Nowadays, many young parents have to work after giving birth to children. They want to provide their children with better financial security and realize their personal social value. Being a full-time dad or a full-time mother is simply unrealistic unless they accumulate enough funds. In the first three years after the child\’s birth, the heavy responsibility falls on the elderly, which makes the aunt worry about taking care of the child. Moreover, even if the aunt is hired, the elderly\’s help is indispensable. The old man is in good health, and although he is a bit tired, he can still withstand the physical labor of raising a child. This makes the young parents seem to have less worries and can work with peace of mind. But when the children go to kindergarten, problems arise. Some children behave willfully in the kindergarten, and even beat and scold the teachers. The teachers can\’t control them and can only let the parents take the children home. At this time, parents realized the seriousness of the problem and began to pay attention to their children\’s education. The age of 3-6 is the development period of a child\’s character. \”Three years old will tell you how old you are, and seven years old will tell you how old you are.\” With careful education, children have the opportunity to change. The elderly should stop raising children at this age. If it is later than this time, it will affect the child\’s growth: 1. Before the age of 3, the elderly will take care of the children to help reduce the burden on the children. Before the age of 3, the parents have to work and have no time during the day, so the elderly will help with the care. Having a baby reduces the burden on the children. Although some elderly people may not be able to keep up with their children when it comes to education, parents can help by communicating with the elderly, focusing on the children\’s daily life issues. Parents still have to rely on parents to educate their children. This is their responsibility. You can\’t leave everything to the elderly. It\’s easy now, but it will be hard in the future. 2. 3-6 years old, the elderly should withdraw appropriately. At the age of 3-6, the elderly can withdraw appropriately. Otherwise, their efforts will be thankless and will not be conducive to the formation of children\’s good character and behavioral habits. When children go to kindergarten at this period, it is the golden period for cultivating various abilities and habits. Once enlightenment habits are cultivated, children will improve all the way and far surpass their peers. When children go to kindergarten during the day, if their parents are not free, they may be picked up and dropped off by the elderly. The prime time in the evening is firmly grasped by the parents to cultivate learning abilities, living habits, personality development, etc. 3. After the age of 6, parents should try to take care of them. If parents and the elderly have the same educational philosophy and get along peacefully, it will be a positive addition to the child’s education. If there are differences, it will cause psychological deviations in the children after they go to school, which will not be beneficial to the children\’s education and will have a negative effect. After the children go to school, there is a certain amount of academic pressure. The elderly have a more relaxed mentality, do not have too many demands on their children, and tend to dote on their children. But parents attach great importance to it and adopt the method of keeping a close eye on them, not daring to relax. Children are naturally playful. If there are differences between the two parties, the children will often take advantage of the loopholes and it will be difficult to control the children. It is written that after the child is 3 years old, the elderly should appropriately withdraw from the responsibility of taking care of the child. They can help pick up and drop off the child, take care of the child\’s daily life, and try not to interfere with education matters and leave it to the parents. This is their responsibility and is more beneficial. Children grow up healthily.
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- Elderly people should quit raising babies at this age. If it is later than this time, it will affect the growth of the baby.