Children often say 3 sentences, but they are actually asking you for \”help\”. Parents, please don\’t take it seriously.

Parents care about their children\’s healthy growth, not only physical but also mental health. The outside world is fiercely competitive, and parents are also trying to urge their children to make progress. The pursuit of progress and hard work should be the main theme of life. Always observe the child\’s emotional state, observe the signals sent by the child at any time, pay attention to what the child says, do your best to help the child, and become a strong backing for the child. Children often talk about these three sentences, which are actually asking you for \”help\”. Parents, don\’t take it seriously! 1. I don’t want to go to school. When a child says “I don’t want to go to school,” parents should pay close attention to it and find out what the reason is. Don’t be too busy blaming the child or reprimanding the child: “Going to school is your obligation. Why are you so unsatisfied? Are you willing to go to school? \”If a child feels happy and confident in school, and is encouraged and praised, the child will like to go to school very much and show off his achievements and abilities. If your child doesn\’t want to go to school, ask him why. Is he getting into trouble with his classmates or being criticized by the teacher? He still can\’t keep up with the learning progress, his grades are temporarily lagging behind, and he has a bit of low self-esteem. Communicate with the teacher, have a heart-to-heart talk with the child, find out the reasons, eliminate the reasons, let the child put down the psychological burden, face the problem bravely, be a warrior, overcome the difficulties, and let the child regain the confidence and happiness in school. 2. It’s really boring. Children find it boring. Maybe they haven’t found their own interests and strengths, don’t know what to do well, and don’t know how to arrange their spare time. This requires scientific guidance from parents. First of all, they should accompany their children to participate in interesting activities and feel happy. Life is colorful, so that children can have rich experiences. Let your children have something to do. There are so many learning activities waiting for your children to explore, such as reading, playing sports, listening to music, watching English blockbusters, developing talents, etc. Don’t let your time go to waste. Time is fair to everyone. Whoever cherishes time, grasps it well, plans well, and implements it conscientiously will become the winner. If learning becomes a habit and a habit becomes natural, children will feel the joy of learning, have a sense of accomplishment, and will no longer say the word \”boring\”. 3. They don’t like me. My children say: “They don’t like me.” Tell your children that it doesn’t matter. It’s impossible for everyone to like you. There will always be those who like you and those who don’t. Just be a better version of yourself and develop a confident character. If your child is introverted, not confident, and always feels rejected by others, he may be too sensitive. Take your children to group situations more often, and have the opportunity to participate in speeches or perform on stage. This will train your children\’s courage, make them bold and confident, and their character will become lively and brave. Write at the end to accompany your child\’s healthy growth. You must pay attention to your child\’s words and deeds, but also behave calmly, not put too much pressure on your child, enjoy the beauty of learning and life, and ensure your physical and mental health.