Children exposed to parental verbal violence

Some parents may think that their child is too naughty and loves to get into trouble, so scolding him is no big deal. However, they never realize that verbal violence is as harmful to a child\’s psychology as physical punishment, and the damage to a child\’s self-esteem is irreparable. In life, many parents always add some discriminatory words without thinking when criticizing and educating their children. They think that doing so is good for their children and a sign of responsibility. Little do they know that they are stabbing the child\’s heart and inflicting verbal violence on the child. According to psychological experts, verbal violence is more harmful to children than corporal punishment. In a sense, it is more destructive and can be described as \”killing people invisible.\” Some children may suffer mental disorder, lose the courage to live, or even commit suicide because they have been unable to relieve the mental burden caused by verbal violence. Parents\’ verbal violence will cause serious damage to their children\’s self-esteem and self-confidence. If things go on like this, they will easily lose their need and recognition for self-esteem, completely abandoning their self-esteem and self-confidence, and continue to sink. Many parents often ridicule and scold their children in front of others, which is tantamount to continuing to stimulate their children. At this time, some subtle changes will occur in the child\’s psychology. For example, when seeing classmates talking, they will think that they are mocking themselves, and they will develop a fear of classmates and teachers. From this, isolation and low self-esteem will take root. How to practice eloquence and language expression skills between 3 and 12 years old. All 40 lessons in the education expert class mp3+pdf. After children are abused and hurt by their parents, they often have no way to vent and have to store these negative emotions in their hearts. At a certain moment, a huge Mental stress may evolve into an impulse of revenge from the inside out, causing them to take extreme actions against others and society, directly affecting and endangering society, and embarking on a wrong path that harms both others and themselves. Verbal violence is like a sharp sword that can deliver a fatal blow. Children\’s minds are not yet mature and their endurance is relatively poor. As parents, you should adopt scientific and correct education methods. Otherwise, it will be easy to push your children into the abyss of despair and destroy an originally positive and optimistic child. So, how can parents avoid verbal violence against their children? (1) Do not have too high expectations for your children. Many parents have too high expectations for their children. If their children cannot achieve their preset goals, they will be disappointed, so they will say irrational things without hesitation. Broke the child\’s heart. (2) Parents should lower their posture as much as possible and put themselves on an equal footing with their children. Never allow their own authority to override their children, forgetting that children also have their own inner world, self-esteem and self-confidence. Children who don\’t get the respect they deserve can easily become distorted. (3) Treat your children’s mistakes calmly and control your own emotions. When parents are angry, they can easily hurt others and even say angry words that they will regret for the rest of their lives. At this time, parents must learn to force themselves to change the environment and go outside to see the scenery and relax. In fact, when you calm down, you will find that things are not as bad as you thought, and the child is not useless. Think more about your childrenOn the other hand, the anger will gradually dissipate. If you educate and correct your children at this time, you can avoid saying extreme words. In fact, children also have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Usually, they can realize their mistakes. If parents pursue too much, it will easily damage their children\’s self-confidence. No matter what the circumstances, do not easily make negative comments such as \”You are so useless\” or label your children as \”bad boy\” or \”idiot\”. However, rejecting verbal violence does not mean abandoning educational principles. Children\’s awareness of self-discipline is relatively weak. If parents do not pursue their mistakes, the children are likely to commit the same offense again and again. Therefore, the principles of education cannot be shaken, and children must be guided to distinguish right from wrong. The key to rejecting verbal violence is to master the proportion and method.