Every careless parent owes their children a life

If it hadn\’t happened before my eyes, I would never have thought that this kind of life would exist in my life. A few days ago, a customer came into the store and he looked very tired. She bought a lot of pickled mustard and kelp shreds. I asked her: \”Why are you buying so many pickles now?\” She said: \”Nothing, just to eat on the road.\” Before going out, she hesitated and quickly gave me a missing person card. I hope I can help pay attention to the notice. Through this notice, I learned that she was looking for a child. She cried and said: \”For 10 years, I have been dreaming about my child every day, but I just couldn\’t hold her hand. Sometimes I really hope that this dream will not wake up so that I can be with my child.\” 10 years ago , she took her child to the market. Due to her own negligence, the child was lost. In the following years, she seemed to have lost her mind and searched frantically. She traveled almost all over the country in these years, but there was still no news. After the child was lost, her life fell into hell and she was filled with despair. After a lifetime of hope and a lifetime of disappointment, she cried and said: \”Actually, every careless parent owes his child a life. It is his own fault as a parent if he fails to take good care of his child even for a short while. He will have to atone for his sins throughout his life.\” Look. When I saw her retreating back, there were tears in my eyes. I\’m not being pretentious, it really hurts. I have two children and know how much children mean to parents, they are more important than our lives. For 10 years, every search was full of hope but also full of despair. People frequently switched between the two states, life became meaningless, and the heart was bleeding in pain. Parents and children are close friends of life and death. As children grow older, they are destined to be separated from their parents, but lost children kill their parents. I can\’t imagine how they will spend their future lives, maybe licking their wounds of regret in the dark. There have been so many movies about lost children in recent years. Every time I see a video like this, my heart is filled with pain. When I see my child sleeping next to me, I feel inexplicably happy and don’t think about anything else. The movie \”Dear\” tells such a story: Due to carelessness, parents who lost their children and had no way to find them formed an alliance. They disguised themselves as a tourist group and traveled across the country again and again, each time leaving with hope but bringing nothing with them. Returned disappointed. They have become numb to everything and are only extremely sensitive to information about their children. Many people will go bankrupt to find their children. But in the end, everything is in vain. People slowly become older as the years go by, but there is still a persistent belief in their hearts: \”Maybe one day, the child will suddenly be found and never be separated again.\” Because of the temporary It hurts my heart to be careless and ruin a lifetime of happiness. Once you are used to seeing the joys and sorrows of the world, your heart will become softer. CCTV has a column called \”Waiting for You\”. This column is to help others find their lost relatives. Every time I see them reunite on stage after a long separation, my heart will be filled with joy and tears will flow down unconsciously. There is nothing in this world that makes people happier than meeting again after a long absence. I once saw an emotional column: An old father has been looking for his son, but has never found him.They were found, and with the help of the column team, they finally met. The son was already married and had children. When he saw his son, the old father burst into tears. The child was urged to call his father at the scene, but the young man did not speak. He looked at his father and said, \”I just want to ask you two things. First, how did I lose it? Second, have you looked for me in these years?\” His father said with tears in his eyes, \”I was at the train station.\” Be careful to lose you. I have never given up looking for you over the years and have traveled all over the country, but there is no news. I can’t sleep every night. I always dream about you when you were a child, but I can’t catch you at all. .\” The old father\’s words made everyone present shed tears. When the young man called out his father, I also cried, crying for their reunion and the perfection of their lives. Every child is the life of his parents. But because of our carelessness, the child was lost. From then on, the child was far away from us. If we were lucky, we could still see each other in this life, but if we were unlucky, the fate of this life would never happen again. How many parents have lost their children due to their own carelessness. Even though they tried every means to make up for it later, it was of no use. Such parents owe their children a life. In fact, many times we could have avoided this kind of separation, but because of the carelessness of many parents, it led to a lifelong tragedy. No matter how busy you are, you must take good care of your children. Accidents are always pervasive. As a parent, you should teach your children the ability to distinguish good people from bad people in normal times. Children may not be able to use these abilities in their lifetime, but if a tragedy occurs, it can at least increase the chance of recovery. Be sure to teach your children about the four types of people they can trust. The first category is the elderly. The elderly have experienced vicissitudes of life. When their lives come to the end, most of them are kind and will not lose their conscience to destroy a child. They can help the child find his parents as soon as possible. The second category is pregnant women and parents with children. These people generally enjoy the happiness that their children bring to them. They can personally understand the importance of children to a family, so they will definitely try their best to help. The third category is those who wear military and police uniforms. Children must be told to go to the police uncle if something goes wrong, so that they know that the police uncle is an absolutely trustworthy person. The fourth category is the student group. Whether they are primary school students or college students, their thoughts are relatively pure, and most of them are trustworthy. Especially when they appear as a group, they have a strong sense of justice. So when a child cannot find his parents and sees a group of students passing by, he can trust them. Of course, as parents, the most important thing for us is to prevent accidents from happening and prevent such devastating tragedies from happening. All methods can only save the most. Children are everything to us, without them what is the meaning of our life?