Excellent children who are tired of studying often start with a decline in grades. Parents can tell their children this

I have met many children who are tired of studying because after entering junior high school or high school, their grades suddenly failed to keep up. They were very anxious and anxious, but the more anxious they became, the less they could learn. So it is easier to just break the pot, close yourself up, stop studying, and give up studying than to study hard and still fail the exam, and you will not be looked down upon by others. If your child has had similar thoughts and feels that there is no point in learning if he cannot learn well, then parents must say this to their children: If we want to do something well, we may need to put in 100 efforts, but when we When you pay 20 or 30, you won\’t see any change. Even if you pay 80, it seems to have no effect. This question is equivalent to saying that we are not full after eating one steamed bun, and we are not full after eating two steamed buns, but we are full when we eat the third steamed bun. Without the first two steamed buns, it would be impossible to be full on the third steamed bun. Although there seems to be no progress now, everything you do cannot be meaningless. Making mistakes has its meaning and value, not to mention the efforts you have made? Every effort has value, but it does not necessarily lead to immediate gains. In this world, no matter what a person does, as long as he wants to achieve something, he must follow a common rule. The rule is: do it more times. Repetition is very powerful, and memorization and recitation are the first hurdles to overcome in learning. Hard work is a very good quality. Repeated learning does not make you look stupid, but it shows that you are very down-to-earth and learn down to earth. People who look down on others because of their efforts are just people who are afraid of giving. They are the people who are full of fear and powerlessness in their hearts. The road must be walked step by step, and the meal must be eaten one bite at a time. Learning is also accumulated bit by bit. When I first entered school as a freshman in high school, I was at the bottom of the class. I also doubted myself. I felt that I was too stupid and could not keep up with the progress of my teachers and classmates. But then my mother cured me, and I also understood that first place cannot be obtained in the first time, and knowledge cannot be learned over and over again. Just like my mother growing flowers, from carefully caring for a seedling to growing buds and blooming, every step requires careful care and care, which requires a lot of time and a lot of patience. I was almost flat for a year as a freshman in high school, but it took more than a year to go from last to first in the school. When I was in the second model of high school, I took the first place in Qingdao, and it took nearly another year. . To this day, I believe that every step of effort has its own meaning. Reading and studying, although not the only way out, is indeed the best way out for us ordinary people. The upward path is difficult and requires children to persevere, fight, and work hard, as well as parents’ companionship and understanding; the downward path is very simple, requiring parents to do nothing, leave their children alone, or even give up on their children. Parents must not give up on their children. Every child has great potential. I was able to go from being last in the first class of high school to ranking first in Qingdao in the third year of high school, thanks to my mother\’s support and encouragement. It is not a bad thing at all for an outstanding child to be tired of studying for a while. The important thing is to see the child\’s suffering and tiredness and never give up on him.Don\’t think that he will be useless in this life. As long as you can help him get through this difficulty together, blessings will follow.