Every child once loved his parents unconditionally

Many times, we are accustomed to looking at the world of children from the perspective of adults. If we can start from the world of children and see the motivations behind their problems, we will find that we have really underestimated our children\’s love for us. (01) Do you still remember the very popular \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”? The task of one episode of the program is to ask several fathers to prepare lunch for their children, and the children will vote to see whose meal is the most popular among the children. Zhang Liang, a chef by training, originally thought that this competition would be his specialty, but the children seemed to prefer Lin Zhiying\’s homemade dumplings. Seeing the children voting for others with the dog\’s tail grass in their hands, Zhang Liang hugged his son and quietly waited for the final \”punishment.\” At this moment, Tiantian broke away from his father\’s arms and rushed out of the yard. The program team thought that the child was going to be upset again, so Zhang Liang hurriedly chased him out and said, \”If you leave, I will lose! If I lose, I will blame you!\” At this time, the program camera switched to Tiantian, and only heard He kept mumbling: \”Where is the foxtail grass? Where is the foxtail grass?\” The audience in front of the TV all understood. This child thought that as long as there was foxtail grass, his father could win, and he wanted to give his father everything support. But the father didn\’t know what the child was thinking. He angrily blamed his son. Finally, the son stammered out a few words: \”I just want to give you a piece of dogtail grass.\” Victory in all competitions is not worth it. The most precious dogtail grass. Many times, we always look at the world of children with an adult\’s perspective, but we don\’t know that behind those naughty and ignorant behaviors, it turns out that children want to simply express their love for their parents. (02) There is a child whose parents divorced in his early years, and his siblings have been living with their mother since childhood. The mother works hard every day, but this child is a bit troublesome. Every time he eats, he picks something delicious to eat. The most annoying thing is that he picks a few pieces of meat and puts it into his bowl, bites it a few times and then doesn\’t eat it. This single mother felt so sad when she saw her son like this. Thinking about how I was divorced and could not provide my children with good living conditions, and could not educate and accompany them well, my children have become so selfish now. One day, my mother bought some chicken legs and wanted to improve the children\’s food. Unexpectedly, the naughty child dropped the chicken legs to the ground after taking a few bites. The mother couldn\’t bear it anymore, thinking that life was so difficult and the child was disobedient, so she picked up a stick and beat the child in anger. After spanking the child, the mother looked at the chicken drumsticks on the ground. She couldn\’t bear to throw them away, so she took them and washed them and ate them herself. Many years later, the child and his mother brought up this past incident again on a talk show. The host asked the mother what kind of person this child was when she was a child. The mother said: \”It\’s good, but when it comes to eating, it really breaks my brain and hurts my heart!\” The child said to his mother: \”If I hadn\’t dropped the chicken legs on the ground, you Will you be willing to eat it?\” \”Only in this way will you eat it!\” Because when he was a child, he found that every time the meat he bought was eaten by several children, his mother would not touch it. During those days, my mother only ate pickles and gave away all the delicious foodThey are siblings. So the naughty child deliberately took a few bites without eating. Only in this way could the mother eat the meat. When he told the truth about this incident at the scene, he looked at his mother with tears in his eyes. His mother was so moved that everyone at the scene burst into tears. This naughty boy grew up and made many classic and blockbuster movies. In many of the movies, there were scenes of him grilling chicken wings and eating chicken legs. He used movies to express his childhood feelings in front of the audience. This ignorant child is named Stephen Chow. (03) There was a video before, which was a test in which mothers and children rated each other. Several mothers discussed in the studio that their children were naughty, disobedient, ignorant, and did not eat well… The host asked the mothers: \”If the full score is 10 points, what score would you give your child?\” The mothers thought for a while and gave scores ranging from eight to seven, with the lower one being five points. Then the camera cuts to the children playing. They talked about their mothers with praise and love: \”I like my mother to play with me…\” \”When I get home from school, I just want my mother to hug me…\” \”I will be very sad when my mother gets older…\” \”I just like my mother, I want to protect her…\” The host also asked the children the same question: \”If the full score was 10, how would you rate your mother?\” The children\’s answers were surprisingly consistent, almost all 10! Except for a certain ignorant child, she actually said she would give him 10,000 points! In the studio, all the mothers of the children cried. They were moved by their children, and they felt the unconditional love in their children. (04) Parents want their children to be obedient, but parents often cannot hear their children speak. Parents want their children to be sensible, but parents often don\’t understand their children\’s world. When parents are in a bad mood, children cannot hide away. When children are in a bad mood, parents should be reasonable. When we always let our children learn from other people\’s children, our children never ask us to become perfect parents. Children\’s love for us is often innocent and unthinking, while our love for our children is often conditional expectations. Children only hope for joy, adults only know expectations. Children grow up in the expectations of adults, and as they grow up, they also become adults who have expectations. We always feel that our children are troublesome, but in their eyes, we are perfect. There is an interesting experiment abroad. Participants were asked this question: If you were asked to choose anyone to have dinner with, who would you choose? The answers from parents are varied: Kylie Minogue, Justin Bieber, Marilyn Monroe, Mandela…. The children\’s answers are very simple: \”family\”, \”eating with mom and dad\”, \”want to be with the whole family\”. The children\’s simple answers made countless adults feel ashamed and moved. In the world of children, parents are better than all celebrities and heroes. Their love for their parents is the most important love in their lives. The Russian writer Dostoevsky said: \”Being with children can save your soul.\” Because every adult was once a child, and every child once loved their parents unconditionally. Love your children wellZi, just like understanding myself back then.