God, give me a father like this

Taking advantage of my free time in the evening, I watched \”Dangal, Dad\” which has recently received a lot of praise. Mahavira, the father in the film, was once an excellent wrestler. However, because the Indian government does not attach great importance to wrestling, the wrestler\’s survival is in doubt. His dream was to win a world championship for India, but in order to survive, he gave up wrestling and found a job to make a living. After marriage, he hoped to have a son and train his child to be a wrestling champion. However, after giving birth to four daughters in succession, he gave up as he entered middle age. However, after discovering the \”fighting\” talent in his two daughters, he ignited his dream and began to put his own dreams on his daughters. He forced them to exercise and even cut off their hair, which attracted ridicule from the whole village. And unwavering. This is also an area that has been criticized by many viewers. However, in the context of India, I can still understand it very well. Just like what the protagonist’s little sister said: If their father doesn’t plan for them, they will marry a strange boy when they are about fourteen years old and sit around the pot. Live life in a gourd pot. \”I envy you even more for having such a father. He has created a future for you despite the ridicule of the whole world. With such a father, what are you dissatisfied with?\” This clip also deeply moved the two children and made them understand their father. After a lot of hard work, I began to accept wrestling training from the heart. They saw the fate and life path of ordinary girls. They have only one choice in life, and the path their father chose for them gives them more choices. The father did not impose his dreams on his children. After guiding his friend\’s wedding, the two girls took the initiative and wrestled together with heart. Therefore, in order for a child to learn something, the first thing to do is to stimulate his inner strength. Only by taking initiative can good results be achieved. Dual Father Everyone needs a spiritual \”father\”, and the father in the film illustrates the dual identity of a wrestling teacher in real life and a spiritual teacher. In India, a highly patriarchal environment, he raised his two daughters to be excellent wrestlers and won medals in the Olympics. Initially it was to fulfill my own dream, but in the end I not only fulfilled my own dream, but also fulfilled the dreams and lives of my daughters. In the film, after the eldest son and daughter win the national wrestling championship, they go to the National Sports Institute to further their studies and prepare for international competitions. After breaking away from my father\’s control, I let myself go. I even fought against my father and had a wrestling match. After defeating my father, I saw him lying on the sand. My father was helpless. I was extremely unwilling and didn\’t know what to do. When his daughter packed her bags and left in the car, her father just stood on the balcony and watched. Although his eyes were full of worry and reluctance, he could only watch silently. The eldest daughter participated in various international competitions and was eliminated in the first game. In desperation, she called her father. Without saying a word, the father packed his luggage and went to his daughter\’s side to formulate tactics, train and arrange meals for her. In the last scene of the film, the eldest daughter faced a powerful opponent to compete for the world championship. The father who was the most important to her was locked up due to the jealousy of the coach and did not come to the scene. The daughter did not panic, nor did she have the guidance of her father. She faced her opponent alone and won the game.race. This is not only a victory in the game, but also a daughter\’s independence and growth. She breaks her dependence on her father, establishes herself, and uses her inner beliefs to win. God, for giving me such a \”dad\”, I guess it\’s because I\’ve been used to being independent since I was a child, or because my dad never cared about me and couldn\’t give me any guidance in my studies or career. When I saw the dad in the video, I was very envious. Every scene made me burst into tears. Growing up, I relied on myself for study, work, and social experience, with almost no involvement from my father. It\’s not that he doesn\’t care about me, it\’s that he can\’t make any sense. What I will always remember is the smile he gave, either for comfort or for happiness. As for the father in the film, when his mother is worried that no one will dare to marry her daughter, he will point out very insightfully: \”They are not qualified to pick my daughter. It is my daughter who picks them.\” He is the spiritual support of his daughters. , always know what to give them. When the eldest daughter defeated him, she also knew how to keep her distance at the right time, care from afar, and wait where she was. No matter what kind of difficulties he faces, this father will never lament or complain. He just silently solves each problem and reaches his goal. When he discovered that his daughter was weak, he tried to buy chicken for them and learned to cook it for them. After losing the competition, he analyzed and formulated strategies with his children. Moreover, it was under his inspiration that the eldest daughter became completely independent, and finally faced powerful enemies on the field alone and won the first gold medal in her life. Everyone is like this. As long as you achieve a certain step, the road ahead will be smooth. So, how do we play roles when our children are young? Tiger mom, tiger dad, or cat mom and cat dad? How to guide children to chase their dreams and keep learning and improving? Looking forward to hearing your answers.