Children’s top ten inner dramas, don’t say you can’t understand them

No.1 Mom: Why don’t you go to bed yet! Child\’s heart: Aren\’t you still playing… No. 2 Mom: Our mother and daughter are as close as sisters! Child\’s heart: You just said that we are enemies and mortal enemies…no.3 Mom: Why do you keep a straight face every day! Child\’s heart: Haha, I didn\’t learn this from you… No. 4 Mom: You have to study hard and don\’t just play all day long! Child\’s heart: Then why do you play mahjong every day? No.5 Mom: Every time I enter your room, it’s like entering a doghouse! Child\’s heart: That\’s better than your room… No. 6 Mom: You\’re so fat and you still haven\’t lost weight! Child’s heart: How many times have you used the treadmill you bought? No.7 Mom: You need to have a longer memory and don’t forget things all the time! Child\’s heart: Mom, have you found your belt? No.8 Mom: Help your classmates when they are in trouble, don’t be so stingy! Child\’s heart: Last time your colleague was sick, why didn\’t you lend him money? No.9 Mom: Don’t spend money randomly! Learn to manage money! Child\’s heart: Mom, there are seven express delivery services for you at the doorman…no.10 Mom: You must honor your mother well in the future. It is not easy to raise you! Child\’s heart: Is it easy for your grandma to raise you? How many times a year do you visit her? How many of the above ten classic children’s inner dramas have you understood? Is there any scene that seems familiar? Is there any expression that appears on your child\’s face? When you make certain demands on your children, when you want to instill good educational concepts, when you give your children suggestions and expectations, if the child is silent, it does not mean that he agrees with you from the bottom of his heart. There may be another voice in his heart protesting against the parents\’ words and deeds. If you haven\’t done it yourself, why should I do it? The most successful parents do not know how many educational concepts or how many educational methods they can describe, but they use practical actions to live a life that is admired by their children. Such parents can complete the spiritual development of their children because of their own energy and brilliance, even if they do not make any demands on their children. The German philosopher Jaspers said that education is like a tree shaking another tree, a cloud pushing another cloud, one soul awakening another soul, and parents using their own words and deeds to awaken a young seed with their own example. Use real actions to slowly influence it, allowing it to take root, sprout, and flourish.