Good children are all in charge, but naughty children are used to it: Never expect children to be \”conscious\” on the road to education.

American educator Mrs. Stena once said: The heart of a child is a strange land. If you sow the seeds of thoughts, you will reap the rewards of behavior; if you sow the seeds of behavior, you will reap the rewards of habits; if you sow the seeds of habits, you will reap the rewards of habits. If you sow the seeds of morality, you will reap the harvest of morality; if you sow the seeds of morality, you will reap the harvest of destiny. \”You must know that every outstanding child is like a carefully trimmed potted plant. Every leaf and flower embodies the hard work and wisdom of their parents. The reason why they have lush branches and bright colors is because their parents always care about them. Pay attention to them, cut off excess branches, fertilize and water them, and ensure that they grow up on the right track. On the road to education, there are no children who cannot be taught, only parents who cannot love. 01 There must be something behind a naughty child. Recently, a bear parent saw a video: In a shopping mall, a staff member dressed as a doll was being pushed hard by a group of children. It is not difficult to see that the people inside were holding on tightly to prevent falling. The children around them still behaved in their own way. During this period, not only did the staff try to dissuade them, but the photographer also tried to stop them. However, when one group of children left, another group of children rushed forward and continued to act indifferently. Let the children play… It is said that the child is like a mirror, reflecting the quality and style of a family. Every shine on this mirror comes from the parents\’ dedication and investment in their children\’s education. Behavior and teaching penetrate into children\’s words and deeds like a steady stream of water. Behind every naughty child on the road to education, there is an infinitely indulgent bear parent. Parents, please remember that good children are in charge. Children are accustomed to it. Only when parents are aware of their own problems and work hard to change can they create a good growth environment for their children. 02 Behind every outstanding child is the hard work of his parents. There is a saying: push. The hand that cradle is the hand that moves the world. You must know that every outstanding child is like the brightest star in the night sky. Their light overflows and illuminates the way forward. However, the light of this star is not. It comes out of thin air, and behind it is the endless power of the universe that silently supports it. Just like behind every outstanding child, there is the solid support of parents. On the road of education, behind every child\’s excellence, there is endless hard work from the parents. And sweat. As the mother of Wu Yishu, a talented poet, once said: Real education is never a skill that turns stone into gold and becomes a Buddha immediately. It is a process of spring breeze and natural inaction. Children\’s growth is never achieved overnight, but by parents. The result of careful companionship and hard guidance. 03 Don’t expect your children to be self-conscious. Foresighted parents know how to be “cruel” to their children. The famous pianist Lang Lang has been receiving piano education from his father since he was three years old. He needs to practice for two hours every day, and he never fails to do so. Exception. As he grows older, the practice time gradually increases. Lang Guoren has strict requirements on Lang Lang, and he has strict regulations on both practice time and practice quality. He will even stand aside to supervise Lang Lang. Ensure that Lang Lang can follow the requirementsPlease complete the exercise. Lang Guoren firmly believed that Lang Lang had musical talent, so he never gave up cultivating Lang Lang. Even when Lang Lang was nine years old and unable to continue studying because his teacher went abroad, Lang Guoren resolutely resigned and took Lang Lang to Beijing to study. With his father\’s strict education and his unremitting efforts, his name has become a legend in the music industry. There is a saying that goes like this: Foresighted parents are somewhat cruel. More and more parents are gradually realizing that raising children is like carefully nurturing a sapling. This is not only watering and fertilizing it in the spring to ensure its strong growth to withstand the scorching heat of summer; The dew taught it how to persevere and stand proudly even in the cold wind of winter. 04 It may be too late to take care of children before they grow up. Educating children is like planting a sapling, which must be cultivated early, because once the sapling grows into a tree, pruning the branches and guiding its growth direction will be like sailing against the current, and the difficulty will be doubled. In the seedling stage, we can easily water, fertilize, and straighten it to ensure that it grows vigorously and stretches toward the sun. However, when the sapling grows into a towering tree, we want to adjust its growth trajectory. Not only is it time-consuming and labor-intensive, but improper strength may also damage its branches and even affect the vitality of the entire tree. As the saying goes: Small trees need to be cut down, but children need to be cared for. Educate children as early as possible, be patient, and be careful. This kind of subtle education is like drizzle moistening things, nourishing the children\’s soul silently. If once children grow up, their thoughts and behavior patterns have been solidified, and trying to change them is like trying to move a tree that has been deeply rooted. You can imagine how difficult it is. To parents: Loving children is only the premise and foundation for parents to educate their children. To truly educate their children, they need to invest more effort and energy. On the road of growth, good children are cultivated through the strict discipline of their parents, while naughty children are often the result of their parents\’ doting and indulgence. Parents, please remember that expecting children to be conscious is the most dangerous education, because the road to growth requires correct guidance and firm companionship from parents.