Four of the five children went to Tsinghua and Peking University because of self-discipline. How to cultivate self-disciplined children?

After watching the conversation between Hai Qing and her son, I had the urge to compete with her for her son. \”Son, shall I go out with you to play football for a while?\” \”Finish your homework.\” \”Write after you finish playing football?\” \”I can\’t finish it.\” \”If I can\’t finish it, I\’ll write it tomorrow.\” \”There will be tomorrow.\” Mother and son The conversation between the two really made others envious. Netizens left comments and likes: \”I checked the eyes, he is a self-disciplined and overbearing president.\” It turns out that the difference between our children and \”other people\’s children\” is only one \”self-discipline\”. If you want to turn your dreams into reality, you have to take action. With self-discipline accompanying you on your dream path, everything is under control, even difficulties and obstacles give way. The more self-discipline a person has, the more cheating he or she will have in life. Recently, I was moved by Huang Duoduo again because of a Weibo post by He Jiong. Ten years passed by like a shuttle. Huang Duoduo is no longer the little girl running around and stumbling around in the theater. She has grown into a tall and graceful girl. This time, she finally stepped onto the stage and had her own role. He Jiongfa, who acted with Duoduo on the same stage, said with emotion: On the first day of rehearsal, she had already memorized all the lines without script. After that, her stability and hard work made me completely trust her. In the first performance, Duoduo overcame the nervousness, fear and strangeness and won the warmest applause from the audience! And all of this is due to her ten years of hard practice, persistence and self-discipline, which finally allowed her to shine on the stage. Before the performance, Duoduoma wrote on Weibo: She can recite almost everyone\’s lines and is familiar with every corner of the stage play. She has always had a dream to become a stage actor, and this time her dream came true. real. She has prepared for this day for ten years. This is the power of dreams and a transformation of self-discipline. A self-disciplined child has scenery in his eyes, dreams in his heart, and is determined and confident in his heart. Because he knows that every time he makes progress, he is getting closer to his dreams. And self-discipline makes him firmly believe that as long as he works hard, one day his dreams will bear fruit. The more self-discipline you have, the more wonderful you will be. Self-discipline is a child\’s top strength. People who are not self-disciplined are slaves to their emotions, desires and feelings. Children who are self-disciplined will have a broader life path in the future. He will not become a slave to his emotions, he can better control his desires, and he clearly knows what he wants. A person who does not understand self-discipline, even if he is born with a good deck of cards, will be destroyed by his own hands. One of my high school classmates was admitted to a well-known university during the college entrance examination and chose a hot major at the time. After ten years of hard work, once he succeeded, the tight string in his heart instantly relaxed. After going to college, he became obsessed with online games and got out of control. He often skipped classes and stayed in Internet cafes all night long. In the first semester, because he missed too many classes, his grades in two subjects were red. However, he did not stop at the brink. Instead, he broke down, smoked, drank, went to bars, and got into fights. In the end, he was ordered to drop out of school. A great future was ruined by his own hands. Parker said in \”The Road Less Traveled\”: Self-discipline is the main tool to solve life\’s problems and the most important way to eliminate the pain in life. Lack of self-discipline is like a protracted influenza, which harms others and ourselves. People who are not self-disciplined constantly relax themselves.No matter how talented you are, your own demands will eventually be lost to everyone else. How terrible are self-disciplined children? Self-discipline allows people to live a different life and meet a different self. Self-discipline that is deep in one\’s bones can change the destiny of a person, or even the whole family. Shaanxi farmer Wu Zhibao relied on this kind of self-discipline to cultivate five top students. Of the five children, four have been admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University. The youngest daughter is also preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination and is not lagging behind at all. \”One major from Tsinghua University (Peking University), five sons are all talented.\” In order to thank him for cultivating such good talents for the country, the local government even spent 300,000 yuan to reward him. Photo source: Weibo @China News Network \”No matter how hard and tiring we are, we must send our children to college and change their destiny through knowledge.\” The best education the couple can give their children is to teach by words and deeds. For the sake of their children, they get up early and work hard at night, working hard and educating. Children also have some unorthodox methods. They never beat or scold their children because they don\’t study well. Every morning, as soon as they heard their parents getting up, the five brothers and sisters also got up quickly, groped in the dark, and read under the lamp. During holidays and weekends, they would spend at least half a day working with their parents. Speaking of his parents, the fourth child Wu Qingfeng said: \”They taught me to be strong, persistent and determined through their actions. No matter how difficult it is, I will never give up on my dreams.\” The eldest child Wu Yunfeng even played the role of \”the alpha wolf\” ” role, taking the lead in studying seriously and actively helping parents. In 2011, Wu Yunfeng extended an invitation to the four brothers and sisters, \”Let\’s meet at Peking University and Tsinghua University in five years.\” \”Then you wait for us at the gate of Tsinghua University.\” The younger brothers and sisters showed no signs of weakness. Self-discipline has been integrated into the lives of every member of this family, and they are each other\’s best role model. Self-discipline can make a family cheat. This kind of family tradition education is the best gift parents can give to their children. Those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. Self-discipline can be \”herited.\” Children are the mirror of their parents. We must be who we want our children to be. Sun Li shared a short video of herself in the gym on Weibo, with the text saying, \”Exercise, strengthen your body, and build muscles.\” \”I weigh myself every day. If my weight exceeds that point, I will immediately return it to the original point. I have been dancing like this since I was a child. I am used to it.\” Rather than saying this is a habit, it is better to say it is self-discipline. Sun Li\’s self-discipline is reflected in her pursuit of excellence in her career and the meticulous polishing of her works. From \”The Legend of Zhen Huan\” to \”That Year the Flowers Bloomed and the Moon Was Full\”, she carefully studied the characters in every play and accumulated hundreds of scripts alone. Those red, yellow, blue, green and white scripts, with their dense notes, annotations and excerpts, all reflect an actor\’s seriousness towards the role. During the filming of \”The Legend of Mi Yue\”, she could even fall asleep on the script, and even the six pages of lines were passed in one line. Even veteran drama star Fang Zhongxin couldn\’t help but sigh, \”I have never seen such a powerful actress. \”The more self-discipline you have, the more abundant you will be.\” With these dramas, Sun Li won the Feitian, Golden Eagle and Magnolia Awards, known as \”China\’s three major TV drama awards\”, achieving a career grand slam. \”I think you got the opportunity, and it\’s not entirely yours; it\’s justOnce you do it, the moment you stand on the stage, it truly belongs to you. \”Sun Li\’s self-discipline not only achieved her own success, but also affected her children. Looking through Sun Li\’s Weibo, it is not difficult to find a commonality. She occasionally picks up a pen to paint, and her children also like painting. She has been practicing yoga for ten years, and her children have become sports experts. For the sake of our children, let us become better versions of ourselves. Because, while you are doing it, he is learning. Starlight does not care about travelers, and time pays off to those who are thoughtful. Self-discipline is our own wings and the armor we give to our children.