Gu Mingyuan: Jointly strengthen the construction of family education and family tradition

The report of the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China proposed: \”Improving the social education mechanism in schools and families\” and \”strengthening the construction of family education and family tradition\”. The importance of home-school-client collaborative education and family education has once again been highlighted. In-depth study, publicity and implementation of the spirit of the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China. In the journey of Chinese-style modernization, how to understand and strengthen the collaborative education of families, schools and communities and strengthen the construction of family education and family tradition? This article specially invites relevant experts to talk about their thoughts and experiences to further promote the high-quality development of family education. Fan Deng Reading Club teaches five compulsory family education courses for new parents [Video + Audio] The report of the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China pointed out that \”strengthening the construction of family education and family tradition\”. Family education is directly related to the construction of family tutoring and family tradition. Since the 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China, General Secretary Xi Jinping has emphasized many times that we must \”pay attention to family, family education, and family tradition.\” \”Family is the first school in life, and parents are their children\’s first teachers. They must educate their children well.\” \’Life\’s first lesson\’ helps to button the first button of life.\” It also specifically requires that families, schools, governments, and society all have responsibilities to run education well. The report of the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China and General Secretary Xi Jinping’s series of important speeches on family education have pointed out the direction and provided fundamental guidelines for the work of family education. Education departments and schools should further assume the responsibility of guiding and guiding the construction of family education and family tradition. With the development of society and changes in families, many problems and misunderstandings have emerged in family education. For example, parents lack understanding of the laws of education and childcare knowledge, which often transfers the pressure brought by social competition to their children, preventing children from developing healthily physically and mentally; there is a lack of communication between schools and parents, and family education is separated from school education. As a result, parents do not understand or support the school\’s education and teaching work, especially education reforms. Without the support and cooperation of the family, the work of the school will be half the result with half the effort. Schools should take the responsibility of guiding family education and form a joint effort between home and school, so that children’s education will be more effective with half the effort. Every family member, especially parents, should further assume direct responsibility for strengthening family education and family tradition. Good family education is an important way to strengthen the construction of family education and family tradition. The promulgation of the \”Family Education Promotion Law of the People\’s Republic of China\” in 2021 has given family education a legal basis. Article 14 of the Family Education Promotion Law stipulates: “Parents or other guardians should establish a sense of responsibility that the family is the first classroom and parents are the first teachers, assume the main responsibility for implementing family education for minors, and use correct thinking and Methods and behaviors should be used to educate minors to develop good thoughts, conduct and habits.\” Parents must bear the responsibility of educating their children and strengthening the construction of family education and family tradition. They must learn some family pedagogy and know what should be done in the family. How to educate children. Family education must conform to the age and development characteristics of children and adolescents, and understand the development patterns of children and adolescents. Each age has different characteristics. Only by conducting education based on these characteristics can family education achieve good results. Parents should combine love for their children with strict requirements to form a good family tradition. We often encounter two wrong methods: one is to spoil the child and meet the child\’s various requirements;His (her) wrong thoughts are tolerant and accommodating, which makes the child develop a willful and self-centered bad temper at first, and the habit of being indolent and indolent at worst, and even go astray. One is to impose strict requirements on children, but in a simple and crude way. Pay attention to cultivating children\’s self-esteem, self-confidence and self-improvement in the education process. The formation of a good family tradition requires good tutoring, and it also needs to be passed down and accumulated from generation to generation. Every word and deed of a parent is deeply imprinted on the child\’s mind. Parents\’ good thoughts, good morals, and good habits are passed on to their children subtly; parents\’ bad thoughts, bad morals, and bad habits can also unconsciously affect their children. Therefore, parents should be role models for their children in their words and deeds. Paying attention to the construction of family education and family tradition is an excellent tradition of the Chinese nation. Strengthening the construction of family education and family tradition is a necessary step to improve the civilized level of the whole society and implement the project of citizen moral construction. It is also to carry forward the traditional Chinese virtues, advocate great virtues, abide by public ethics and be strict with private ethics, and improve the people\’s moral standards and civilized literacy. Its due meaning requires the joint efforts of the whole society.