit. Only by being brave can we find a better version of ourselves. 02 \”Experience\” of people who have lived there. After dinner a few days ago, our family of three went for a walk in the park. Before going out, Ogawa asked to bring Ultraman Victory\’s hand puppet. It was already past 8pm, and there were very few people in the park. \”Now the park belongs to me alone!\” Hearing Xiaochuan\’s whisper, we both laughed in unison. Carefully handing the Ultraman hand puppet to me, Xiaochuan began to play happily, going down each slide and practicing on each fitness equipment. When I was about to go home, I suddenly discovered that one of Ultraman Victory\’s feet had fallen off. \”Mom, what should I do?\” Xiaochuan suddenly became anxious. This is his favorite toy. We quickly comforted him: \”It\’s okay, Ultraman without one leg would be cool too.\” But Ogawa didn\’t buy it and wanted to go back and look for it. \”Don\’t go back and look for it. We have been to so many places and we don\’t even know where it was lost. Besides, it\’s so dark, how can we find it with such small feet!\” We tried to stop him. But he insisted on his opinion: \”No, I want to go back and search! I want to search the place I just walked through!\” After saying that, he turned around and walked back. My father and I looked at each other and shook our heads at the same time. This child is so stubborn sometimes. Seeing his figure disappear into the darkness, we quickly followed him. Before we could catch up, Xiaochuan ran over cheering: \”Found it! Found it! Dad, Mom, I found it!\” \”No, I really found it?!\” We were completely dumbfounded and couldn\’t believe it. , until he saw the mini feet in Ogawa\’s hands. sometimesAt this time, \”experience\” is really a double-edged sword. While it enriches our wisdom, it may also solidify our thinking. \”This thing is simply impossible.\” We have made many similar judgments easily, and may have missed many opportunities because of this. There is no so-called \”experience\”. A child sees everything as fresh, and he always explores and tries with a \”first time\” mentality. Don\’t always use your identity as a \”experienced person\” to guide him or even make decisions for him. Accompany him to discover, and our spirit of exploration may slowly come back. 03 After the Chinese New Year, I took my parents and Xiaochuan to Sanya to avoid the haze. Because it was a last-minute decision, I booked a hotel in a hurry. Very disappointed when we arrived at the hotel. I never ask for a hotel to be luxurious, as long as it is tidy and clean. Looking at the dust on the floor and the looming cobwebs in the corners, I felt very entangled in my heart. I kept feeling annoyed and blaming myself. Xiaochuan was still as excited, looking here and there: \”Mom, look, there\’s a ceiling fan on the roof! It\’s my first time to live in a room with a ceiling fan! The bathroom is so big and the floor is beautiful.\” Look. Looking at Xiaochuan\’s jubilant figure, I suddenly felt that I was being too pretentious. As people grow up, their lives get better and better, and they seem to have more and more demands. \”This won\’t work, and that won\’t work.\” Things are okay, but they are too pretentious. We often say that high demands are mainly for children. As everyone knows, he doesn\’t care at all. He can take things as they come and be happy no matter what, as long as he has the love and company of his parents. If we can let go of many irrelevant \”requirements\” and \”pursuits\” and learn to \”take things as they come\” like a child, we will surely reduce a lot of anxiety and add a lot of happiness. As people grow up, while pursuing better things, some beautiful things are also leaving us. Watching young children and accompanying them as they grow up, we are fortunate to be able to recapture these wonderful things. His vivid figure, smart smiling face, and casual \”words of wisdom\” have always reminded us: Only by staying true to our original aspirations and having curiosity and perception about life can we move forward better.