Children\’s growth cannot be separated from a responsible society

A tough hospital “experience”. Last Wednesday, I took my daughter Yutong to the Maternal and Child Health Hospital early for vaccination. The second floor of the hospital is the Children\’s Health Department, where children\’s physical examinations, vaccinations, etc. are arranged. Every time I take my children to get vaccinated, the place is always overcrowded, with many parents and children crowded into the limited space. Those who had seats sat down, and those who didn\’t had children walking back and forth in the corridor, which was not very spacious. Many children know that adults are bringing them to get vaccinations, and they have prepared a \”fearful\” posture in advance: crying, acting shameless, shouting to go home… It is a child\’s nature to be afraid of injections, and facing that Few children can handle the thin needles calmly and without fear, especially girls. I recall that when I was a child, I almost kicked the doctor with my foot because I was afraid of injections. The \”joke\” of a child who is afraid of injections has been circulating in the local area for a long time. Therefore, every time I take my children for injections, it is the most troublesome time for me. I do a lot of ideological work in advance, and I also use lollipops to \”tempt\” them. The daughter also solemnly \”expressed\” her agreement. But as soon as he was brought to the doctor\’s aunt, the serious aunt raised a syringe with a thin needle in one hand and prepared to inject the medicine into the medicine bottle. At this moment, the baby was completely \”fallen\”, and the fear in his eyes was enough to kill a hundred flies in an instant. . When her parents followed the doctor\’s instructions and held her hands and feet down so that she could not move, and the thin needle approached the little arm little by little, the child cried with all her strength: \”I need to pee…\” the aunt said. : \”Take her to pee quickly!\” Dad Tong took her out. When he brought her back, the child peed her pants, and her pants, shoes, and socks were all wet. Dad Tong said: I couldn’t find a toilet for a long time. There are no toilets nearby. The child couldn’t hold it in and peed in his pants. After the injection, Dad Tong and I were like eggplants beaten by frost – half wilted. Although I know that most children need to pee temporarily because of fear (this is a psychological reaction of children). But he still criticized her. Seeing our family of three hanging down in the cold morning wind, I suddenly \”awakened\”: Why do we take all the problems of our children on ourselves? Why do we have to look for the cause in ourselves and in that young child every time something goes wrong? It is normal for children to be afraid of injections because they are afraid of peeing. But she wanted to pee but couldn\’t find the toilet, so she had to urinate in her pants. Whose responsibility is it? I don\’t know why such a large child health department doesn\’t have a toilet for the children? Could it be that the various fees we pay are not enough to arrange a toilet for our children? So if a child wants to go to the toilet in a hurry, he has to go to other departments that are far away? No wonder I wet my pants! There is also a grandmother who also takes her granddaughter to get vaccinations. She takes out diapers in advance and puts them on her child. I\’m very surprised why the child still wears diapers when he\’s not young anymore? Grandma said that she had to urinate during the injection and was afraid that she would not be able to find the toilet in time. In fact, the child is very reluctant to wear diapers. She feels shy. Finally, after my grandma persuaded me, I reluctantly put it on. Oh, children who are afraid of injections want to have their ownToilet… For the sake of children, society should take responsibility. In public places, I believe you can write N articles about the various \”hardships\” that parents encounter. Such as restaurants, entertainment venues, and roads. Taking children to a restaurant is a pleasant little blessing. But not every time you are satisfied, because some restaurants only have a few child seats, and you have to hold your child and wait for half a day, waiting for other children to exit the seat after eating, before you can put your baby in the seat. Here, start the \”big meal\” you have been looking forward to for a long time. This is pretty good, but the most speechless thing is that there are no child seats for children in the restaurant. When you ask the waiter, he will tell you with a smile and naturally: \”Sorry, we don\’t have child seats here.\” Dear, haven\’t you seen that many parents come to dine every day with their young children who need to sit in baby seats? There is no better way to perform a thrilling \”crossing the road\” drama than with a baby on the road. There are several kindergartens near our community, which provides great convenience to children and parents. Finally, they don’t have to get up early to drive or take their children to school in distant places. Therefore, every morning, there are many grandparents, parents and mothers on the road holding the little hands of their children, sending each one the future and hope of the motherland to their own kindergarten. There is a clear blue sky and white clouds above our heads. Do you think this scene is warm, energetic and poetic? However, the reality is that the vehicles coming and going will make adults and children always be careful, because some cars and motorcycles will go very fast, and the \”momentum\” of rushing past is to tell you: I am on my way. , get out of my way! So the adults had no choice but to lead the children and quickly \”evade\” from the middle of the road to the side of the road, and \”avoid\” from this side of the road to the other side of the road. One morning, I saw with my own eyes a car driving too fast on the road in front of my daughter\’s kindergarten and knocked an adult to the ground. Fortunately, no children have been hit yet. But will children be next? We are used to rushing, used to blocking the road, and even used to rushing past children who need our adult protection. Many things require our parents\’ own efforts and our own growth to promote the growth of our children. However, many times, it is obviously the responsibility of society and the obligation of the public. Fortunately, there are still many social behaviors that care for children, which warm the hearts of parents and children. For example, if you go to a children\’s hospital, some pediatricians are very careful and considerate. They prepare small toys and snacks in the consulting room. When the child is scared, he looks at the child with clear eyes and a gentle voice: \”Come on, baby, be good, don\’t be afraid. See if there’s anything you like here, uncle?” For example, in a supermarket, when pushing a child sitting in a shopping cart down the elevator, there will be staff at the lower end of the elevator who will lovingly help pull the shopping cart down. For example, in a children\’s playground, there are restrooms nearby for children to use conveniently. It may seem like some small details, but it reveals a kind of social responsibility. Liang Qichao, a modern Chinese thinker and educator, once wrote \”Young China Theory\”, in which he said: \”The wisdom of young people will make the country wise, and the richness of young people will make the country rich.\”, If young people are strong, the country will be strong; if young people are independent, the country will be independent; if young people are free, the country will be free; if young people make progress, the country will progress; if young people are better than Europe, then the country will be better than Europe; if young people are strong on the earth, then the country will be strong on the earth. \”Successive national leaders have also repeatedly emphasized that children are China\’s future and hope. In this case, caring for and caring for children should also be the responsibility of the whole society. The growth of children requires not only the growth of parents, but also the awareness of the whole people. Improve. Society, please think more about your children and think more about them. Doing more details for them can only be beneficial and harmless.