Good education is to cultivate good habits in children

My friend Xiao Wu’s daughter Lili is three years old this year. Lili is cute and cute. Her wheat-colored skin gives people a sense of health and vitality. She wears a complete set of pure white sportswear with pink edges from Nike. Her slightly curly brown hair is tied into a lively braid. She is very cute. . Before Lili entered kindergarten, she had always been a good child and rarely used crying as a means to achieve her goals, because Xiao Wu had educated her appropriately and never let Lili succeed. After Lili entered primary school, one day she saw her little friend Longlong crying with his mother because he wanted to buy a robot. He even stayed on the ground and refused to move. In the end, his mother had no choice but to buy him the robot, and Longlong put it away. Tears danced, and Lili\’s little mind moved. That night, Xiao Wu cooked porridge, fried three plates of hot dishes, and invited the whole family to eat. Lili walked to the dining table, pouted her little mouth and said, \”I want to eat egg noodles tonight, not porridge.\” Xiao Wu looked at Lili with a smile and said, \”Look at you, you can even hang your pout.\” Live with a little oil pot! If you want to eat porridge with us, just wash your hands and sit down to eat. If you don\’t want to eat, I won\’t force you. After saying that, after making some concessions to Lili\’s grandma and father, the whole family sat down to eat. Lili saw everyone talking and laughing, and remembering Longlong during the day, she simply sat down on the floor and started crying. Seeing that everyone still ignored her, she lay down on the floor again and cried even harder. The whole family ate more happily. After the meal, Lili\’s father and grandma watched the news. After Xiao Wu put away the dishes, he picked up the broom and started sweeping the floor. After sweeping to the place where Lili was lying, Xiao Wu said: \”Come on, come on, lie down a little bit. I want to sweep the floor here, don\’t block it. After I finish sweeping, you can lie back down.\” So Lili moved her body and continued to lie down. crying. After a while, Xiao Wu said again: \”Okay, I\’ve cleaned this place, you can lie back down.\” Lili actually lay back down in the same place again, but the wailing just now was reduced to humming. Chirp. After Xiao Wu finished sweeping the floor, he looked at Lili, who was still lying on the floor but there was no movement. He couldn\’t help but smile at each other with Lili\’s father and grandma. After being in the air for half an hour, Lili finally stopped moaning when she saw that no one noticed her, got up, walked towards Xiao Wu, and said flatteringly: \”Mom, the porridge is actually quite delicious!\” After saying that, he quickly ran to wash his hands, then sat down at the dining table and ate the porridge. Xiao Wu told me that since that crying incident, Lili has never been seen lying on the ground crying to achieve her goal. Parents love their children unconditionally, but they must have principles. In fact, many of the behaviors of children are just temptations. Wise parents should know how to stop them the first time, so that the same behavior will basically not happen a second time. Bad habits like this must be completely eliminated the first time and cannot be allowed to happen a second time. My little nephew Pippi is four years old this year. He is smart-mouthed, lively and cute like a little elf. Because he has been passed down from generation to generation, his grandparents love him very much. As long as Pippi asks for something, he will definitely get it; as long as he doesn\’t want to do something, he doesn\’t have to do it. Grandparents held him in their hands for fear of hurting him. Fortunately, Pippi\’s parents are veryWise parents always \”teach\” their children an educational lesson at critical moments. Once, Grandma Pippi bought a large bag of small shrimps, removed the heads, tails and shells of the shrimps, and after peeling the shells, she was left with pure shrimp meat, ready to be fried for Pippi to eat. When the fried shrimps as white as jade were served on the table, Grandma Pipi called out: \”Pippi, come and eat, today we have your favorite fried shrimps.\” When Pipi heard that it was fried shrimps, she dropped the food. I had fun playing with the toys and sat down at the dinner table without washing my hands. When Pippi\’s mother saw Pippi\’s greedy look, she picked up a few shrimps with chopsticks and tasted them. Pippi became unhappy and said, \”Mom, how do you eat my shrimps?\” Pippi\’s mother said: \”Who said it was your shrimp? This is the dinner that grandma made for everyone!\” After saying that, he picked up the spoon and took a big bite. Pippi reacted and hurriedly followed his mother to grab the shrimp. But how could Pippi defeat her mother? In the blink of an eye, the shrimp bowl that was just full was empty, and Pippi\’s tears poured out like spring water. Only then did Pippi\’s mother put down the spoon in her hand, turned around and bent down to wipe Pippi\’s tears. After wiping her tears, Pippi\’s mother said: \”My child, anyone can eat. Nothing belongs to you alone. You can eat whatever you want, understand?\” Pippi lowered her head and nodded in embarrassment. nod. From that day on, his mother would share half of everything Pippi liked to eat. Children are easy to teach, and Pippi quickly got used to sharing it with others. Sometimes when she sees something that Pippi particularly likes to eat, Pippi\’s mother will deliberately say: \”Pippi, my mother has a toothache and can\’t eat this today. Please do your mother a favor and eat more!\” At this time, Pippi would say Will eat with joy because he is used to sharing. Wise parents should teach their children how to share with others from an early age, whether it is tangible things or intangible emotions, and guide their children to take action in daily life, so that they can truly feel The joy of sharing with others. There is a kid from my neighbor named Liangliang. His mother always nags whenever she meets someone she knows: \”My Liangliang doesn\’t do anything in a hurry. He takes his time in everything. It\’s annoying.\” Every morning. , his family would stage a scene like this: \”Liangliang, get up soon, it\’s already half past seven, and you will be late if you don\’t get up.\” Mom hurriedly helped Liangliang pack her schoolbag and prepare breakfast, while calling Liangliang to get up. . \”Mom, let me sleep a little longer, I\’m so sleepy!\” \”No, hurry up, I\’m going to be late soon!\” Five minutes passed, and Liangliang hadn\’t gotten up yet, so her mother started urging her. After ten minutes, Liangliang put on a top and lay on the bed reading a children\’s picture book. \”Liangliang, it\’s already eight o\’clock, you will be late soon, hurry up.\” Mom was a little helpless, but Liangliang remained indifferent. So, her mother was so angry that she went to the battle herself and helped Liangliang put on her pants and shoes. However, because she was too anxious, it hurt Liangliang, and she burst into tears. After all the hard work, it was almost half past eight. In order not to be late, I had to eat breakfast on the road. But Liangliang was still ten minutes late in the end. My mother couldn\’t help but sigh like this: \”As soon as I get up,It\’s like fighting, why is this kid so lazy? \”The child is slow to do things. I believe it is not only Liangliang\’s mother who has this trouble, but many parents have it. Even though you try hard and soft, the child still can\’t keep up with the adult\’s pace. In the final analysis, the child\’s habit of doing things slowly is The result of not developing good habits since childhood. If the slowness in childhood is not corrected in time, they will be slow and slow when they grow up. Therefore, parents should actively help and guide their children when they are young, so that they can Children gradually get rid of the bad habit of being slow. To educate children, start by cultivating good habits in children. Good habits are a huge force that can push children forward bravely on the road of life. Only by cultivating good habits from an early age can children Benefit the child for life. Understanding the child\’s \”heart\”, having a correct response to the child\’s behavior, and believing in the child\’s own strength will help cultivate the child\’s good behavior habits. How to cultivate children\’s good habits? ? Wise parents should do this: 1. Convey more positive information to their children. 2. Combine bad habits with interests and hobbies to find breakthroughs. 3. Families and kindergartens should work in the same direction to avoid \”5+2\” =0\” Negative effect. 4. Let your children experience natural punishment, that is, the natural consequences method. In short, be a wise parent everywhere and cultivate good habits in your children from an early age, and your children will have a bright future.