Children who have seen the big world are destined to be outstanding! So what does it mean to see the world?

Observe the children around you, and you will find that some children feel particularly \”excellent\”. They are polite, not frightened, lively and cheerful, have no stage fright, and are very independent; but some children are particularly arrogant and rude. Li, afraid of strangers, being submissive and unwilling to let go, asking parents for their opinions on everything. Why is there such a difference? The reason lies in the difference in \”knowledge\”. There is a question on Zhihu: \”How important is it to have seen the world?\” One of the answers resonated with countless netizens: being able to be particular, able to make do, able to enjoy the best and endure the worst. Having seen the world, they will naturally exude a different temperament among the crowd, gentle but powerful, humble but connotative. Why are some children particularly “outstanding”? When chatting with a few friends, a topic came up: Have you ever seen particularly outstanding children, what do their parents look like? Then everyone listed the parents of the \”excellent children\” around them. Although most of them are entrepreneurs, university professors, and highly educated people, there are also some parents whose family background is very \”ordinary\”. Friend A said that she knew a mother from a second-tier city. The family is neither wealthy nor scholarly, but this mother\’s child is less than 5 years old and has already visited many scenic spots and historic sites in the country with her mother. On weekends, I often follow my mother to the city where I live or nearby cities, and discover all kinds of fun things, such as making painted pottery, watching puppet shows, hiking, etc. This kid has experienced many things that adults have never experienced. Therefore, even though he is still young, he is more stable than the children around him. He will not get stage fright when he comes to unfamiliar situations, nor will he go crazy when he comes to familiar situations. Moreover, most of the time, this child is always full of curiosity. Very opinionated. Friend B said that there is a mother who is a former CCTV director and is now a housewife. They did not buy a house, but still lived in an old small house assigned to them by their work unit. They were extremely simple in material terms. But her work often requires her to travel around, so she takes her child with her (who has never been weaned). Such a mother will definitely produce good children, and this was confirmed after meeting her children later. I deeply feel the importance of tutoring for children. It also corresponds to the saying: A good education is to fight for your mother. Outstanding children must be children who have seen the world, but behind them there must be parents with \”vision and height\”. What impact does being knowledgeable have on children? Hemingway once said: \”If you are lucky enough to have been to Paris when you were young, then no matter where you go in the future, it will follow you for the rest of your life.\” There is also a very popular saying about this sentence now: the books you have read, The road you travel will eventually become a part of your body and mind. There is an old Chinese saying: Read ten thousand books and travel ten thousand miles. It’s about the importance of seeing the world. If reading thousands of books is to enhance the depth of ideological understanding, then traveling thousands of miles is to broaden the breadth of your horizons. I deeply agree with this. Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles, and traveling thousands of miles is not as good as reading countless people. So, what is the point of exposing children to the world? Because they have seen the world, it is easier for children to maintain a certain attitude toward material things.Natural tranquility and natural restraint of desires. They do not need to buy and buy to satisfy themselves, but have infinite thirst for the spirit. They will know that a person should not be limited to the world, but should travel all over the world. If a person works very hard, he will have a chance to succeed. Everything the world has given to children, the roads it has taken them on, and the people they have met will shine brightly in their years and remain forever. Do you have to be rich to let your children see the world? If you want your children to be knowledgeable, you must also become knowledgeable parents. Let children understand the vastness of the world, the breadth of the future, and the meaning of hard work, so that they will have a peaceful heart and vibrant courage. We cannot let our children\’s world only cover a few miles. We hope that the world they see is open, rich, beautiful, and diverse. But does it have to cost a lot of money to expose your child to the world? the answer is negative. Knowledgeable parents do not mean rich parents. I think a successful mother said it very well. A child who has seen the world cannot be cultivated by taking the child to enroll in a class, travel and wander around outside. Because a child raised in this way can only turn the journey he has experienced into a picture in his mind, but it cannot be integrated into his soul and become his lifelong temperament. The writer Long Yingtai once said: \”To teach a hundred aesthetics classes, it is better to let the children walk in nature for a day; to teach one hundred hours of architectural design, it is better to let the students touch a few ancient cities; The skills of literary writing a hundred times are not as good as letting him soil his trousers in the market.\” Some parents do not have a good material life, but through hard work and diligence, they have a peaceful attitude towards everything and a sincerity towards the people they meet. , words and deeds directly affect the children. Because: parents\’ knowledge and vision are more important than parents\’ money; parents\’ letting go and encouragement are more important than paving the way for their children; parents\’ efficient companionship is more important than letting their children sign up for summer camp abroad; preparing a room full of books for their children, It\’s more important than buying him a house in a school district worth 8 million. There are many things that don’t cost much money. There is no doubt about the importance of children seeing the world, and the parents\’ vision, height and thinking also determine how much of the world their children can see. The books a child reads and the paths he travels will eventually become part of his body and mind.