Don’t imagine that your children will suddenly become academically enlightened in junior high school. Most of those children who can counterattack and become academic masters have these 5 characteristics.

It is impossible for a child to suddenly become enlightened in learning, and it is even more impossible for a child to directly counterattack from a scumbag to a top student. Waiting for the flowers to bloom is a trap! All the children who finally succeeded in counterattacking and became academic masters have actually traced their achievements for a long time. Most of them have the following five characteristics. 01. Don’t believe that your grades in elementary school should be at least average. Don’t believe that a scumbag in elementary school suddenly gets better in junior high school and becomes a top student. The homework in primary school is not very difficult. If the children cannot learn well, fail to learn, and have very poor grades, then in junior high school, where the subjects are many and difficult, they will be even less likely to learn well, and they will most likely still be poor students. Parents should ensure that their children\’s grades in primary school should be at least above the average level and rank in the top 30% of the class. Average grades at least indicate that the child has a good learning foundation and good study habits. After entering junior high school, as long as a few adjustments are made, the child\’s grades will have a lot of room for improvement. 02 Children have sufficient inner energy and do not hate learning. Children in primary school are mostly playful and naive in their thinking. At this time, many children do not understand why they need to study, let alone have any learning goals. Moreover, children now have many ways of entertainment, such as TV, mobile phones, novel toys, etc., all tempting children. It is extremely rare for children to truly calm down and take pleasure in learning. Therefore, parents should not complain that their children do not like to study. It is perfectly normal for children of this age not to like to study. In fact, as long as children do not hate learning and do not resist learning in primary school, they will have a chance to counterattack when they enter junior high school. On the contrary, if the child is already a little tired of studying in elementary school, always procrastinates in learning, and copes with things, then in junior high school, the child will hate studying even more, and it is impossible to counterattack. Therefore, parents must protect their children\’s interest and enthusiasm in learning during primary school. Never force your children to study as hard as they can, as this will only make the children\’s energy lower and lower, and you will not have time to regret it in the future. 03. The parent-child relationship is good. The quality of the parent-child relationship will directly affect the child\’s performance. If the parent-child relationship is not good, the child will spend a large part of his energy fighting against his parents. If you ask him to go east, he will insist on going west. The more you push him to learn, the less he will want to learn. After entering junior high school, when the child reaches puberty, the child\’s rebellious index will be higher. Whether you control it or not, it is impossible for the child\’s performance to improve. Elementary school is the last stage in which parents can exert tremendous influence over their children. Parents must establish a positive and healthy parent-child relationship with their children. The more a child loves his parents, the more he is willing to listen to his parents\’ teachings and the more he can understand their parents\’ painstaking efforts. In order to make their parents happy and worry-free, they will take the initiative to cooperate with their parents and study harder. Only after entering junior high school can they be able to counterattack. 04 Children have a high sense of self-worth. Children who have a high sense of self-worth and always have positive evaluations of themselves will not fail in their studies. Such children often have relatively high demands on themselves, and they like to be competitive., unwilling to be inferior to others, and have a relatively strong internal drive in learning. Parents only need to guide their children more in terms of mentality and methods, and their children will be able to make great progress in learning. The possibility of counterattack in junior high school is very high. On the contrary, if the child\’s own value is low and he feels that he is not suitable for learning at all, then the child will muddle along in his studies. This kind of child has no sense of self-esteem or shame. Whether he failed in the exam, was criticized by the teacher, or laughed at by his classmates, he always looked indifferent. If you want such a child to study hard, it is really difficult to reach the sky, and the possibility of the child counterattack is zero. 05 There is a parent behind the child who understands the rules of education. What matters in elementary school is not the child’s IQ, but the parents’ cognition. If parents have a high level of cognition, understand the laws and methods of education, can patiently accompany their children to grow, and help their children acquire various basic abilities in learning, such as time management, summarizing, etc., their children\’s learning path will be smooth. More stable. Written at the end: Don’t believe that even a scumbag in elementary school can become a top student in junior high school. Anyone who says this is either stupid or bad. Most of those children who can achieve counterattack in junior high school have 3 or more of the above 5 items. You might as well compare it and see how many of them your child has?