Deng Chao: I never enroll my children in cram schools; Netizen: That’s because your children haven’t gone to elementary school yet

Deng Chao, who has been promoting a new movie recently, was asked about the education of his two children at a press conference. He said: \”I will never enroll my children in any cram school. If you lose at the starting line, you will lose at the starting line.\” Go up.\” As soon as these words came out, countless netizens immediately complained: \”That\’s because your child hasn\’t gone to elementary school yet!\” A best friend of mine also smiled contemptuously after reading the news: \”When his child goes to elementary school, he will definitely… Slap in the face.\” There is a kind of anxiety called \”the child has entered elementary school.\” After children enter elementary school, parents\’ views on education begin to be subverted. There is no such thing as \”happy education\” or \”relaxed parenting.\” About attending cram schools Before children go to elementary school: As long as our children are happy, interest classes and cram schools are all things that destroy children\’s minds. Didn\’t see the news? One moment, the children in Shanghai were forced to suffer from tics in order to attend a good elementary school. The next moment, the children there were just entering kindergarten, and the pressure was so great that they developed alopecia areata. Children work really hard, you must not force them like this. After the child enters elementary school: At the beginning, he still goes his own way and does not sign up for cram school. It is not until the first test results come out… What the hell? Most of the children in the class scored 100 points, but my child only scored 74 points, fourth from the bottom in the class. I won’t take my children to the amusement park on weekends. I need to catch up on math and Chinese. If you don’t force your children now, it will be too late if you force them later! My child, if you don’t endure hardship now, you will suffer more in the future, so be patient. About tutoring homework Before children go to elementary school: Homework is the child\’s own business. I will never tutor children in homework in the future, otherwise the children will become more and more dependent on their parents and will become less and less willing to do homework. I really don’t understand why those parents are so angry that they have to go to the hospital for stent surgery, and are so angry that they roar late into the night. If they don’t teach their children to do homework, then they don’t have this trouble. After the child enters elementary school: before school is over, a message pops up in the class WeChat group: Chinese teacher: \”Today\’s homework is XXXX, please supervise and sign for parents.\” \”Okay.\” Mathematics teacher: \”Today\’s homework is XXXX, please Parents should supervise and sign.\” \”Okay.\” English teacher: \”Today\’s homework is Half done! Two days later, the class teacher started to @parents in the group: \”XX parent, your child\’s homework is mostly wrong.\” \”XX parent, your child\’s homework is crookedly written.\” After a closer look, he was also named. . Look at the homework of those outstanding students. No wonder they have good grades. First of all, they write homework better than others. Close your eyes and think about it, it seems that it is impossible to let children do their homework independently. Since then, I have become a mother who accompanies her child to do homework. About losing temper Before children go to elementary school: Educate children to be patient. No one will ever attend a meeting and never understand until they understand. It\’s no use yelling at your children all the time. Look at those children who are yelled at by their parents for doing homework. They are all trembling. All their energy is spent on dealing with their parents\’ bad tempers, and how can they have the energy to answer those questions? After the child goes to elementary school: the once gentle mother is gone forever.Seeing the child\’s failed test papers and messy homework, I secretly brewed the feeling of \”calm and calm\” all afternoon, which suddenly turned into a lion\’s roar in Hedong. \”Didn\’t I teach you this topic? Why can\’t I know how to take the exam again?\” \”It\’s already 8 o\’clock and I\’ve only finished half of the homework. What are you dawdling about?!\” \”Such a simple homework, half of it is wrong, you have to use your brain Already? Huh?! \”How many times have I said this?\” This is not how the word is written! \”… About school district housing Before children go to elementary school: What is the difference between school district housing and school district housing? When we were young, didn\’t those who graduated from rural primary schools still do well? Aren\’t good schools and poor schools all the same? It\’s just elementary school! After the child went to elementary school: I kept saying that degree housing was not important before, but in the end I bought a degree housing by selling everything. A good school will have a good environment, a good environment will have good grades, and good grades will lead to a good university. You must work hard for your children! About Struggling to go to school. Before your child goes to elementary school: Your child likes to observe the world while walking. Just stay with your child while doing so. Don’t destroy your child’s innocence. Take your time, kid, and your mother will accompany you. After your child goes to elementary school: Hurry up. Come on, hurry up, hurry up! You\’re going to be late! Hurry up to eat breakfast, hurry up to drink milk, hurry up to pack your schoolbag, hurry up and go! Hurry up, kid, mom doesn\’t have time to hang around with you! The teacher won\’t wait either Let you go to class! About reading Before the child goes to elementary school: Every night is parent-child reading time, and every weekend goes to the library. Reading is more important than anything else. Parents who value grades are short-sighted and put the cart before the horse. After the child goes to elementary school: \”Have you finished your homework today? It’s past 9 o’clock, so I quickly finished writing and went to wash up and go to bed. \”\”What? Want to read a book? Don\’t look, I have to get up early to go to school tomorrow morning. \”About weekend entertainment. Before children go to elementary school: Children can go wherever they want to play. Today they go to Xiaokai\’s house to play with building blocks, and tomorrow they go to Qiangqiang\’s house to play Transformers. At the weekend, what mothers discuss in the group is: \”There are This pizza shop is not bad, go with your baby. \”Okay, let\’s go together.\” \”There is a new playground that is nice. Let\’s go with your baby.\” \”Okay, let\’s go together.\” \”A happy childhood is more important than anything else! After the child enters elementary school: The child cannot go anywhere. He has to complete the math test paper today and recite English words tomorrow. At the weekend, what the mothers discuss when they meet is: \”I signed up for my child. English cram school, the effect is good. \”\”Really? Wherever I am, I also want to sign one up for my child. “I enrolled my child in a Mathematical Olympiad class, and his math scores improved a lot. \”Wow, where is it?\” My child also needs to take a supplement. \”Happy childhood? Did I say such a thing? About helping children carry schoolbags. Before children go to elementary school: Children should do their own things. Those parents who carry schoolbags for their children are really harming their children. They are not even willing to carry schoolbags themselves. Children who carry their backs will not be able to live independently in the future and will all become \”giant babies\”. After the child went to elementary school: I accidentally picked up the child\’s schoolbag, and it was too heavy. The poor child\’s shoulders were bruised every day. We weighed him when he went home After a moment\’s notice, a fourth-grade child\’s schoolbag weighs 12 pounds. No, forFor the child\’s health, I will help him carry the schoolbag every day! About physical health Before your child goes to elementary school: If your child is sick, call the kindergarten teacher immediately to ask for leave. Nothing is more important than your health! After the child went to elementary school: \”Do you still have a fever today? If you don\’t have a fever, go to school. Take some medicine for a small cold and persevere.\” \”I rested for three days and missed five periods of Chinese language, two periods of mathematics, and four periods of English…\” Physical Although it is important, learning cannot be delayed. There is no harm without comparison. Which mother doesn’t start to become schizophrenic after her child enters elementary school? One second I was silently saying not to lose my temper or push my child, but the next second I saw my child\’s unsatisfactory results, I suddenly became angry. If your child has not yet entered elementary school, please cherish it and let your child play as he should and read the books he should read. Parents, please enjoy this time. After the children enter elementary school, it is also the time when parents begin to be disillusioned. Do you think that your children will be relaxed after they enter elementary school? The hardest days have just begun. I still have to send my kids to school in the morning, supervise their studies in the evenings, and go to cram schools with my kids on weekends. Damn, I’m so tired. If your friend doesn\’t contact you for a long time, please believe that she is not sick, not too busy, or heartless, but her child, come on! Small! study! Got it!