First of all, it depends on the child\’s learning situation. If your child’s grades in all subjects this semester are acceptable. There is really no need to take extra classes. Not to mention a waste of money, there is no real benefit to the children. Tutoring is really not a necessity for children. Of course, it also depends on the actual situation of the child. If the child has a poor foundation and has not mastered the content of this semester well and has not mastered many knowledge points, he needs to re-learn the previous knowledge points and lay the foundation again. Then attending cram school is indeed necessary. Especially for children whose scores are below 60 points (100 points đź’Ż full score), it is really necessary to make up for it. Because if you do not learn well this semester, it will affect your children\’s learning of knowledge in the new semester. You need to make up for the knowledge points you don\’t know as soon as possible, otherwise the more you learn, the more knowledge points you will fall behind, the more you don\’t know, and the less confident you will be. If you are learning knowledge for the new semester, no matter you are a good student or a bad student, you should not attend cram school. The reasons are as follows: 1. Advanced learning will reduce the quality of children’s lectures at school. Children are very sensitive to unfamiliar knowledge and are most interested in it, but they are resistant to repeated knowledge. After learning it once in a cram school, the knowledge learned after school starts will be repetitive, and the children will become less sensitive and their attention in class will be greatly reduced. It can also cause children to habitually become distracted. Because he felt that he knew it and no longer needed to listen. 2. In addition to teachers at school, it is also a question whether teachers in cram schools have a good understanding of the teaching materials and whether they comply with the education syllabus. This involves whether the cram school teacher is professional. Parents and children cannot tell whether they will learn well in the first month or two, or whether they will learn worse. The biggest fear is that children lose their knowledge. I seem to understand but not understand, confused. 3. Going to cram school is different from going to school. Children will be lazier. In order to make the children willing, cram school teachers will definitely have less control over their children. Especially cram schools with more children, the teaching effect is uneven. Some children will also meet some friends who are not trivial or trivial. It’s not easy to learn well, but it’s easy to learn bad things quickly. 4. The cram school curriculum arrangement is not scientific enough. Most cram schools will use the summer vacation for more than a month to teach all the content for the next semester. Some teach for half a semester. It is difficult for children to absorb it all. More often than not, it’s all about swallowing the jujubes. Then do some simple exercises, and many children feel that they know it. In fact, it is only half-understood. When I go back to school, I always feel that I have learned and mastered it, and I don’t pay attention to the lectures. As a result, the true nature of the problem was revealed. This is why many children attend cram schools, but when they take exams after the start of school, their grades do not rise or fall. 5. If the child himself has not learned the knowledge points well this semester, he will learn the knowledge in the next semester. If the foundation is not laid well, he will build a building. That can only mean that the higher you build it, the faster it will collapse. Of course, learn extracurricular knowledge, such as various interest classes, swimming, badminton, basketball, football, reading, painting, programming, music, etc. These have nothing to do with school. I think it\’s ok. First of all, if the child likes it and is willing to learn, he will also learn better. Secondly, these can also make children more focused and alsoCan exercise. The most important thing is that the child has been studying for a semester and has to give his brain a holiday during the summer vacation. Better rest can lead to better learning. If children don’t want to attend these interest classes. What should parents do if they don’t have time to take care of their children? Send it to grandpa or grandma\’s house, or grandma or grandpa\’s house. Or parents with good conditions can let their children go on a study tour, giving themselves a holiday and giving their children a change of environment to play to their heart\’s content. I remember when I was a kid, I would go to my grandma’s house during holidays. I have five uncles and three aunts. There are about ten children about our age. During the winter and summer vacations, we kids would go to my grandma’s house to play. Catching fish, fishing for shrimps, playing chess, playing poker, hide and seek, riding bicycles, running out to catch frogs, dragonflies, etc. There are things to do every day and it is impossible to stop. . . . . . When we were eating, there was a big table full of people, and we had a lot of food, so we had a lot of fun. From morning to night, I would run and jump when I opened my eyes. I would run outside except when I was sleeping. This kind of summer vacation is a real vacation. Have fun. Are you afraid that your children won’t be able to keep up if you don’t make up lessons? I didn’t take any extra classes in elementary school, junior high school, high school, winter or summer vacation. There are many tutoring classes for my junior high school classmates. Both winter and summer vacations are fully scheduled. But I really don’t feel like they are much better than me. When it comes to learning new knowledge, I think I study it more seriously than they do. When doing the after-school exercises, I wasn\’t much slower than them. The monthly exam results are also similar. I never felt that their tutoring skills were better than mine. In fact, the results can prove that there is no advantage for them to make up classes. You said you finally had a summer vacation and stayed at home all day, or went to a cram school every day. So what’s the point of taking a vacation? Just change the place to attend class? As adults, we still think about where to go to have fun during vacation, or go back to our hometown to spend time with our parents, or change the environment to relax. No one would think about working overtime in another place, right? We need to relax, have fun, change our mood, and relieve stress and anxiety. Children need to relax and play too! Especially when playing with relatives and friends of the same age. What TV, mobile phone, iPad. How could it be more fun to go out in the wild with peers, catch fish, catch shrimps, play ball, and have fun? At that time, my aunt\’s brother also came to my house to play during the summer vacation. Although we were just playing at home, we were very happy day after day. Dragonflies, grasshoppers and so on were caught, roasted and eaten. Try all kinds of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and sugar. There are so many things to do outside. Much better than TV. As a child, if you let him play with his peers, he will not think about playing with his mobile phone. Being naughty together, playing poker, cooking, even just being in a daze is more fun than playing on your mobile phone! What children today lack most is not time to study. What they lack is time to play with their peers. Why do many children find life boring? Because they don\’t have fun, they find the joy of life, they don\’t have the power to live. Why are you addicted to the Internet and mobile phones? Because their real life experience is too poor and too single. Look at your child, what does he do in a day, a week, a month, a year? Besides learning, what else has changed? Has there been any change in his life? Except for the different homework every day, almost everything isOn repeat. Mechanically repeating the daily routine of leaving early and coming back late. Their world should be ever-changing and colorful. However, what is the difference in this cookie-cutter study life? As parents, at least we should make the holidays a little interesting for him! Think about our daily life as adults, from nine to five, repeating over and over again. If we were asked to work overtime on weekends, we wouldn\’t be willing to do it, right? Would you go crazy if you were asked to work overtime every day during your annual vacation? Just like when you go to work and don’t even have time to rest, how can you still love going to work? Going to work should be for a better life, right? As a result, my life is gone and all I have to do is work overtime, so what’s the point of going to work? We only complain that going to work takes up our rest time and leaves us no time to play with our children. The same goes for our children! They will naturally think that studying is taking up their time and leaving them no time to play! It is much more difficult for children to go to school every day than it is for us. An ordinary junior high school student will not study less than 12 hours a day. How do you think he can become interested in learning and love learning? If you don’t even have time to play, what’s the point of studying? Which adult can work more than 12 hours a day? We often say that 996 is an exploiter. The exploiters shed tears when they see the demands we place on our children. How much time do you spend studying every day in junior high school? At least 12 hours. I attend school during the day and work overtime when I get home. What about high school students? Sleeping 8 hours a day is not necessarily enough. The remaining 16 hours are either studying or on the way to study. Feel sorry for the child! Stop letting your kids work overtime. Working overtime is of no use except exhausting your body, sapping your morale, and wasting your time. Just like those big companies that shout 996 all day long, they can\’t do the forty hours a week that Pang Donglai can do now. Always thinking about exploiting other people\’s time to create value. How can there be a good result? The more you exploit, the lower your efficiency will be and your results will be worse. The employees are exhausted, the boss is so exhausted that he vomits blood, but the results are getting worse and worse. The employees felt that even the donkeys in the production team would not dare to use it like this. The boss is not idle either, he is as tired as a donkey. The results of it? Grades fell instead of rising. Why do you say?
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