During the National Day holiday, \”laziness\” is your magic weapon for parents who don\’t know how to play with their children.

Since I came into contact with gaming power, I often hear parents say: \”I have a headache playing with my children: sometimes I am not in the mood after a day\’s work, sometimes I think the things my children play are too boring, and sometimes I don\’t want to listen to my children. Without parents, Majesty. In short, I am just a parent with no sense of play.\” Whenever I hear words like this, I fall silent and don\’t know how to respond. It’s like feeling “not fun” in my family is so far away that I can’t even think of it. How can games happen at all times in my home? How can I have a high time without feeling uncomfortable? If you think about it carefully, the most important reason is actually \”I am lazy\”. Someone once seriously argued that laziness promotes the progress of human civilization. For example: too lazy to walk – the emergence of cars; too lazy to climb stairs – the emergence of elevators; too lazy to travel long distances – the emergence of airplanes; too lazy to write letters – the emergence of airplanes Phone calls…the list goes on and on. Regardless of whether this fallacy makes sense, at least when it comes to playing games with your children, laziness can definitely help a lot. The elementary lazy method – \”Ge You Lie\” can say to the children: \”I\’m sick, doctor, can you help me see a doctor?\” When the child starts pretending to be treated by a doctor, he can verbally describe various discomforts: sometimes he has a headache, sometimes his feet hurt, Sometimes you need surgery, sometimes you need massage. In short, all you have to do is: lie down, talk, and let the \”doctor\” keep running around. Don’t underestimate the theme of illness. For children who go to the hospital for medical treatment, physical examination or vaccination, this role-changing game can effectively help them relieve their nervousness and fear of seeing a doctor, and also allow children to “take care of patients” In the process, build confidence. There are many ways to transform lying down. I remember a friend shared a particularly good idea: lie down and look at each other, then learn each other\’s expressions, and imagine the scene of communication and connection through eyes and expressions. I believe both adults and children will feel this. happiness. Others lie down and say: \”I don\’t want to go to school\”, \”I am a garden now, you come to plant the land\”. In order to be able to lie still and rest after work, parents should quickly use their brains. Intermediate lazy method – following the child, you can tell the child: \”Let\’s play a game, what do you want to play?\” and then wait for the child\’s ideas to come out on their own. In my experience, most children will come up with many good ideas based on their own interests and hobbies, and what adults have to do is, since they agree, follow them. I still remember that last year, because the children were very fond of dinosaurs, we played \”Dinosaur Hunting\” for more than half a year. The routine was specified by the children: they acted as carnivorous dinosaurs, and I acted as a relatively \”stupid\” herbivorous dinosaur. Every time I was careless and careless. , being knocked down and eaten by them without any defense. That\’s right, you\’ve got the key point: you have to look stupid and stupid so that they can \”knock you down\” easily! Then you can continue the sequel of \”Ge You Lie\”. I once asked to change and bite them, but to no avail, so the same story outline was repeated three to five times a day for more than half a year. Children are very happy to play like this. Even if your performance is not so lifelike, they are immersed in their own world and have fun.You\’ll be fine if you cooperate. Don’t underestimate this following game. It is actually a very basic and important form of play: by following the child, you will observe the themes of this stage and the roles he wants to try; by following the child, we can easily let the child Feel happy and laugh, thereby completing his stress relief on a certain topic; by following, we will also make the child feel his own strength and confidence again and again. In this game session, he can try out the role he wants to play as he pleases and experience the feeling of being a \”strong man\”. Recently, after a year of being eaten, the kids asked me to play the Tyrannosaurus Rex and they to play the smart, brave herbivorous dinosaur. I am very happy to follow them again. I know that now they no longer need to play the strong man to gain a sense of power, but instead turn to explore new themes: bravery, resourcefulness, and unity. Advanced lazy method – too lazy to preach. For example, yesterday I took my children on a high-speed rail trip during the long holiday. I put some biscuits in a paper bag. Some of them broke because they were pressed. At the same time, the tastes are different. If I don\’t distribute them evenly, I will inevitably have to pay a fee. Talkative. So I simply used the game to pretend to be surprised and said: \”Children, this is a mystery bag. Now we have to close our eyes and go in with our hands to get the delicious food. We can eat whatever we get. You have three chances!\” The two children readily agreed and were surprised by everything they got. They did not notice that many cookies were incomplete. (The picture shows the mystery bag) Another example is that every night at home recently, children will play the game of \”doll doctor\” with their grandmother, who was a doctor: they take out their dolls to see the doctor, and then ask their grandmother to diagnose and treat the disease. What surprised us was that all the problems raised by the children were topics that adults usually talk about, such as: \”This little turtle is too thin and cannot eat well.\” \”When this husky eats, he likes to talk and play while eating. Toy.\” \”This big crab coughs when sleeping.\” (The picture shows the actual opening of \”Grandma\’s Hospital\”) All diseases are thought up by the children themselves, and then they will pretend to be \”Dad\” seriously and talk to the doctor Discuss issues and carry out medical orders. The lovely grandma took this opportunity to make requests to the children, such as: \”Let your elephant drink more water every day, especially rock sugar, pear, and ear root soup, which is very good for the body.\” Before, I relied on preaching. Got it, the game is easily solved as soon as you play it. In short, the power of play is not about how many creativity and ideas you have, but whether you are willing to be on the same frequency with your children and feel their needs. Once you\’re no longer concerned or purposeful about playing games with your kids, it\’s really easy to play. At least, I recommend you to start today by just \”Ge You Lie\”!