Dad is the important person who accompanies the growth of his children

Many people think that children who are accompanied by their mothers will be happier. Whether it is picking up children at school, holding parent-teacher meetings, or taking children to amusement parks or training classes, we always see mothers. The fruit of two people has to be cultivated by the mother alone. Where is the person called \”Dad\”? In fact, fathers and mothers are equally important, but in real life, many fathers are absent without reason. In a family where the father is involved, the atmosphere is more harmonious and harmonious; on the contrary, if it is a mess, the children will also be affected. There are many \”single mothers\” around me. The father of the child leaves the child to the mother because of his busy work. So much so that when the child refuses to kiss him, the fathers still say innocently, \”It\’s the child who doesn\’t want me!\” In fact, it\’s not that the child doesn\’t want you, but that you never thought about establishing a good parent-child relationship with him. You can get up an hour early to send your children to school, but choose to sleep in at home; you can end the dinner party early and go home to accompany your children, but choose to talk at the wine table; you can choose to spend time on your child\’s Children\’s Day or birthday When you come back to spend time with her, you say you have to work overtime… You ignore every important day of your child. How can you expect him to be intimate with you? A child with his father by his side is full of happiness and shows off in his words and deeds. Look, this is my dad! In our community, Xiao Cai has become a representative figure of \”good dad\”. Xiao Cai and his wife Xia Xue both go to work, but every day it is Xiao Cai who takes his son to the school bus. We asked him, why didn’t your wife give it to you? Xiaocai Chongdong said, she wants to put on makeup, eat and other things in the morning because she is afraid she won\’t be able to get to work in time. Besides, I also like to give them to her. Every time before being sent to the car, the little guy would kiss Xiao Cai sweetly and say in a sweet voice, \”Goodbye, daddy!\” That sensible look will definitely make him a warm man when he grows up. Every time there is an activity at Xiaolu School that requires parents to attend, the one we see is definitely Xiao Cai. Many times, instead of envying Xia Xue for having a good husband, we would rather envy Xiaolu for having a good father. On a rare occasion, we saw Xia Xue sending her children to wait for the school bus. While chatting, chat with her about everyday things. Xia Xue said that the little guy is very attached to his father, and he can only coax him to sleep when he goes to bed. Did I say you wouldn\’t be jealous? She laughed loudly. I couldn\’t help but feel relieved that their relationship between father and son was so good. Later, Xia Xue said seriously that boys should spend more time with their father. It turns out that in their family, Xiao Cai is not only the father, but also the \”nanny\”. When Xiaolu was two years old, Xiao Cai was responsible for bathing Xiaolu. Xiaolu would hold Xiaocai\’s hand to sleep every night. If Xiaocai came back late from working overtime, he would always wait. As soon as he heard the sound of Xiao Cai parking downstairs, Xiao Lu, whether he was watching cartoons or drawing, put down what he was doing and ran down to greet Xiao Cai. With such a caring son, how could Xiao Cai wander around in the colorful world outside? The more you give, the more you will think about it; the more you will care about it; the more reluctant you will be to part with it. This sentence applies to love as well as family affection. The more you devote to your family, the more you want to go home early; the more you devote to your children, the more you want to be by your side. Sometimes Xiao Cai works overtime all day on Saturdays and is away from home. Xiao Lu has to ask Xia Xue to call Xiao Cai at noon. He will tell what he ate today, what toys he played with, andWhich child is having trouble… Tell Xiao Cai one by one, father and son always have endless things to talk about. In fact, it was just a few words that went over and over again, but Xiao Cai was very patient and listened to Xiaolu\’s chatter. Many things Xiao Cai has done have surpassed what a man does for his children, at least it has refreshed our misunderstanding of men not raising children. At a food festival organized by the school. We get to see what a good dad is. Both Xiao Cai and Xia Xue participated in that event, but Xia Xue felt like attending a party. It was very pleasant to entertain herself. One moment she tasted delicious food, and the other moment she took selfies with other classmates\’ mothers. After the whole activity, Xiao Cai followed Xiao Lu for a moment. He would peel shrimps for Xiao Lu, cut fruits for Xiao Lu, and wash hands for Xiao Lu… At that moment, I really looked at him with admiration, because there were really few There are fathers who do their best for their children. We finally understand why Xiaolu and Xiaocai have a better relationship, because in addition to the father paying more for his son, Xia Xue has become a smart lazy mother. All along, I have been consciously or unconsciously cultivating a good parent-child relationship between my son and my husband. Fortunately, the legendary bad state of father holding the TV and mobile phone and forgetting to eat and sleep as soon as he came home from work did not happen. Now that Penguin is over five years old, he always holds Brother Xu\’s hand when going out to play. After not seeing my father for a few days, he would still ask for a video call. Every year for Penguin\’s birthday, Brother Xu personally cooks a table of delicious food. No matter how busy you are at work, try to take one day to play with your children on the weekends. Brother Xu actively participates in the handicrafts and other tasks at Penguin School, and he knows the school start and end times by heart better than I do. Last week, the school asked me to use leaves to make stickers. I found a few samples on the Internet, shied away from being allergic to leaves, and left the next burden to Brother Xu. He got into the role very quickly. Picking leaves, buying materials, comparing patterns… the father and son spent three hours making two leaf paste paintings, one of which, a peacock, was selected by the teacher as a specimen exhibition. After learning the news, I posted screenshots of other parents’ praise of the work on my WeChat Moments. Brother Xu pretended not to care and said there was nothing to show off! But I can see that he still feels quite accomplished. The mother should let go appropriately and allow the father to actively participate in the child\’s life. Doing so can not only improve the parent-child relationship, but also make the father\’s identity more fulfilling. After every praise, Brother Xu was more concerned about some things about Penguin School than me. When other mothers complain that their children’s fathers don’t care about their children’s school matters at all and have to do everything themselves. I just want to say that only by letting men exercise can they grow better, not only for children, but also for men.