Father determines the height of the family; mother determines the temperature of the family

Parents are their children\’s first teachers, and they have a strong and far-reaching influence on their children\’s lives. The father is the sky and the mother is the earth. The sky is high and high, and everything is alive. The father is the pen, and the mother is the ink. If the ink is straight and thick, the painting will be vivid. The father is a mountain in the family, towering and steady, supporting the family\’s burden and determining the direction and height of the family. Mother is a river in the family, with clear water and gentle waves. It regulates the atmosphere of the family and determines the atmosphere and temperature of the family. Father determines the height of the family. The father is the pillar and backbone of the family. As long as the father is around, the family will never fall apart. \”If a car runs fast, it all depends on the headband.\” My father is the locomotive of the family. Since the beginning of patriarchal society, the father has always been the center of the family due to the biological advantages of men. The traditional concept says that \”men are at the forefront of the outside world, while women are at the center of the household.\” Compared with the mother, the father has a longer-term vision, a firmer will, and is more able to face the hardships and storms of life calmly. In the eyes of every child, his father is an all-powerful superman and Sun Wukong’s magic needle. It seems that no matter how big the problem is, he can survive it with his father by his side. If you want your family to be stronger and have a better future, the father who is the head of the car must have a keen vision and direction, be able to lead family members on the right path, and be able to plan the future and direction for the family. If a father is short-sighted and muddles along, the future of the family will not be good. \”The virtue of a father is the inheritance of a child.\” A father\’s virtue is the best gift to his children. The father represents discipline and restraint in family life. The famous former Soviet educator Amonashvili once said, \”The father should be the authoritative person at home. The higher his prestige, the stricter the children will be on themselves.\” Children can grow better when their father is with them and under their father\’s influence. Different from the mother\’s protective education, the father will encourage and lead the children to take risks in educating their children, so that the children will have a positive and enterprising spirit from an early age. Only when the father plays a good role in the child\’s growth can the child have a healthy psychology, the child can be more outstanding in the future, and the family can be happier. Lin Zexu\’s father was a private school teacher. He was asked to teach in a private school, but he refused. Lin Zexu\’s father hoped to personally teach his son the virtues and aspirations of the ancients. Someone once gave Lin Zexu\’s father an expensive gift to help him fake it, but Lin Zexu\’s father also refused. It is the height and character of the father that determine the future and height of the family. A father must never lose his fighting spirit. He must keep his family at heart and set a good example for his children. Mother, determines the temperature of the family. Mother is like a huge flame, determining the atmosphere and temperature of the family. As someone once said: Losing a loving mother is like a flower in a vase. Although it still has color and fragrance, it has lost its roots. Women are gentler and more trustworthy than men. In a family, we need not only a resolute father but also a gentle mother. Just like when stones rub and collide with each other, a sponge is needed to buffer them. The mother plays the role of a sponge. \”Men don\’t shed tears lightly.\” Compared with men, women are more emotional and easier to express their feelings or release their stress. It is because of this characteristic that the mother acts as an emotional charger in the family.While the father is working hard at the front, the mother does the logistics for the family and creates a warm environment where the father can relax and relieve stress at home. Only when the mother is gentle and good at adjusting the atmosphere can the family environment be more harmonious, and the family can think in one place and work hard in one place. If the mother is cold and irritable in the family, the whole family will not be in a good mood. Children prefer to rely on their mothers in the family, and mothers have greater influence on their children. If the mother is gentle, the child will have a peaceful mind when he grows up. If the mother always blames or complains, it will cast a psychological shadow on the child and may lead to psychological defects or psychological distortions in the child. Children learn how to get along with others from their mothers, and how to love others from family life. If an unhappy mother always transmits negative energy to her children, then the children will not be happy in the future. Fu Lei\’s wife Zhu Meifu is gentle and affectionate, and Yang Jiang praised her as a \”gentle wife and loving mother\”. Fu Lei has a bad temper and loses his temper frequently, but Zhu Meifu always coordinates between her children and her husband. In Zhu Meifu’s letter to her son, she said, “After marriage, because of his impatience, torture, big and small, was always inevitable…Although I was unwise and cowardly by nature, I was able to deal with him invisibly or severely due to my patience. Being smaller helps to some extent, and this is something I can be proud of and comforted.\” Mothers should control their emotions in family life, think from others\’ perspective and be considerate. Be considerate of your husband\’s hard work, speak up if you have anything to say, and don\’t argue or complain. Everyone in the family is contributing to the family, and it\’s not easy for everyone. The father is the sun in the family, shining brightly to guide people; the mother is the moon in the family, shining brightly and clarifying people\’s hearts. The father determines the height of the family and has a far-sighted vision, so that the family can blossom and grow. The mother determines the temperature of the family. If she is gentle and encouraging, the family will be harmonious, warm and blessed every year.