My child is also inattentive. I know what he likes by chatting with him and observing me. Now he is slowly gaining attention. Let me share with you my experience. Children\’s concentration is not something they are born with in their mother\’s womb. It really needs to be cultivated. As parents, we can only observe more and find out what things our children are patient about, and then quickly cultivate this hobby, so as to cultivate patience, cultivate children\’s concentration, and cultivate children\’s hobbies in a certain aspect. I feel that they are all things that lead to the same goal. . The general principle is that through patient observation by parents, we can see what things the child can concentrate on, and then let him focus on cultivating this thing. In this way, the child\’s patience and concentration are cultivated. Montessori has a famous saying: Never disturb a child unless you are invited by the child. Sometimes when children are concentrating on doing handiwork, parents suddenly want their children to take out the garbage downstairs. I advise parents not to let their children take out the garbage first. While the child is concentrating on doing handicrafts, it is the key to cultivating his patience. time. If the parents forcefully disturb him, he will have to put down what he is doing and take out the trash. After taking out the trash, he may not be interested in doing any more craft work. I could have been concentrating on doing crafts for half an hour, but when I was interrupted, I ran to watch TV after five minutes of work. If the child is always disturbed like this, it will be impossible for the child to focus on one thing. Let’s not talk about cultivating children’s patience and concentration. Of course, tell a joke. The little boy is naughty and pours drinks on the bed very intently. This is not the time to cultivate the child\’s concentration. Call him quickly to stop doing this. Otherwise, your bed will be wet and you can grow mushrooms. Full set of high-definition video + pdf of How to Cultivate Children\’s Concentration Training Manual. Parents should not nag their children all the time. Everyone wants to be able to control their own time, and children are no exception. Some parents always whisper in their children’s ears that it’s time for you to do your homework, it’s time for you to draw, and it’s time for you to practice playing the piano. If you always remind your children to do things, they will feel that they have no control over their time. It is all arranged by adults and they have no free time at all. If the child doesn\’t like what the parents arrange for the child to do, will he have the patience to do it for a long time? If I said this to my child Sissi, I am sure she would have no motivation to do her homework at night. Me: \”It\’s already seven o\’clock in the evening. Come on, Sissi, hurry up and write your Chinese homework. After you finish it, Dad still needs three test papers. After we finish it, let\’s memorize the English quickly. That\’s all for tonight. Don\’t do anything else.\” Who wants to do homework all the time? We adults can\’t stand it if we adults have to work 365 days a year. It is correct for parents to arrange their children\’s time in an appropriate and reasonable manner. Create a quiet environment for children. When my children are doing crafts, I will ask them to tidy up the things on the table. There should be no other things except craft supplies. If you put a few dolls on the table, Sissi will start playing with the dolls while doing her handiwork. The above experience has been proven effective through personal testing. When children are painting or doing crafts attentively, parents should try their best toTry to stay quiet or go to another room to do some activities. One time Sissi was doing crafts on the table, and I was watching TV series on my phone. I was watching the TV series with great interest, and suddenly I felt that there was another head squeezing next to me, wanting to watch it too. While squeezing, she asked me, \”Dad, has the heroine recovered from her illness?\” I said, \”Aren\’t you doing handicrafts? Why are you coming over here?\” Sissi: \”I heard their conversation, and it was quite interesting. Yes, I\’ll come over and take a look.\” I said, \”You just go and do your handicrafts honestly, and I\’ll go to other rooms and take a look.\” In summary, children are inattentive, and parents should be responsible for cultivating his concentration. This child cannot learn on his own. Parents should pay more attention to their children\’s points of interest so that their children can learn to focus during the \”playing\” process.
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