Children who plan to enter kindergarten in September should start preparing for these things now! (Forward to parents)

In September this year, a large number of children will enter the kindergarten again. With their attachment to their parents and their curiosity about the new environment, they will soon enter a new large group. But for most children, who are used to a free life at home, they will inevitably feel uncomfortable in one way or another after entering kindergarten. So, dear parents, if you plan to send your child to kindergarten this year, you need to start preparing for these things now! 1. Life preparation is different from the free life at home. Kindergarten has a complete set of rules and regulations. In order to help children better adapt to kindergarten life, we must start to help children develop some habits now. 1. Children’s ability to eat independently. Many children cannot eat independently before entering kindergarten, so they are fed by their parents. So from now on, we will start to train our children\’s ability to eat by themselves. Let\’s start with eating with a spoon to improve the child\’s self-care ability so that the child can eat independently in kindergarten. 2. Let the children learn to urinate and defecate on their own. Many parents of new children entering kindergarten have this problem: Facing the new environment, the children do not know how to use the toilet on their own and dare not tell the teacher. They often wet their pants. Therefore, we must consciously train children\’s ability to use the toilet, encourage children to relax, not be nervous, and be sure to ask the teacher for help when they have difficulties. This can greatly reduce the embarrassment of using the toilet after children enter kindergarten. 3. Help children establish the habit of taking a lunch break. Kindergartens all have the habit of taking a lunch break, which not only ensures children’s efficient afternoon activities, but also meets the needs of children’s healthy growth. Therefore, for children who do not have a lunch break habit at noon, parents should help their children establish a lunch break habit. 4. Train children to drink from their own water cups. Some children are introverted. In the first few days after arriving in kindergarten, they are embarrassed to tell the teacher when they are thirsty. However, if they drink less water, their immunity will decrease and they will easily get sick. Therefore, parents should tell their children that they should learn to actively seek help from teachers and be brave children. 5. Consciously talk to your children about kindergarten life. Almost every child will develop separation anxiety after entering kindergarten because they are very unadapted to the new environment. Therefore, parents should usually tell their children more about kindergarten, so that their children can know more about kindergarten, so that when the time comes to enter kindergarten, they will not be very resistant. 2. Psychological preparation In addition to making various preparations for children in life, parents themselves must also be mentally prepared. 1. Crying and fussing Children are young, so don’t expect them to adapt quickly to a strange environment like adults. In the first few days after entering kindergarten, it is inevitable for children to cry. At this time, parents should adjust their mentality and cooperate with teachers to overcome the difficulty of \”separation anxiety\”. 2. Some children are often sick and get sick as soon as they enter the kindergarten. Many parents will have questions, is it because the teacher did not take good care of them? In fact, in addition to poor immunity, part of the reason why children get sick is that anxiety about entering kindergarten causes children to become angry, irritable, in a bad mood, have poor appetite, and their resistance will be even worse. This situation will It will gradually ease as the child adapts to kindergarten life. 3. When I got home, many children complained that they were hungry.Just complain about hunger at home? Just like not having enough to eat in kindergarten, parents should understand this situation in advance. Sometimes, it is because the child is playful or eats slowly and feels full when he sees other children eating; sometimes it is because the child is not used to the food in school and does not want to eat; or because of the child\’s The amount of activity is relatively large, running and jumping and being hungry…all kinds of situations exist. 3. Four major taboos 1. Do not give one day off and three days off to face the crying of their children. Many parents cannot bear it. If their children don’t want to go, they simply don’t go. They have one day off and three days off. In this way, the children will never adapt to kindergarten life. 2. Don’t be submissive. It’s natural for parents to love their children, but don’t be a submissive parent. If you want your children to quickly adapt to kindergarten life, you must learn to be “cruel”, love your children, and be soft but principled. . 3. Snack compensation. Some mothers feel that it is very difficult for their children to go to kindergarten. As soon as they get home, they buy a lot of snacks to make their children happy first. This is very detrimental to cultivating good eating habits in their children. 4. Don’t ask questions about your child if you haven’t seen him for a day. As soon as the child comes out of school, you will surround him and ask questions. \”Did the teacher hit you? Did the children bully you? Have you eaten enough…\” Various questions are guiding children towards negative emotions, which will make them more afraid of kindergarten life. For For a child, kindergarten is the first step for him to leave the original small family and come to the big family of kindergarten. Parents, please be patient and accompany your child to grow up.