In the process of educating children, parents and teachers should always be on the same front, that is, for the good of the children, at least they should each take their own responsibilities. Teachers are responsible for their children\’s learning tasks at school, while parents are responsible for their children\’s learning behavior at home and ensure the completion of various learning tasks. However, many parents get angry because of tutoring homework, which makes the parent-child relationship tense. In fact, educating children cannot be rushed, it requires a slow fire and a gentle breeze and drizzle. Because when you are anxious, you will become emotional; when you become emotional, you will lose your reason; if you lose your reason, you will uncontrollably yell at your children; and if you yell, your children will be overwhelmed and have many \”problems\”. So, for the sake of your children, read the following words aloud three times a day. From now on, I will encourage and praise my children more instead of criticizing, blaming and blaming them. Because we know that only encouragement and praise can give children confidence and strength. Criticism, accusation and complaint are just venting one\’s emotions and hurting the child\’s heart. From now on, I will use actions to influence children instead of using words to teach children. Because I know that children\’s behavior is not formed by teaching, but by influence, imitation and subtle influence. The child is a copy of the parent! From now on, I will listen more to my children instead of rushing to judge them. Because I know that listening is the best communication. From this moment on, I want to love my child unconditionally as he is, not as I ask him to be. Because I know that is my selfishness and ego. From now on, I must learn to squat down and communicate with my children on an equal footing, instead of being condescending and instructing my children. Because I know that forced suppression will only bring about stronger rebellion and resistance in children. From now on, I want to accompany my children attentively instead of dealing with them absentmindedly. Because I know that only true companionship can make children feel the warmth of love. From now on, I will control my emotions and handle every moment quietly and peacefully with my children. Because I know that temper and violence only represent my incompetence and harm to my children. From now on, I will proactively handle the relationship with my lover, create a harmonious family environment, and never let my father\’s conflicts affect and hurt my children. Because I know that only a harmonious relationship between fathers is the greatest love for children. From now on, I want my child to grow into what he wants to grow into, not what I expect him to grow into. He just came to this world through me to fulfill his own dreams and mission. From now on, I will plant more good causes and do good deeds for my children. Because I know that only by sowing good causes can you get good results. A house that accumulates good deeds will have more blessings; a house that accumulates evil will have more seedlings. From now on, I will use my children\’s problems to find out my own problems and correct myself. Because I know that all the children\’s problems are my problems, and I am the root of everything. From now on, I want to be the best friend, closest partner, and most loving father (mom) in my child\’s life! From today on, parents are asked to save these contents and read them every day. You will find that you have slowly changed in your children\’s education. As I change, my children unknowingly change too, and they have fewer and fewer problems growing up., the family became happy and harmonious again.
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