For lawless children, the best educational tool is a rolling pin

A Weibo post made us, the melon-eaters, extremely angry after reading it. A female netizen witnessed a fourth-grade kid, 1.4 meters tall and weighing over 120 kilograms, push a pregnant woman hard. When asked why he did this, the naughty child was still eating snacks leisurely and said nonchalantly: \”I saw on TV that pregnant women would miscarry if they fell, and I wanted to see if pushing her would cause miscarriage. \”When the girl heard this, she exploded on the spot. With a mop pole in one hand and a rolling pin in the other, she kicked the naughty kid out of the house… The messages from netizens expressed overwhelming support. Some netizens said, \”I will fight to death to see if people can be resurrected!\” This is of course an angry statement, but the logic is good and it is quite consistent with the argumentation technique of reductio ad absurdum. If the naughty kid did the right thing, wouldn\’t he really deserve to be beaten to death? To be honest, even if such a naughty kid doesn\’t get beaten today, something will happen to him sooner or later, and he may even cause greater trouble and receive a bigger beating. For lawless children, the best educational tool is a rolling pin. That fat beating is worth a thousand words. In October 2010, Qian Wenzhong, a professor at Fudan University, gave a speech titled \”Education, Stop Compromising on Children in the Name of Love\” at the 3rd New Oriental Family Education Summit Forum, which was well received by netizens. Later, someone wrote \”Professor from Fudan: You can\’t cultivate outstanding children without beating, scolding or punishment!\” 》 was posted online, triggering rounds of reprints. In the article, Qian Wenzhong said, \”Why is education happy? I really can\’t figure out why education must be happy? There must be an element of pain in education. This is self-evident.\” \”Now, we are Children\’s education is mostly encouragement. So, what about punishment? Can education be without punishment? Can education be completed with encouragement alone?\” \”I agree that children should be really strict. After all, children are not adults, and they must also be disciplined and disciplined. He must be punished, and he must know that education is not just about happiness, and learning is not just about happiness.\” \”As a parent, I hope that if my son\’s teacher sees that he is useless, he will be beaten twice and forced to stand for a while. This is what he should do. . The Ministry of Education should set such rules and punish students.\” \”I hope teachers can hold carrots in one hand and a stick in the other.\”… Many of these words hit the mark on the current shortcomings of education. . Of course we do not advocate beating filial sons with a stick, but for those lawless children, punishment is indeed an effective educational method. Liang Shiqiu told a story in the article \”Children\”: A mother took her child to a department store. After passing the toy department, she saw a wooden horse. The child jumped up, swayed forward and back, and was so complacent that he never came down. The wooden horse is not for sale, it is a display in the store. The store clerk asked the child to come down, but the child didn\’t listen; the mother asked him to come down, but he didn\’t listen even more; the mother asked him to take him to eat ice cream, but he still didn\’t listen; when the mother asked him to take him to eat ice cream, he still didn\’t listen; when he went to buy chocolate candies, he especially refused to listen. No matter what wish I make, you will never listen to it. At that time, it developed into a deadlock and a stalemate. Finally, a clever clerk suggested: \”Why don\’t we invite the child psychology experts specially hired by the department store to come to the rescue?\” So a born child was brought in to help.Experts with professorial faces were invited down from the eighth floor. The expert asked what had happened, walked gently to the child, and whispered something in his ear, and the child rolled off his saddle and fell off the horse as if he was electrocuted. Holding her mother\’s dress, she ran away in a hurry. Afterwards, someone asked the expert what exactly he said to the child. The expert said: \”What I said is: \’If you don\’t get off your horse, I will smash your head!\’\” The expert is an expert, and he knows what naughty children are most afraid of. . Bi Shumin wrote in \”Child, Why Did I Beat You\”: You are like a naughty little beast, running uninhibitedly towards the grassland you yearn for, while I want you to accept the laws recognized by human society… in order to Let you remember and abide by them throughout your life. After all the hard work has failed, and after all the praise, criticism, threats and rewards have failed to achieve anything, I was forced to take out the last weapon-this is beating. If you touch the fire, the flames will burn your fingers. This experience will make you never touch this orange-red silk-like elf again in your life. My child, I hope that hypocrisy, cowardice, cruelty, and cunning, the dirtiest qualities, will make you feel pain when you first come into contact with them, and you will be forever separated from them. There is no need to spank babies who don\’t understand the truth or people who already understand the truth. Only children who are half-informed and think they understand but don\’t understand much can be beaten to help them grow up quickly. …I very much agree with Bi Shumin\’s point of view. If it is a baby who does not understand anything, we can forgive it; if it is an adult who already understands the truth, there are laws and morals to control him. But for children who are still receiving education, we should not give up the necessary coercive means. Remember, without punishment, there is no education! I remember last year, a video of a 2-year-old brother hitting his 6-year-old sister was circulated on the Internet, and the sister hit him back, which aroused the enthusiasm of netizens. While beating her brother, her sister told him a great truth: \”If you hit others, others will hit you; if you help others, others will help you…whatever you do to others, others will do to you!\” \”Everything this sister said makes sense! Some experts say that 2-year-old children cannot understand these principles. But so what, even if he doesn\’t understand the truth, he understands his sister\’s attitude and knows that he can\’t hit others for no reason next time. This is enough. The netizen who beat the naughty child at the beginning of the article said: The effect of beating the naughty child is that the naughty child will not come to our house during the Chinese New Year. When he saw me at my grandma\’s house, he would sneak away by the wall and not dare. Take half a step closer to my sister-in-law. Some netizens said it well, the most unforgivable people in the world are children. Because forgiveness often means condoning. Not only should he know right from wrong, but he should also know that he will be punished if he does something wrong. This is the correct way of education. There is an article that once went viral on WeChat Moments, titled \”The teacher can\’t do anything to you, but the outside world can.\” The article tells the ignorant kids that no one in society will forgive you for your willfulness. If naughty children are ignored by their families and schools, sooner or later they will be under the control of the police and prisons. By then, it will be too late to regret. I believe that naughty kid who got beaten up by the rolling pin will definitely not dare to do so in the future.You would break someone’s head with a stone to see if there would be blood, let alone smash open a cash machine to see if there is money inside. In a sense, he should be grateful to the netizen who hit him with the rolling pin. Because that meal with the rolling pin made him know the rules of life, and it really saved him from making bigger mistakes in the future.