Everyone envied this child\’s excellence, but only after getting to know his mother did he feel ashamed.

There is a very kind elder sister in my friend\’s workplace. She has been in the workplace for more than ten years and is a veteran figure. Therefore, there are many things about her. She has an only son who is handsome and very outstanding. He graduated from a prestigious university. , studied finance, worked for others for a few years, and then started his own business. Many people in the work unit are envious of the elder sister for having such an outstanding son. People in the unit are particularly interested in him, so they often ask the elder sister to talk about her son. The eldest sister doesn’t talk about her son’s current affairs, but often talks about his childhood. She remembers many small things very clearly, and sometimes she can even specify the specific day. People really admire her memory. In fact, it’s not that she has a good memory. , just because she is an excellent mother. The eldest sister put a lot of effort into her son, which is not something ordinary people can do. The eldest sister had a very good job, she liked it, and the salary was very good. However, after giving birth to her son, she decided to quit her job and stay at home regardless of everything. She devoted herself to taking care of her children, and did not return to work until her son entered elementary school. The eldest sister herself is an intellectual. After having children, she read a lot of books on education and consulted many friends around her. She also studied hard and devoted herself wholeheartedly to cultivating and educating children. She performed very well in all aspects of primary school, and only then did the eldest sister return to work. Jewish women have the highest unemployment rate, or employment rate, in the world. This is not because they have no skills or abilities. On the contrary, most of these women are highly educated, because after having children, many women quit their jobs and stay at home. Focus on raising your children. Of course, I am not advocating this kind of education method, but if children are educated by their mothers since childhood, and they are highly educated, the effect will naturally not be too bad. Sometimes, we only see the excellence of other people\’s children, but not the efforts of their parents to cultivate them. There are many reasons for children\’s excellence. Innate IQ does play a big factor, and the personality inherited from parents will also It accounts for a part, but the acquired environment is equally important. The environment can destroy a person, but it can also build a person. Some parents take time to talk to their children every day, tell stories and accompany their children to sleep, no matter how tired they are from work every day. Some parents They often find some interesting games to play with their children as a family. Some parents waste time and money just to let their children understand a truth, and some parents want to send their children to good schools no matter how difficult it is… Excellence is certainly created by children, but parents can have some influence on the environment around them when they were young.