Nowadays, it has become a trend for expectant fathers to accompany the baby in the delivery room, because expectant fathers can not only provide emotional support to mothers, but also allow expectant fathers to witness the arrival of the baby together. As everyone knows, there are many disadvantages to accompanying the expectant father in the delivery room. Here, in order to uncover the mystery of why expectant fathers cannot accompany the childbirth, experts have made the following analysis:
What are the disadvantages of being an expectant father?
Disadvantages of expectant father accompanying childbirth: distracting wife
Accompanying birth first appeared abroad, and more than 40 years of clinical data show that, overall, it does more harm than good. A British obstetrician and gynecologist who has delivered 15,000 babies believes that \”accompaniment is a trend, but it is not appropriate.\” It may even increase tension and cause the production process to be unsmooth.
Statistics show that women who are accompanied by their husbands are more likely to have a caesarean section midway. Because the husband cannot bear to witness the pain of his wife\’s childbirth and is helpless, and the wife increasingly shows her weak side under her husband\’s love and is unwilling to bear the pain and give birth to the child. All her power. But C-sections may also have a higher complication rate.
Disadvantage 2 of expectant fathers accompanying childbirth: affecting future \”sexual happiness\”
The main impact of the expectant father accompanying the child is that the expectant father may have psychological disorders in the future and be unwilling to have sexual relations with his wife. Because after seeing the pain of giving birth to a child, the wife will think of conception and childbirth when having sex after giving birth. Some people may feel guilty, fearful, or even involuntarily averse to sex.
Psychologists also said that another sequelae of witnessing childbirth is that some men will involuntarily reminisce about the childbirth scene in their subsequent sexual lives. In the eyes of many men, a woman\’s genitals are mysterious, but witnessing the birth of a baby from the genitals, especially the moment when the baby\’s head comes out of the birth canal, will make them feel strange to their wives and greatly reduce their favorability towards their wives. respect from their wives. The sexual attraction in the eyes seriously hinders their sexual interest, and in serious cases will directly affect the relationship between husband and wife.
Disadvantages of expectant fathers accompanying childbirth three: affecting the work of medical staff
Some hospitals not only allow the expectant father to accompany the birth, but also allow the new father to cut the umbilical cord himself and allow him to film the process. However, many expectant fathers have not received special training in childbirth and have poor concepts of aseptic procedures, which may lead to accidental infection of their wives.
Moreover, the purpose of shooting the DV is to encourage the wife to have children, and by focusing on filming the wife\’s expression, the camera is equivalent to giving her a hint, which can give her more courage to complete the sacred mission of giving birth. However, some expectant fathers went in to take pictures and were very curious about the birth of their babies. Not only do they forget that their main \”customers\” are their wives, they may also have busy delivery scenes that hinder the normal work of doctors.
Many expectant fathers take care of their wives and children, but expectant fathers also need to know theThe downside is that it needs to be implemented.