Children who love to work are welcome wherever they go

We have three days of Labor Day holiday. On the first day, my son studied painting in the morning and played basketball with his friends in the afternoon. On the second day, we went to the Shanghai Grand View Garden not far from home to let my son experience the \”Dream of Red Mansions\” more intuitively. The artistic charm of this classic Chinese literary masterpiece. On the third day, it was Labor Day. Early in the morning, I asked my son to get up. He lazily refused to move and muttered: \”It\’s finally a day off. Today is Labor Day. Why are you getting up so early? Let me sleep a little longer.\” \”Yes, Labor Day, Labor Day, of course we have to work. ! Come on, let’s do some general cleaning today and have a meaningful Labor Day.” I said. When he heard this, he had no choice but to get up. After breakfast, we divided the work and worked together. I removed and washed the sheets and quilt covers, put away the thick clothes, and took out the summer clothes I was about to wear. My son swept and mopped the floor, wiped the tables, chairs, and window sills. We listened to music while working. In the busyness, the morning passed quickly. Looking at the clean and tidy home, walking barefoot on the clean floor, I feel particularly happy and comfortable. The son admired the fruits of his labor and was very happy. I said: \”Son, there is a saying: Your luck is hidden in a clean room. Why do you say that? Please tell me your own understanding.\” \”A clean room means that the owner loves labor. People who love labor are very good.\” Being diligent, able to endure hardships, and being popular will bring good luck.\” The son said seriously. I applauded his answer: \”If this is a reading comprehension question, I will give you full marks. Can you now understand why your mother wants you to love labor and learn to do housework since you were a child?\” My son nodded. At this time, we all felt hungry, and I suggested going out to eat. My son asked if there was any food at home, and I said yes. He said, \”Just eat it at home. It\’s cheap and hygienic. I\’ll do it. Mom, you can guide me.\” I was surprised and happy. Although my son had cooked a few times, he always cooked noodles in the simplest way. He took the initiative like this This is the first time I asked for stir-fry. I wanted to help choose the dishes, but my son refused. He was determined to finish the lunch independently and would not let me interfere. I had to stand by and chat with him while watching him work. Speaking of celebrities, I asked him who he liked most, and he said he liked Huang Lei. I asked why. He blurted out: \”Because Huang Lei\’s cooking is delicious. I am so happy to be his family. I can always eat delicious food. I want to be a chef in the future!\” I smiled: \”Yes! Then I am so happy. Your father will cook delicious food for me now, and you will cook delicious food for me in the future.” For this meal, my son made shredded potatoes, stir-fried shredded pork with peppers, and tomato and egg soup. Although the dishes were not complicated, But because it contains his love and intention, it tastes particularly delicious. I feel gratified because my son is sensible and capable, and my son is satisfied because he has tasted the fruits of his labor. While eating, there was a wilderness survival program on the TV. We watched and discussed it, admiring the adventurous spirit and survival ability of those people. I asked my son: \”If you were asked to participate in such an activity, would you dare?\” \”Dare! I like to do things, I love labor, I can cook, I will never be hungry wherever I go, and I can also help my teammates survive. Go down.\” He answered without hesitation. Yes, love to moveIf you love to work with your hands, you can be self-sufficient, have enough food and clothing, and have the ability to survive. You can also help others, become a popular person, live a happier life, and bring happiness to others. Looking around, I found that there are many \”little emperors\” whose parents overly pamper them and do not let them do any housework. They only let them study, get high scores, and do well in school. And what will be the final result? When children are young, they may not see anything, but when they become adults, they will see the harm. I have seen some sad cases. There was a young Chinese man who had excellent academic performance and was studying for a doctorate abroad. However, he was expelled from school because he had no life skills, was extremely mentally retarded, and was unable to live a normal life. The reason is that his parents only let him study and took care of everything for him in life, which resulted in him having \”high scores and low abilities\”. Once he left the care of his parents, even the most basic life became a problem and he became a living \” Giant baby\”. There is another case that is even more heartbreaking. A girl from the northwest is the most famous academic in the area. She studied for a postdoctoral degree at a top university in the country and then went to the United States to study for a postdoctoral degree. It was such a double postdoctoral fellow with excellent academic performance. Suddenly one day, he was escorted back to his country. The moment the staff saw her, they were shocked. She is in her 30s, with sparse hair and a lot of white hair. Her face is sallow and full of wrinkles. She looks like an old lady. She also suffers from schizophrenia. It was later learned that her parents never allowed her to do any housework when she was growing up. Her only mission was to study. She knows nothing except studying, is not sociable, cannot communicate, and has become a real nerd. Because of this, she was fired from many work units, and ended up wandering on the streets of a foreign country, where she eventually suffered from mental problems. What a sigh! Rousseau said: In human life, the most important thing is labor training. Without labor, it is impossible to have a normal human life. \”The most beautiful things in our world are created by labor and the clever hands of people.\” This is Gorky\’s famous saying. I have taught my son to love labor since he was very young and teach him to do housework within his ability. I firmly believe that this is the best way to help him grow into a physically and mentally sound person. It is impossible for a person who is industrious, indifferent to food, and lazy to eat to become a useful person. In fact, this method is very effective. My son has mastered many life skills. Because he is capable and helpful, he is very popular in school and gets along well with everyone. Since kindergarten, he has received many labor-related awards, such as \”Little Planting Expert\”, \”Labor Star\”, etc. Learn to be a human being first, then learn. At no time should we put the cart before the horse. The foundation of education is to educate people who are physically and mentally sound.