Finally, a movie says that men who play wildly with their children are the most handsome

\”I\’m Not a Child, You Don\’t Have to Hold My Hand\” was produced by Columbia Pictures in 1996 and directed by Larol Barland. The film won the 69th Academy Award for Best Cinematography (nominated). Suitable range: children over five years old and adults of all ages. Recently, a friend watched a heart-warming movie. To be honest, I have long passed the age of being moved by heart-warming stories. When I always feel like drinking chicken soup, I watch Xinwen Lianbo enough. However, before I have finished watching this movie, I am so excited that I want to recommend it to everyone. As a parent, you will be as moved as I was. Some movies don\’t have superb skills and are extremely simple, but they can go straight to people\’s hearts. \”Flying High with You\”, a movie based on a true story, can definitely deserve a Douban score of 8.8! The film starts with a touch of melancholy, accompanied by sad music. A traffic accident occurs without warning. The heroine Amy, a thirteen-year-old girl, lost her mother in this traffic accident. She had no choice but to go to Canada to join her father, whom she had not seen for more than ten years. When they first met, I felt that their relationship was a bit strange. Amy, who was only 13 years old, was as precocious and sensitive as a little adult, while her father, Jeff, was like a big boy, full of strange ideas and even a little weird. Dad Jeff claims to be an artist, who specializes in customizing some strange exhibits for museums. He is also an inventor. He invented a lifting refrigerator that shocked his daughter. He is currently devoting himself to building a lunar module to fly in the future. Go for a walk on the moon. Faced with such an unreliable father, Amy felt helpless. The long-term lack of companionship made Amy feel overwhelmed by this father. The stubborn girl had to use the most common way for adolescent children to deal with the unfamiliarity between them: wrap themselves up first. For example, the father wanted to ease the tense relationship between father and daughter, so he took Amy to her former bedroom and said, \”Look, I tried my best to make the room the same as it was before.\” Amy obviously didn\’t want to accept this, and replied stiffly: \”It was the same as before.\” What does it look like? I don’t even remember.” For another example, the father explained to his daughter: “I will be very busy during this period of time, and may need to stay in the studio all the time.” Amy curled her lips and thought, aren’t you always You\’re all busy, I\’ve long been used to it, okay? Although Amy was unhappy in her heart, she did not show it. Instead, she pretended to be indifferent and said: \”I am not a child, you don\’t have to hold my hand.\” Dad Jeff, this man obviously did not do anything to the sudden arrival of his daughter. He was well prepared mentally, but before he could get out of his obsessive dream, he was obsessed with flying a small glider in the sky. As a result, a daughter who cannot feel her father\’s care and an unreliable father who cannot understand her father\’s responsibility form a parent-child relationship full of gaps and conflicts. This episode is definitely a portrayal of reality. Although most dads are not artists, they need personal space more than artists. Personal space includes career, games, football, etc., but does not include spending time with their children. Colleagues at work had a dinner together. After dinner, except for a few young people born in the 1990s, mothersAll the women rushed back home in a panic, worried about all kinds of things, such as the baby needed to take a bath, whether the baby\’s homework was finished, and the baby\’s bedtime story hadn\’t been told yet. The men were discussing the next place to drink, with no intention of going home. In fact, it is a matter of concept adjustment. If a man can use the mental wisdom of drinking and playing games to spend time with his children, he will also do a great job and enjoy it. However, many fathers are just like Jeff in the movie. They have so many grand ideals to realize every day, so how can they have time to spend with their children? From the story design point of view, if the father and daughter continue to be so estranged, they will not be able to act. The contradictions and conflicts in the film pave the way for relaxation and recovery. So, when Amy accidentally discovers Xiaoyan, the plot begins to take a turn. The swamp in front of Jeff\’s house was originally the habitat of wild geese. Developers forcibly destroyed the land and the wild geese were forced to leave. Amy found 16 wild goose eggs in the ruins. She took the eggs home and built a nest for them. A few days later, the chicks hatched out of their shells. Because the chicks will regard the first thing they see after breaking out of the shell as their mother, these baby geese will regard the Amy they see as their mother and follow them all the way. The young swallow slowly grew into a wild goose. The problem arises. The flying ability and migration routes of wild geese are all taught by their parents. This group of wild geese has no parents at all. What should we do? A staff member from an animal protection agency mentioned \”Provision 9314\” – domestic geese should be unable to fly, and suggested that Amy clip the wings of the geese. Amy, who already regarded the geese as her own children, was naturally unwilling. She hugged the geese babies and hid in the bathroom. Attention, it\’s time for Jeff to become Super Man. I don’t know if it was his daughter’s sad and hurt look that finally inspired his awareness of being a father. Although the wild goose baby had also made him miserable, at this moment, he resolutely chose to stand with his daughter, like a real man. The staff who wanted to clip the wings of the wild geese were kicked out. At this time, I saw an opportunity for the relationship between father and daughter to change. Amy found a long-lost happiness in coexisting with the geese. When Jeff was willing to protect the geese with Amy, they obviously found a vehicle for communication with each other. Jeff even suggested that he could fly a plane and guide the geese to learn to fly. But the wild goose has a serious Oedipus complex and only recognizes Amy. In desperation, Jeff made a bold decision: sell his beloved lunar landing module, build a wild goose-like plane for Amy, teach Amy to fly, and then fly again. Accompany Amy and fly to Lake Ontario where she spends the winter with her baby geese. Seeing this, I couldn\’t help but drool in my heart. It turns out that having a technical nerd dad is so enviable, especially this technical nerd dad who is willing to go crazy with you for your nonsensical dreams! The following story is about Amy, her father and the wild geese’s journey together to “fly high with you”. Amy flies a glider with her father, accompanying her every day, teaching the geese how to fly step by step. Spread your wings and run forward, flap your wings and jump up, stretch your wings and fly into the sky… in the processThere are expectations, disappointments, doubts, hopes, and more importantly, happiness. Finally, they took the wild geese soaring in the sky and crossing the blue sky. During the flight south, the wing of Jeff\’s plane broke and the plane crashed. Amy cried and called her father frantically. It turned out that when Jeff taught her how to fly the glider step by step, when they watched the sunset together, when they chatted openly When talking about the past, she had already accepted him. Fortunately, Jeff only suffered a dislocated arm and was not seriously injured, but he could no longer fly with his daughter. He encouraged Amy to accomplish what she wanted to do alone. My child, I am willing to support your dream. No matter how absurd it is, I will try my best to accompany you through the most difficult journey, but you have to walk the rest of the way on your own. In the end, the geese completed an important migration, and Amy and her father also completed the most important change in their lives. This journey is precious because it carries so much love and persistence, and it becomes eternal because it carries the promise of “flying high with you.” Amy accompanies the wild geese to fly high, and the father accompanies the daughter to fly high, as the lyrics at the end of the film sing: May you be happy, my true love. After thinking about it later, I felt that Jeff had his own reasons for being able to accompany his daughter to fulfill her crazy dream and repair the relationship between father and daughter. He himself is a person who strives to be himself, so he can understand the idea of ​​​​children being themselves; he has experienced the joy of being himself, so he will not prevent children from approaching this joy. There is a short scene in the movie where Amy, with the help of her father, is finally able to fly a glider in the sky by herself, with the baby wild geese following behind her. At this time, there is a short interlude with the lyrics to the effect of: How could anyone love me so much? You are so lucky in my life. This episode deeply moved me to tears. When we were children, who didn’t long for a father who would accompany you in your dreams and go crazy with you? The greatest charm of movies is that they can not only touch people, but even change some people\’s lives. A few years ago, a man named Zhai Feng and his daughter sat on the sofa at home and watched \”Flying High with You\”. After that, \”flying\” became his daughter\’s dream. Zhai Feng did not say to his daughter: \”A movie is a movie, reality is reality.\” Instead, like Jeff in the movie, he chose to help his daughter realize her dream. A few years later, he took his daughter and flew a powered delta-wing aircraft around Australia. This is not a fairy tale concept, nor is it a novel plot like \”Robinson Crusoe\”, but a story that actually happened to an ordinary family in Jining City, Shandong Province. Zhai Feng used to be an ordinary career worker in the railway department. He lived a nine-to-five life. After get off work, he would have dinner and talk football with his colleagues. Today, Zhai Feng is a father. He is accompanying his daughter in Australia. Her daughter is studying language at Anula School and living according to the lifestyle he likes. Zhai Feng said: \”Isn\’t it perfect for a child to have such a dream? Such a living environment and way of life seem very dreamy, so why not just work hard in this direction.\” Isn\’t such a father so cool? In fact, dad is a child’s best playmate, but there are too many dads who are busy and tired.I have to forget the unreachable dreams I had when I was a child. I am so tired that I walk on thin ice every day. I can’t help but remind my children to be realistic. In fact, what if you occasionally stop your rapid pace and go crazy with your children? Suddenly I remembered a line from a movie: What we lack may need our children to teach us. I searched for fragments about my father in my memory, and found that what made me think of it immediately, and make my heart surge when I thought of it, was not that he bought me an extremely expensive doll, or that he invited me and my mother to go on a trip. One year, I raised a few rabbits and insisted on going out to walk them. My dad knew that the rabbits would run away as soon as they were let out, but he couldn\’t bear to interrupt my whimsical thoughts. So, in broad daylight, the neighbors I saw a five-year-old girl walking happily in front of her, followed by a bearded man running around in a panic, chasing the little rabbit that was trying to escape back behind the girl. Many years later, when I think back to this scene, my nose will feel sore. This must be the most touching thing that the grown man in my life has ever done. I guess he couldn\’t have imagined that what I remember so vividly is such a small thing. He was just like a child, playing wildly with me. When I grew up, I couldn\’t understand those fathers who cruelly gave up spending time with their children for the sake of their careers. Everyone has the right to choose their own life. If you choose a career between career and children, there is nothing wrong with it. It’s just a matter of giving up on the child, but he still pretends to be greatly wronged and says: “I make money all because of you!” Dads, don’t you know that for children, making a lot of money is a big deal? , it’s better to go crazy with him once. By the way, let me tell you a secret. In the eyes of mothers, men who play wildly with their children are the most handsome! ^_^ Could it be that you really don’t know that for a child, making a lot of money is not as good as going crazy with him?