Facing a vicious creditor, a 10-year-old child\’s lies saved his father\’s life and his own!

Qiaoqiao\’s father has always disliked Qiaoqiao lying and tried every means to get Qiaoqiao to change this bad habit, but no matter whether he reasoned with Qiaoqiao or used coercion and inducement, it had no effect. Until Qiao Qiao was 10 years old, Qiao Qiao\’s father lost a lot of money by borrowing loan sharks from stocks and was hiding out. That day, when the debt collection company came to collect debts, Qiaoqiao happened to go to visit his father. And because of this, something terrible happened quietly… Qiaoqiao knocked on the door, and before Qiaoqiao\’s father could even open the door, those people caught up from behind. Seeing them, they grabbed Qiaoqiao fiercely and asked him what he was talking to the head of the household. relation. When Qiaoqiao\’s father came out to watch the door, he saw this scene through the peephole. He was so panicked that something big was going to happen this time. He almost couldn\’t help but open the door and go out to rescue his son. However, while he was hesitating, an incredible scene happened at the scene. The debt collectors actually let go of Qiaoqiao and waved him to go play elsewhere. At this time, the father in the house was stunned. After waiting for a long time for those people to leave, he found Qiaoqiao and found out the truth of the matter. It turned out that after Qiaoqiao was caught, he told the debt collectors: \”I live on the second floor, and some clothes fell on the balcony of our house. My mother asked me to ask if they were their clothes, but they didn\’t even know they were there.\” No one is at home, it\’s a waste of time, I\’m so annoyed…\” As it happened, Qiaoqiao was holding a change of clothes for his father. When the father heard Qiaoqiao\’s words, he almost cried and hugged his son fiercely! I never thought that the lies I usually hated my son would actually save their lives. And he himself began to deeply reflect on his own problems. He always felt that lying was not a good behavior, so he always taught his son to change it, and even used violence! But now he owes other people money and is running for his life. This is also an irresponsible behavior. Therefore, now he decides to start from himself and can no longer set a bad example for his children. Later, after many twists and turns, Qiao Qiao\’s father finally went to a loan company to repay the debt. He did not force Qiao Qiao to give up the \”bad habit\” of lying. He just made an agreement with Qiao Qiao: \”Lying depends on the occasion. Some lies can be told, but some lies cannot be told.\” We can\’t talk about it, sometimes we have to be sincere.\” After his father\’s loan incident, Qiao Qiao also grew up a lot. He nodded sensibly to his father\’s words and was not as rebellious as before. This may be what people often say, \”Every time you learn something, you gain wisdom.\” In this story, Qiao Qiao\’s father is a negative example. Many of his behaviors are not worth learning from other parents. Of course, Qiao Qiao\’s love of lying is not worthy of praise at all. But there is one thing that I hope will attract the attention of parents: scientists have proven that lying is a manifestation of children\’s intellectual development. Children as early as two or three years old will engage in some \”cheating\” behaviors, and follow-up studies have shown that habitual Children who lie will be better able to adapt to society and achieve greater self-achievement in their future development. Therefore, I hope that parents, after discovering that their children are lying, will not scold and beat them first, but must face up to this sign that their children are lying. Parents, please look at the problem more comprehensively. I hope you can discover the motivation of lying itself. Everything is actuallyThere are two sides to this. What parents have to do is to guide their children on how to make use of their strengths and avoid their weaknesses, so that they can know how to behave appropriately and learn smarter. Just like the problem of children lying, there are also many so-called \”bad habits\” by parents. In fact, they themselves have inherent positivity. What is important is how parents can teach their children to control the limits and let them stop when enough is enough. Of course, it is understandable to use some coercive means when necessary. Life is actually composed of countless choices. For smart children who can lie, they are more loved by God, face more choices, and have greater responsibilities on their parents’ shoulders. heavier.