Dads like to take care of their children, and their families are happier

In the movie \”Ocean Paradise\”, Lao Wang, played by Jet Li, was heartbroken about his son Dafu. Dafu suffers from autism. Although he is 21 years old, his IQ is like that of a 5 or 6-year-old child, and he is still unable to take care of himself. He couldn\’t tell the size of money, couldn\’t take a car home by himself, didn\’t even know how much money it cost to buy things, and he couldn\’t control his emotions and would bite people like crazy when he was angry. With such children, life is not only difficult, but there is no hope. Dafu\’s mother committed suicide because she couldn\’t bear the pain, leaving father and son dependent on each other. Lao Wang has taken great pains to take care of Dafu for many years, and his heart is almost broken. Over and over again, he taught Dafu how to know money, taught him how to buy things, boil eggs, get on and off the car, and Lao Wang\’s endless hard work was hidden in every little bit of progress. Throughout the movie, Lao Wang\’s aura of fatherly love is simply not too bright. Correspondingly, there was a heated barrage. Many female viewers were fascinated by Lao Wang. They couldn\’t stop praising Lao Wang for being handsome, and even said that they would marry him if they wanted to. Their excitement just shows that in real life, there are very few men who like to take care of children. Since I became a mother, I have seen many mothers with aggrieved faces complaining that their husbands do not take care of their children. The father not only refused to admit his fault, but also responded with confidence and confidently accused the mother of being incompetent in raising children. If a woman continues to be a housewife, men\’s accusations will become even more correct. The sentence \”You don\’t go to work, how come you can\’t even take care of your children\” is enough to make every mother feel cold. Since you don’t think it’s good for women to take care of you, then you can take care of me. The problem is that there are simply too many men who don’t take care of their own children and are still gesticulating on the sidelines. To be honest, in today\’s world where widowed parenting is so popular, men who like to take care of children are a rare commodity. Watching the reality show \”Mom is Superman\”, the most touching thing was when Yi Nengjing appeared on the stage. She traveled thousands of miles to find Qin Hao and worked non-stop as soon as she landed. I was packing my luggage, mopping the floor, cooking for my husband and making solid food for the children. I was so busy that I didn’t even have time to eat. I was busy until late at night, after everything was settled, I had time to look at my eyes that had been swollen all day. On the way home, she kept looking out the window, and for a moment, tears were about to burst out of her eyes. The lonely and aggrieved look made people feel distressed. After Mi Li was born, Qin Hao didn\’t take care of the child much. They lived in separate places for a long time, and their daughter was very unfamiliar with her father. So Yi Nengjing made up her mind to participate in the show to improve the situation. I thought I could enjoy the happiness of family reunion, but I was heartbroken time and time again by my husband\’s indifference. Qin Hao didn\’t care about taking care of the children, and seemed at a loss and absent-minded from the beginning to the end. When taking care of the child, he always looks confused. He doesn\’t know whether the child is crying because he is hungry or because the diaper is wet. He only shakes the child upside down, or plays with his mobile phone while taking care of the child. He is very out of state. When I am alone, I let myself go even more, immersed in games, and my wife and children don\’t pay attention to me. He said that his ability is limited and he can only give so much love to his children. No matter how much he loves, it\’s not that he doesn\’t want to do it, but that he doesn\’t have the ability to give it. I got very angry when I heard what he said. Is there any reason why I don’t take care of my own children? In fact, when it comes to taking care of children, there is noWhether it will happen or not depends on whether you are willing or not. No woman is born to be a mother, it’s just that practice makes perfect, and experience comes with time. The same goes for being a dad. As long as you are willing to learn and don\’t mind the trouble, you will be able to succeed one day. Speaking of the father who is best at taking care of his children, the first thing that comes to my mind is Wu Chun. In \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, he single-handedly took care of two children. The father was so powerful that he gained countless fans. The two naughty children have lively personalities and are very capable of causing trouble, but Wu Chun is able to handle them with ease and handle the children properly without yelling or yelling. The siblings didn\’t brush their teeth properly and kept spitting into the washbasin. Wu Zun patiently said that they couldn\’t do this, and then fetched clean water again and again. When he was feeding, he was picking up food and coaxing him, taking very good care of him. The two children cuddled up against him, and the scene was particularly harmonious. When both siblings refused to eat eggs, Wu Zun said, \”If I don\’t eat eggs, I won\’t sleep with you tonight\” and the two of them opened their mouths obediently. It can be seen how high his status is in the children\’s hearts. I have been raising children for a long time, but I still cannot reach his level. Seeing him raising children in a calm and unhurried manner makes me feel ashamed. But I also know that it takes a lot of effort for him to make his children rely on him so much. Wu Zun\’s wife has no idea how happy she is to have a husband who loves taking care of children. Yi Nengjing said that she just wanted her husband to know that she was also working hard. In fact, this was also the sentiment of many women. You don’t have to help me take care of my children, but you have to know that it’s not easy for me. And men who like to take care of children will definitely understand the hard work of taking care of children, and will have more understanding and love for their wives. This understanding will be reciprocated by the wife\’s tenderness, and the children can grow up healthily in a loving environment. How can such a family be unhappy? My colleague Tip is also good at raising children, and we often talk about children together. He told me about his transformation. At the beginning, he didn\’t like taking care of children as much as he does now. It was his wife who took care of the children, and he was at best a handmaiden. Because he only has a small amount to take care of, he doesn\’t find it difficult to take care of children. He is very confident in his ability to take care of children. Once when his wife was on a business trip, he volunteered to take care of the children. He thought it would be a piece of cake, but he experienced a devilish night. After coaxing the baby to bed, he was already too tired to straighten up, but the fun had just begun. The baby wouldn\’t sleep unless he saw his mother, and kept crying. He tried hard and soft methods, but to no avail. The baby cried heartbreakingly and could not be comforted no matter what. He was both irritable and distressed, and wanted to cry helplessly. At two o\’clock in the morning, the baby cried until he had no energy left, so he fell asleep in his arms. At that time, he realized that raising a baby was not as simple as he thought. Only then did he realize how hard it was for his wife. His wife went to work during the day, played with the baby when she came home, took a bath and put him to sleep, and had to get up several times at night to breastfeed. He was pestered by the baby every step of the way and had no time to take a breath. He didn\’t know how his wife survived. He just went to work, coaxed the children for a while and handed them over to his wife after work. He slept until dawn at night, which was so bad that he felt guilty when he thought about it. Since then, he has taken the initiative to take care of his children, cultivate a relationship with them, and often encourage his wife to go out to relax. Now, according to his wife, the child is very clingy to him and holds his thigh every day when he goes to work and refuses to let him go. Many men are like this. They don’t necessarily have bad natures, they just don’t feel the same way.Having had such an opportunity, one cannot appreciate the hardship of raising a child, let alone the pain of being pulled between work and family. No matter how hard you tell them about raising children, they will think you are being hypocritical, so the most effective way for them is to create opportunities for them to raise children. After being tortured by naughty children a few times, they will recognize the reality and know how much they have. childish. Every woman was once the apple of her parents\’ eye, and was cared for and cared about by her parents until she grew up. But once she becomes someone else\’s wife, she begins to worry about others. Giving birth to a child in almost life-threatening pain, enduring hardships to bring it up, and turning your beautiful wife into a haggard, yellow-faced mother-in-law. They do it for no other reason than because they love you. She doesn’t want diamonds, BMWs, fancy cars or fancy clothes. Your little concern for her will satisfy her. If you really love your wife, please take more time to take care of your children so that she can have a chance to breathe. When you can\’t get away, don\’t forget to give her a few words of comfort to let her feel that you care. If you really want to be responsible for your family, please don\’t miss your child\’s growth, spend more time with him, and let him grow up healthily and happily under your guidance.