Connect young children and get rid of \”procrastination\”

The most direct result of procrastination may be that the child will be late. In fact, children who are not late love going to school more. Why does not being late play such an important role? There really is. For children, if they are late for school, they will enter the classroom in full view of their teachers and classmates, feeling anxious and uneasy. Moreover, the teacher didn\’t hear what he said before. He took out the textbook in a hurry and didn\’t understand what was said. The class was over. When it comes to doing homework and I don’t know where to start, it’s understandable that I feel bad. The other is not to be late, which means not to be late to pick you up after school. The child has just entered the first grade and is not accustomed to the school environment. After a day of school, he looks at his parents with smiling faces to greet him. If you are late and other children have left, the child will wait anxiously. How to help children get rid of \”procrastination\” and start a good day of study? 1. Make sure to go to bed early. It is recommended for primary school students to go to bed before 9:00. In fact, it is difficult to do so. Then no later than 9:30. For elementary school naps, most people lie down on the table to take a nap. The quality of naps is obviously not high. Moreover, many children cannot adapt to such a rest, and naps are basically just \”suffering\” with squinting eyes. If this happens for a long time, the child will be in a state of sleep deprivation, unable to get up early in the morning, and will not be in a good mental state on the morning of school, which will also affect healthy growth. Parents must reasonably arrange their children\’s study day and go to bed early at night. I personally do not recommend arranging too much training during the study day to avoid affecting children’s rest time throughout the day. If you really need to arrange it, try to arrange it after school and before dinner. My friend started arranging physical fitness classes for his children, and they ended at 8:30 each time. He waited until he went home to do homework, wash up, and went to bed at 11 o\’clock every day. I couldn\’t wake up at 7:30 the next day. I really feel sorry for the child: so tired. 2. Organize in advance. Time in the morning is very tight. If you are in a hurry, it is easy to lose things. You will either need to send them to your parents midway, or borrow them from school (this is also a way to solve the problem), or it will delay the time to go out. With all the urging, the start of the day can seem chaotic. Do a good job in storage management, and pack away the stationery that must be used the next day the night before. There is still more than a month left for the senior class to have summer vacation. From now on, we will slowly start to train the children to organize themselves. For example, large classes are required to bring two sets of clothes, sweat towels, etc. every day, and these things can be left to the children themselves. Check your school bag every night and prepare a change of clothes. Before washing, teach your children to find their own pajamas, wear the clothes they wear to school the next day, put them on the bedside, and change them in time when they get up in the morning. The feeling of being in control makes children feel wonderful. Wait until the summer vacation to teach your children to organize stationery. Necessary stationery for first grade students: pencils, rulers, erasers, etc. Check whether the pencils are sharpened every day. It is best to prepare more than 5 pencils, which can be used directly in class. If you persist for a long time, your children will be good at tidying up and will be much calmer when they go out in the morning. 3. Reducing urging and urging will not make the child move faster. I have seen many cases: parents are always urging, urging them to do homework, eat, and wash, but the children have always been slow and have formed a strong dependence. What\’s the problem? Your urging has virtually taken over the \”child\’s responsibility\”.Homework, eating, and washing are all children\’s own affairs, so the key is to cultivate children\’s awareness of \”taking responsibility for themselves.\” For example, we all have to go to work and send our children to school at the same time. Then tell your child clearly, \”What time do I want to go out and how many minutes do I have left?\” When a child discovers that if he can\’t go out on time, his parents won\’t wait for him, he will naturally speed up. Written at the end: I still remember that when I was a day student when I was a child, I had to stand on the playground when I was late, and then I would be criticized by name. I would rush forward cautiously every time. The feeling of being late can make you unhappy for the day or even the week. When children have just entered first grade, the most important thing is to like and love going to school. From the beginning, parents should be more attentive and patient with them, support them first and then put them down, and manage details well, so that their children can go to school happily and come home happily every day.