Experience the beauty of simplicity with your children

An education expert once said that \”beauty is the best tutor\”. So, what exactly is beauty? \”Beauty\” is actually a very subjective feeling. Our appreciation and expression of beauty is a degree of coordination when we look at the external world. This kind of coordination will make people feel comfortable, and everyone is born with it. \”Beauty\”, no matter what form it exists in, can make the person involved feel moved. The existence of beauty can make people become positive and open-minded, and make people full of love and gratitude. Therefore, cultivating children\’s awareness of beauty from an early age, and allowing them to capture even simple and small beauty in their lives, is the most valuable task in family education. Only those who understand beauty and feel beauty can truly love life. Let\’s take a look at the example of Rousseau: The French educator Rousseau lost his mother when he was just born, and his aunt raised him. His aunt gave him a beautiful education from an early age, which left an unforgettable impression on him. . He wrote in \”Confessions\”: \”My interest in music… is definitely influenced by my aunt. She can sing countless beautiful tunes and songs, and her clear voice sings very well. Beautiful. And her cheerful mood can dispel the melancholy and sadness of herself and everyone around her. Her singing has such a great charm on me. Not only some of the songs she sang have remained in my memory. , even today when my memory has declined, some songs that I had completely forgotten when I was a child have resurfaced in my mind as I grow older, giving me an indescribable pleasure.\” Even In Rousseau\’s later life, whenever he thought of the songs his aunt sang, he would often cry like a child. There was a song his aunt taught him that always made him very emotional. Unfortunately, he forgot the second half of the song. As for the lyrics, he had several times wanted to ask someone to fill in the last half of the lyrics that he had forgotten, but he never did so because he didn\’t want anyone else to sing the song that made him so emotional. The beauty of this song that he experienced in his childhood had a subtle influence on his life. The influence of beauty has such magical power that sometimes it is hard to believe. Eventually he became a world-famous scholar and educator. Usually, people\’s understanding or view of the beauty of life is called aesthetics. As we all know, aesthetics determines to a large extent a person\’s attitude towards life and the beauty and ugliness of his behavior and speech. Aesthetic literacy includes awareness and abilities such as understanding beauty, evaluating beauty, feeling beauty, appreciating beauty, enjoying beauty, expressing beauty and creating beauty. These are gradually formed as a person grows up, and the formation of aesthetics will be affected by many details in life. Therefore, in daily life, \”bad\” parents always remind themselves: correct and elegant Aesthetics and the experience and recognition of beauty can be cultivated in children\’s daily lives. \”Bad\” parents believe that cultivating children\’s aesthetic abilities can help them develop noble sentiments, delight their spirits, beautify their souls, and enlighten their wisdom. A good understanding of beauty will enableThey gain more happiness. Children will discover themselves, cultivate themselves and surpass themselves through new aesthetic angles and new visions, while discovering, cultivating and creating life, so that beauty can be with life. So, as a \”bad\” parent, how should we provide effective aesthetic education to our children? First of all, parents should input various beautiful information for their children. The simplest way is that parents can simply teach their children some basic aesthetic knowledge, theories and their own experience of aesthetics and appreciation of beauty based on their own experience, and then, under the guidance of this knowledge, guide their children to get in touch with natural beauty, social beauty, Artistic beauty allows children to initially develop the ability to recognize beauty in the process of trying and understanding, so that they can pay attention to various beautiful information. Secondly, parents should guide their children into an aesthetic state. For example, let children appreciate the beauty of nature during the aesthetic process, or listen to a piece of music and be exposed to a beautiful behavior. On the one hand, it allows children to experience aesthetic pleasure and cultivate the ability to feel beauty; on the other hand, it allows these elements of beauty to be harmoniously integrated with their own imagination, emotions and understanding, becoming a kind of aesthetic enjoyment. Gradually, children will be able to develop a certain appreciation ability and form their own preliminary aesthetics. Thirdly, parents should deliberately let their children sublimate every aspect of their lives to the level of aesthetic consciousness, and often encourage their children to see, listen, and think from an aesthetic perspective. In this way, children\’s aesthetic state can reappear repeatedly, be influenced by them for a long time, and leave a deep imprint on their aesthetic experience in a subtle way. This will continuously improve the child\’s ability to evaluate beauty, thereby sublimating to a high level and pursuing a richer and more elegant life. Aesthetic objects produce higher-level aesthetic requirements. In fact, in the process of providing aesthetic education to children, not all parents may be able to learn and implement such advanced theories, but there is one thing that every parent must be able to do their best, and this is also the most important, and that is Let children have the ability to perceive the beauty of life. As we all know, everyone does not have the same aesthetic feeling for the same thing, but everyone can perceive and touch the self-pleasure in the soul through their own senses. People have a unique appreciation of beauty, because beauty can arouse our feeling of being touched and grateful for life. “Bad” parents always believe that teaching their children to experience simple beauty in life, to observe and feel beauty in life is the basis for children to start a better life. Therefore, parents can create as many beautiful things for their children as possible. environment. Such as sound, color, and situation, these are the first media of beauty that children come into contact with. Through the understanding of these beauty carriers, children can feel the charm of beauty in \”moistening things silently\”. Here, a beautiful environment not only refers to a clean and elegant room layout, good etiquette of family members, and harmonious and happy member relationships, but also includes the neat and elegant appearance of children, and also includes the beauty that children appreciate among the magical and wonderful mountains and rivers of nature. , distant, spectacular and broad mysterious beauty. In the final analysis, the purpose of all aesthetic education is to create a strong and perfect personality in children, so \”bad\” parents insist that they shouldChildren should be allowed to have a certain aesthetic ability in social life. In addition to cultivating children\’s natural aesthetic ability in art, we should also pay attention to cultivating children\’s aesthetic ability in social life. Therefore, as parents, you must first pay attention to your own image language, use your dignified appearance and beautiful language to purify your children\’s ears and hearts, and expose your children to a good external environment. We need to cultivate children\’s comprehensive aesthetic ability, benevolence, kindness, helpfulness, honesty and trustworthiness, diligence and simplicity, courage and strength, self-esteem, self-reliance, positivity and optimism and other excellent qualities. Paying attention to etiquette, kind and kind language, healthy and fit body, well-dressed, clean and elegant clothes, and elegant temperament can also arouse children\’s sense of beauty. Keep some beautiful flowers, plants or goldfish at home, let your children observe them, guide them to discover their beauty, and teach them to appreciate the beauty in simple life. Pay attention to the aesthetic education of children, such as training them to choose school bags, stationery, clothes, etc. printed with their favorite patterns, so that they can clearly understand what kind of beautiful image they like.