Every child is a star falling into the world

\”Stars on Earth\” I watched because of the male idol Aamir Khan. It is also the second Indian film about education. The first one was \”Three Idiots Making a Trouble in Bollywood\”. There were no children at that time, so it seemed that the feelings were not as deep as they are now. A third-grade boy named Isha was unable to successfully complete basic learning content like other children due to \”dyslexia\”. He skipped school, deliberately made trouble, and was expelled from school. Then, despite his pleas, his parents sent him to boarding school, where he met Mr. Ram, who taught art. Teacher Ram himself had \”dyslexia\” and he understood Isha very well. Under his special education, Isha found himself and shined his own light. The film made me cry several times, both for Teacher Ram in it and for the lucky and talented child. I am lucky to meet a good teacher, be understood and respected, and show my talent through deliberate practice. From \”I can\’t\” to \”I don\’t want to\”, the little boy Isha in the film cannot spell words correctly like his classmates due to \”dyslexia\”. The letters and numbers are often dancing, and he can never figure out what he looks like. Similar words; tying shoelaces is also a difficult thing for him to complete, let alone catch the flying ball, because he cannot judge the speed, size, distance… In this way, he was laughed at by his classmates in school , was always punished by the teacher, and had no one to play with. He was alone with only a huge schoolbag on his back, walking back and forth between home and school. This was already his second third grade. He doesn\’t know what\’s going on, why can\’t he always do it? Faced with what the parents said, \”pay more attention\”, \”work harder\”, \”look at my brother John, he is number one in every subject\”, the teacher said, \”he is an enemy of books\” and \”always makes the same mistakes on purpose\”. Written in English like Russian \”No one believes he is John\’s brother\”… In the Solomon Islands, when the indigenous people want to cut down trees, they will not cut them down directly, they will only gather around the trees and curse loudly , cursing the tree. After a few days, the tree will wither and die alone. The powerful hurtful power of words makes Isha no longer know what to do. The more anxious he is, the more mistakes he makes, and the more he wants to escape and stay in his own world. So lonely and helpless… In the end, I use \”I don\’t want\” to cover up \”I can\’t\” that I can\’t understand or can\’t do. Because no one understands \”I can\’t\”, my parents won\’t accept it, and the teacher will think I\’m looking for someone. reason. He simply acted like \”I don\’t want to\” and deliberately caused trouble and angered the teacher. A little light, the warmest existence. Fortunately, Teacher Ram noticed Ishaan and saw the problem from his homework book. He was determined to help this child who was very similar to him, a child who had talent but was about to be buried. When Teacher Ram went to Ishaan\’s house to understand the situation and told them about Ishaan\’s problem, Ishaan\’s father asked: How can he compete with others? Do I have to support him for the rest of his life? Teacher Ram made a wonderful remark at the moment: There is a competitive world outside, a world where children are expected to succeed and girls are expected to be successful.Everyone must have good grades, and as long as they don\’t fall short of others, it will be intolerable and shameful. However, if you think about it from God\’s perspective, every child is different and has his or her own talents, talents, and dreams. Just like fingers, there are five of them of different lengths, but parents are busy trimming them to make the fingers longer. What will you do if your fingers break one day? Children are not parents’ tools: With the help of the teacher, Isha gradually became cheerful and confident, picked up a paintbrush, and continued painting. Won first place in the drawing competition. It\’s hard to be yourself, but it\’s even harder to accept the ordinary. Two days ago, I chatted with Lily, a former American financial elite and now a career coach, and talked about children\’s education and learning issues. She said something that suddenly opened a door in my heart and made me feel a little more clear. She said that when she realizes that she is an ordinary person, she will let go of many things. On this basis, if we keep a normal mind and continue to develop and explore, we will actually gain new gains. When she said this, she must have deep feelings. She gave up her generous income and halo in the financial industry to become a career coach, answering questions and providing guidance for others. She must have a profound understanding in this. The same goes for children, especially after having her second child. Seeing the same parents, the same family, but two completely different children, she no longer feels anxious. Parents can play a very small role and cannot defeat powerful genes. The best education for parents is to create an environment for their children to explore, learn, and find themselves. Everyone can only be himself, just like Isha in the movie. If he doesn\’t face it truthfully and let him be himself, he will destroy himself in a destructive way. As can be seen from the background of the film, Isha\’s father is a successful middle-class man who has high expectations for his children. He has never understood the child, nor has he really understood it. He only sees his naughtiness and poor academic performance. Until I accidentally saw a scene of a child spelling out words deliberately, tears filled my eyes. Such simple words and sentences require more effort for children to practice. At that moment, he understood. The child was not what he thought. He had misunderstood and hurt the child. In such a mood, we hurriedly left without even meeting our children… Do we often do this too? Being coerced by society, driven by everything around you, and anxious, not only do you lose yourself, but you also force your own dreams on your children. However, ordinary people are the majority. He cannot accept himself, has a normal mind, and cannot treat his children objectively. Every child deserves to be treated tenderly. They are stars scattered on the earth. The biggest help for parents or education is to let them find themselves and shine their own light. Whether it is dazzling or gorgeous, or a moment of brilliance, it belongs to your own life. Background: Dyslexia is simply a disorder of reading and spelling. People like Leonardo da Vinci, Edison, Einstein, and Kennedy were all considered \”dumb kids\” with extremely poor grades when they were children. In the end, scientists found that they were all typical examples of dyslexia. Performance characteristics are mainly reflected in literacy and reading. The number of children with dyslexia in English-speaking countries is as high as 10%-30%. Therefore, children with dyslexia in English-speaking countries will be tested separately during the exam and will be given support such as phonetic reading questions. The number of children learning Chinese who suffer from dyslexia is about 3%-5%, so most people are not aware that this dyslexia problem exists.