Final exam, please take it easy, the child is your biological child

These days are the days of intense preparation for exams in primary and secondary schools. During the past weekend, most children were reviewing their homework at home. Ki\’s mother joked with her friends that she didn\’t realize until she was in elementary school that kindergarten was heaven; she didn\’t realize until she was in third grade that first and second grade were just drizzle; she only realized that elementary school was nothing after she got to junior high school… So, when will you be a person? Where is the head? Nowadays, first-grade primary school students are busy all day on weekdays and don’t go to bed until 9 o’clock. On weekends, they are full of interest classes… What are their ways of relieving stress? Maybe, it’s the half-hour of weekend TV that I fought so hard for. Sometimes, if you don\’t perform well, you will be deprived of half an hour of television rights. Children will also be unhappy and in a bad mood, but they are often suppressed: they are not allowed to be angry, they are not allowed to cry, and they study hard; even though their parents are quarreling every day and making a lot of noise, they always treat the children lightly: Don\’t worry about adults\’ affairs, children, just study hard… These pressures and emotions will not disappear out of thin air, they will show up in our children in various ways. Diseases that were once rare in children are now becoming increasingly common. \”During this period, for some reason, the child kept blinking his eyes, frowning, growling in his throat, and opening and holding his hands. What\’s even more strange is that his temper became very irritable and he kept getting angry. I don’t know what’s going on.” Two days ago, an anxious mother sent Ki’s mother a WeChat message asking what happened to her child. My mother also sent a short video. Ki’s mother watched it carefully and found that it was very close to the situation described by her mother. Ki\’s mother remembered that she had talked about her child\’s situation with Dr. Xuan Guiqi, a pediatrician at the Zhejiang Provincial Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine and a famous provincial TCM doctor. At that time, Dr. Xuan said that such children were not uncommon. Sometimes, half of the more than 40 children in the outpatient clinic a day had such problems. This is called \”polytic syndrome\” in medical terms. Dr. Xuan also said that more than ten years ago, he only received one such case a month. In recent years, more and more children have had this problem. This symptom is caused by a variety of factors. My mother has carefully observed these children with \”multiple tics\”. They will blink frequently, twitch their noses, shake their heads, frown, and keep grabbing their hands. Some people will also make a \”gurgling\” in their throats. strange noise. Most parents will initially think that these little behaviors of their children are bad habits, and they can slowly urge them to change them. Therefore, I usually pay great attention to the various performances of my children. Remind them from time to time, sometimes very harshly: Your eyes are blinking again, your nose is moving again. However, these strange little movements are an involuntary reaction of children, and sometimes even the children themselves are not aware of it. Most of the children who go to the hospital for this kind of \”little movement\” are boys. According to medical statistics, \”Tics Multiplex\” is more common in boys, especially in children aged 5-14 years old. Under normal circumstances, colds, infections, etc. can easily cause this disease. In addition, colds, wind, etc. can also cause the occurrence or recurrence of the disease. In spring, when the temperature changes greatly, this disease is more likely to develop.hair. Nowadays, many children eat too much and have unbalanced nutrition, which leads to an imbalance of trace elements in the body. This is an important cause of the onset or recurrence of \”multiple tics\”. Under normal circumstances, doctors will prescribe some traditional Chinese medicine for children with multiple tics to clear away heat, eliminate phlegm, and dispel wind and dredge meridians for conditioning. But the more important thing is to adjust the child\’s living habits. Doctors will tell children: Don’t watch too much TV or use the computer too much, no more than half an hour at most; it’s best not to drink cold drinks or cold boiled water; don’t swim and avoid being blown by the wind. He explained that things that are too cold can stimulate the nervous system, and watching TV or using computers for a long time, affected by mental factors, can induce the recurrence of tics. In addition, children only need to eat enough and eat well, and they must not eat too much. \”Don\’t think that children who eat more will be more nutritious. In fact, this kind of polytic syndrome is closely related to eating too much. Parents must pay attention to their children\’s dietary structure and pay attention to a balanced diet.\” Department of Psychology, Children\’s Hospital Affiliated to Zhejiang University Li Rong, director and chief physician, said that \”polytic syndrome\” is mainly caused by two factors. One is the immaturity of the child\’s nervous system control development, and the other is a psychological state that occurs after the child is nervous and feels pressure. emergency. Ki\’s mother has also encountered many second factors that lead to \”multiple tics\”. Sudden changes in the family, such as parents having a bad relationship and quarreling for a long time; parents getting divorced; father\’s business failure, etc., often become triggers. In addition, children are under too much pressure to study, and parents push too hard in studies, etc., which can also make children feel Stress, in turn, produces this type of physical response. Usually, it is not easy for us to see the various pressures children are under. For example, parents have a bad relationship and often quarrel. They think they are very careful and avoid their children. For example, they do not quarrel in front of their children and behave normally in front of them. Wait, but children can see the clues from various clues. This fear of their parents being separated will make them at a loss as to what to do, and unspeakable pressure will arise. If the accumulated stress cannot be relieved, it may be reflected through some physical manifestations, and this may be how tics arise. If it is a physical reaction caused by various stresses, then parents themselves must first relax. In addition, they must not put too much pressure on their children. Under normal circumstances, children with this disease will not feel uncomfortable when they make small movements such as frequent blinking and shaking their heads. But if parents deliberately emphasize or force children to correct, the children will feel uncomfortable. These small movements are not deliberate and are involuntary. Therefore, it is completely meaningless to require children to control and not do small movements. Once a child is found to have symptoms of multiple tics, they should be sent to the hospital for examination in time. If the symptoms are mild, behavioral correction is usually enough under the guidance of a doctor. If the symptoms are severe, then auxiliary drug treatment is provided. Of course, parents should not be anxious. As long as treatment is timely, it can be effectively controlled. During the final exam period, both parents take it easy, and their children’s habits and studies areIt is accumulated bit by bit in daily life. Therefore, during this period, do not put too much pressure on your children. Sometimes, stress becomes a symptom and is reflected in children, and we often only see poor performance in children. In fact, it is us who need to change.