Children who do not study well are most likely to suffer a lifetime of low status and humiliation

Yesterday, I accidentally broke the screen of my mobile phone. At noon, I took advantage of my lunch break to go to the mobile phone hypermarket downstairs of my unit to get my phone repaired. Open the back cover and remove the parts… The after-sales guy skillfully operated this set of processes that he has already used for a long time. I looked at the various types of mobile phones in the display window in boredom. \”Sister, how fast are mobile phones updated nowadays? How about just replacing it with a new one?\” I looked up and saw a girl with exquisite makeup and decent work clothes. Upon closer inspection, this outfit seemed inconsistent with her actual age. She had a bright and sunny face, but it made her look several years older. I didn\’t answer her question and asked her: \”Are you the shopping guide here?\” Although the little girl was a little immature, she was not shy: \”Yes, sister, what style do you like? How about this one? It\’s selling well now. It’s very popular. Many young and beautiful sisters have this phone…\” I smiled and waved my hand and said, \”The phone has been used for less than a year. It would be a waste to replace it with a new one. It will work just as well as changing the screen. . I think you are quite young. How old are you this year?\” \”I am 16 this year.\” \”Are you a student doing summer work?\” \”Yes, I work part-time every summer.\” \”16 I\’m about to take the college entrance examination. In the final sprint, it\’s best to focus on studying.\” \”The college entrance examination will be next year.\” The little girl saw that I was not interested in buying and there were few customers at noon, so she started chatting with me. \”Sister, why do you have to take the college entrance examination to go to university? In the past two years, I have sold cosmetics and clothes. When the business was good, I could earn five or six thousand. My cousin paid for the college entrance examination. After a lot of hard work and hard work, I graduated from college in June this year, but I don’t earn as much as me!” “Sister, you said I don’t earn less than those college students, and whether I can study or go to college is a question. Is it so important? Why should I suffer that kind of sin and suffer that much?\” Is it important? Without a doubt, important! Let’s talk about two real examples from Rui’s mother first. In the alley where Rui\’s mother lived when she was a child, there were two sisters, one called A and the other called B. When A and B were in junior high school together in the town, their grades were evenly matched and both were the best in the class. After entering high school in the county, A gradually became fascinated by the outside world. In order not to be ridiculed by her classmates in the city as a \”nerd from the village\”, she began to gather with a group of uneducated girls to talk about food and clothing, skip classes, read novels, and chase stars. She thought that with these sisters, she would have the whole world. Like those other sisters, she began to look down on B, who didn\’t know how to put on makeup or dress up, and only knew how to study all day long. She called her a nerd and stupid because she only knew how to study. But B, no matter how much A ridiculed and brainwashed him, he remained unmoved and continued to study and study selflessly. I don’t need to tell you the result. Everyone can guess it. B ranked first in the county that year and was admitted to a 985 prestigious university. Later, he applied for public funding to study abroad for graduate school, and met his current husband during the study abroad process. Now, she has already settled in Beijing, working as a teacher in a university, and leading a colorful life. As for A, the score in the college entrance examination can only allow her to attend a higher vocational school. From higher vocational educationAfter graduation, A started working in sales. Because he is good-looking and eloquent, his work goes smoothly and he earns some money. The furniture at home has been replaced with new ones. At that time, B was still buried in the university laboratory. At that time, the neighbors in the alley said that kid A was as promising as someone who had gone to college. Even I envy A very much, I envy her life, wearing fashionable clothes, exquisite makeup, and earning a lot of money. Later, the company A worked for closed down, and as she got older, she was unable to compete with those articulate and sweet-looking girls in her late teens, and she encountered obstacles at work. As a last resort, he followed his parents\’ arrangements and got married early. He accepted a marriage that he did not want and opened a canteen on the corner of the town. I met him a few times when I went back to my hometown, and he was obviously much older than his peers. My mother said that her husband was not good to her and often beat her. Every time after being beaten, she would chatter endlessly like Mrs. Xianglin: \”I really regret not studying hard when I was young, otherwise I would be in this situation.\” However, regret is useless. When we are so young, it is too easy to focus on petty profits and be blinded by temptation, thinking that life will always go smoothly and youth will never grow old. But when we grow up and mature slowly, we will find that what we spent a few years of crazy youth in exchange for is a lifetime of humility and low status. That 16-year-old girl may now be proud of her generous salary and despise her cousin\’s high investment and low income. However, has she ever thought that everything has a step-by-step process? After all, her cousin has just graduated. As long as she Use your heart and brain, everything is on the way to registration. I believe that if she really chooses to give up studying and university, then their lives may be very different. Nowadays, many people are talking about a few celebrities with low education but successful careers who preach the theory that \”reading is useless\”. First, pay attention to the quantifier, which is \”several\”, not \”some\”, nor \”many\”. The probability of it is very small. It not only requires your own efforts, but also requires the right time, place, and people. The success rate can be said to be very small. Secondly, do not use the nouveau riche who made their fortune by transporting coal in the village as an example of \”the uselessness of studying\”. They cannot support this proposition. Those who are truly successful in their careers, such as Baidu CEO Robin Li and Sohu CEO Zhang Chaoyang, which one of them is not highly educated? Robin Li studied at Peking University as an undergraduate, and Zhang Chaoyang graduated from Tsinghua University. There is also Alibaba’s Jack Ma. He took the college entrance examination three times despite the opposition of his family and became what he is today. A must-read lecture for parents once said that academic qualifications cannot determine a person\’s life, and a diploma cannot completely prove a person\’s ability, but some opportunities are more often reserved for those who have this piece of paper. When recruiting, many companies will almost always clearly state the academic requirements for the position. Some positions require at least a bachelor\’s degree or above. A diploma from a university may not help you achieve success, but at least it can give you a little bit of ability and qualifications when you want to get rid of some kind of suffering, help you open a new door, and give you more opportunities. Opportunities to choose and see a bigger world. With Rui MaLao He, a courier whom the company has cooperated with for a long time, has a severe lumbar disc herniation, but he does not dare to take even one day off. Because just taking one day off means that the perfect attendance bonus and subsidy are all gone, the income is halved, and there are still two children at home who are going to school and a wife who is unemployed. He could change his job, but without a degree, even if he changed his job, it would be nothing more than another job that was hard, tiring and earning little money, and then he would be trapped in another humble and tiring life, unable to move. Therefore, I hope parents can tell their children not to think that studying is hard. If they can\’t even bear this bit of pain, how can they swallow the pain of life. If they choose to give up because they cannot bear the pain, when they enter the society, they will find that when facing the powerful enemy of destiny, they are like an unarmed soldier. Even though they were beaten black and blue, they did not fight back. Power. At that time, they will understand that studying is not bitter, but life without studying is bitter.