Except for your father, no man will treat you as a daughter.

What are the consequences of today\’s girls being harmed by poisonous chicken soup? The day before yesterday, a fan asked me to comment on whether she was wrong or her boyfriend was wrong. The two of them went to the supermarket together. It was very crowded that weekend, and there was a long queue of people at the checkout. The two of them waited for almost ten minutes. The girl got impatient. She picked up her shopping basket and rushed to the front of the line to jump in. It happened that she was joining an aunt\’s team, and the aunt immediately shouted: \”You little girl, why are you so unqualified!\” Isn\’t that embarrassing? I was embarrassed for her across the screen. The girl\’s boyfriend probably felt the same way. He quickly went up to apologize to the aunt and pulled her to the back of the line. \”I had a fight with someone, and he helped someone else. I was so angry at the time.\” The girl complained to me. In anger, she started to scold her aunt at the checkout counter and said many unpleasant words. Her boyfriend acted as a peacemaker at first, but later he simply snatched the shopping basket from her hand and dragged her away. \”Later we had a big fight, and he kept saying that what I did was wrong, but even if I was wrong, as my boyfriend, he should defend me unconditionally, right?\” Haha, no. He is your boyfriend, not your dad. Besides, even your dad would have to whip you in this situation. More and more girls cannot tell where the boundaries of love are. In their minds, since he is my boyfriend, they should eat instant noodles for three months and save money to buy me an iPhone 7. He is my boyfriend, and he will appear in front of my house at any time with a bowl of hot rice noodles, even if the road is blocked by heavy snow in the middle of the night. He is my boyfriend. He has to be on call 24 hours a day without doing anything. He listens to my calls and waits for my call to greet me. He is my boyfriend, so he must pamper me, pamper me, pamper me without any principles or bottom line. Friends, if you fall in love like this, danger will really not be too far away from you. In the recent popular drama \”The First Half of My Life\”, the heroine Zijun is such a doted woman. She uses her husband\’s card to buy things all day long. She doesn\’t even understand the most basic social etiquette. Once she loses Between her husband and her family, she was like a fish thrown into the desert, terrified and helpless as if it was the end of the world. If you fall in love and abandon even the most basic moral concepts, right and wrong, and survival skills, then this person must not be pampering you, but harming you. Just like the girl mentioned earlier, if her boyfriend is as confused as her and the two of them make a big fuss in the supermarket, the girl\’s vanity will be satisfied, but in the long run, what kind of person will she become? Unruly, arrogant, and unable to distinguish right from wrong. Who wants to be friends with such a girl? Who can pamper her like this for a lifetime? Taking a step back, even if you really want to find someone who will treat you as a daughter, you must first understand that a father will not dote on a daughter like this. He will hold you in the palm of his hand, but he will also teach you the principles of life. . In real life, is there anyone who spoils his girlfriend to the extreme? have. I\’ve heard of boys who spent their birthdays in the rain and worked a summer job to raise money to take their girlfriends on a trip. I’ve also heard of boys walking for days and nights to find their girlfriends who were stranded at the train station when roads were blocked by ice storms. I’ve also heard of boys trying to make themselves depressed every dayMy girlfriend is happy and goes to learn tricks from a circus clown. To be honest, as a girl, I am a little envious. But at the same time, I also understand that in the adult world, no one has the obligation to treat you well for no reason and without asking for anything in return. You are lucky to have someone doting on you. You should cherish this luck and not be arrogant, demanding excessively, or bossing around like a princess. You are looking for a boyfriend, not a father. You have grown up and you need to fall in love like an adult. If he gives you an iPhone, can you also give him a pair of running shoes? He cooked rice noodles for you, can you also make him a breakfast? He solves the trouble for you, can you be more careful and give him less trouble? Don’t immerse yourself in those unrealistic fantasies all day long. Prince Charming will pamper you, the seven dwarfs will pamper you, and even the Frog Prince and Dragon Knight in the fairy tale next door will pamper you. Just dream about it, it doesn\’t exist in real life.