Come on kids! Mom and dad will keep flying with you

In a WeChat group, I saw someone posted this message: A certain principal’s opening speech made the children awe-inspiring and enlightened: Heaven is about to entrust this person with a great responsibility, and he must first unblock his QQ and block his Weibo. Delete their WeChat, go to their Tieba, collect their computers, seize their mobile phones, throw their iPads, cut off their wifi, cut their network cables, make them bored, then sit quietly, drink tea, think about their mistakes, exercise, read, play the piano, practice calligraphy, Be wise, enlightened, and diligent, and you will become a great person! I laughed after reading it, but then I thought deeply. It is just a short paragraph, but it contains a huge amount of information. Today\’s children are in an era of advanced technology, and electronic products have become common items in their lives. Some children are even dominated and enslaved by mobile phones and games, unable to extricate themselves. Adults have to use some extraordinary means to make them restrain themselves and carry out normal study and life. Teachers and parents always hope that children can become adults and become pillars of society. His feelings are profound and his intentions are sincere. However, children are still young and play-minded, and cannot think so far and far, so they may not be able to fully understand the good intentions of adults. Whenever we stand at the intersection of saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new, we always like to look to the future, because the future represents hope and everything is possible. A new school year, a new starting point, new books, maybe a new classroom, new teachers, and new classmates. Everything is new. At the beginning, there are many opportunities and hopes. It is a good time to work hard. On the first day of registration, I asked my son to check his summer homework again to check for any omissions and fill in the gaps, so as to review the past and learn new things. When he encounters something he really can’t do, his dad and I will provide tutoring. I teach him Chinese and English, and his dad teaches him math and science. Then, he took out the English textbooks from third to fifth grade and reviewed them, getting ready for the new school year. Regarding our son\’s studies, we have always adopted a free-range policy, without much tutoring or allowing him to attend any cram schools. After all, he can handle the previous difficulties on his own, and we also want to cultivate his good habit of consciously learning and taking responsibility for himself. But it\’s different now. He is already in sixth grade and in the graduating class. He is facing a transition from primary school to junior high school, which can be regarded as a turning point in his life and a small test. We hope he can move forward steadily and have no regrets. My husband and I have agreed that in the next year, we will give my son help and support based on my tendency to be biased in writing and his tendency to be rational, and we will really take it seriously. At the same time, we must pay more attention to our own behavior, look at our mobile phones less, read more, and exercise more, to create a good family atmosphere, where the whole family can study, exercise, and make progress together. We need to tell him with practical actions: Son, we know that you study hard, but your parents will always be with you and walk with you through this somewhat difficult road. Don\’t worry, don\’t be afraid, we are always behind you. I signed up and was given a new textbook, with brand new pages exuding the unique fragrance of ink, as if knowledge was calling: Come on, kid! Come chase me to your heart\’s content, come take me away! My son especially likes new books. Every time he starts school, he always solemnly writes his name and class on the title page of each book, and then wraps the book in a book cover. He is also veryCherish books. All the textbooks and exercise books from the first grade to the present are well preserved. Even if I moved before, not a single one was forgotten. This year is no exception. Seeing him carefully writing down his name and class, I suddenly remembered the person he was five years ago. He is small in stature, with a crew cut, a round face, and a pair of ignorant eyes. He wrote a crooked name in a first-grade textbook. Five years, as if in the command room, fleeting. Today\’s son is over 1.6 meters tall. With a fashionable and handsome hairstyle, a thin face and calm eyes, he looks like a young and mature man. They are both starting points, one is from a toddler to a primary school student, and the other is standing at the tail of primary school, looking at the new journey. Every starting point is important, every time is a new beginning, and every time must be treated with caution. In this way, time and time again, countless growth and transformations in life are completed, becoming stronger and stronger. The night before the new school year, I called my son to my side, pointed out to him what Long Yingtai wrote to his son Andre, and asked him to read it carefully: When your work is meaningful in your heart, you have A sense of accomplishment. When your job gives you time and does not deprive you of your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity, giving you happiness. I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare your grades with others, but because I hope you will have the right to choose in the future and choose a job that is meaningful and time-consuming, rather than being forced to make a living. In the past, I felt that my son was still young and could not fully understand the true meaning of words such as work, choice, meaning, and dignity, so I rarely talked to him so much. But now he has grown up. In half a month, he will be 12 years old. 12 years is a cycle. He is a rooster, and this year happens to be the year of the rooster, which has extraordinary significance for him. I respect him as an adult and hope that he can actively think about the meaning of life and take responsibility for his own future. The day\’s plan begins in the morning. The new school year requires new plans and new goals. My dear child, you are at the right age, have a good memory, and have a bright future. I hope you will cherish your time, study hard, and fly towards the future of your dreams! Dear child, no matter when or where you are, please remember that you have parents who love you behind you. Don’t worry or be afraid. My dear child, the road ahead is long, with high mountains and long rivers. May you fly higher and farther, and see all the thousands of scenery.