Can you believe that a child who never loved studying grew up to become a university professor? I heard from friends in my hometown that a friend who we all played with since childhood did not get high grades when he was admitted to college, and he only went to a vocational college in a university. A few years later, no one expected that he would become a teacher at a local university. Everyone felt that they couldn’t believe it! I have been a very playful person since I was a child, but my grades were not very high! how can that be possible? However, there are a few things that everyone agrees on. He is unusual in his behavior and his popularity. The old people around him liked him very much. 01 Harvard research found that children who become more promiscuous as they grow up generally have three characteristics before the age of 8. Harvard psychologists conducted a survey on successful people over 35 years old. These people have high social status, happy families, and stable emotions. Through a large amount of research, it has been found that these people who become more and more powerful as they grow up, and are generally recognized as people who stand out, generally have three characteristics before the age of 8: ① Strict demands on themselves, and can get up early happily. Why get up early? Getting up early can develop a good habit of not being lazy. Zeng Guofan once said: Yan Qi is a prodigal. Waking up late is a sign of prodigality. Can\’t achieve a better life and dreams. What impact will getting up early have on a child’s life? From a health perspective, if you want your children to be healthy, you need to develop a good habit of getting up early. Regular daily habits can better promote study habits. At the same time, by going to bed early and getting up early, children will be energetic throughout the day and be more efficient in their study and life. From a mental point of view, it is easier to think and the mind is more flexible. Being able to get up in the morning, do physical exercises, read and recite ancient poems, the child has defeated himself. Starting a day of study with a clear mind can better sustain a lifetime of learning and growth. From the perspective of rehabilitation, good living habits are conducive to children achieving great careers in their lives. Musk said that if you try to go to bed at ten o\’clock and wake up at five o\’clock, you will gain three undisturbed hours in the morning. It can make the mind very free, avoid ineffective social interactions, and avoid falling into internal friction. Children who can arrange their own lives can be organized and planned in their study and work, and their future is unlimited. ② Frequently do housework under the guidance of parents. British psychologists have conducted research and found that people who often perform housework have an employment rate that increases by more than 20 times. Earn 50% more. People who still do housework when they grow up generally have developed a liking for housework before the age of 8. The ancients also said: Practice hard work and you will be grateful. Children who have been doing housework since childhood can better appreciate the hard work of their parents. You can also actively learn new abilities through a lot of thinking during the labor process, and your hands-on ability will be stronger and your mind will be more flexible. Zeng Guofan also required his children to participate in the work at home. When parents pay attention to cultivating their children\’s other interests, they can help their children improve their virtues in housework from an early age, which will be more conducive to their children\’s growth! ③ I have liked to spend time reading since I was a child. Lin Yutang said that if you don’t read, the whole world will be in front of you. After reading, your world can be filled with endless possibilities. I want my children to have light in their eyes, love in their hearts, and a path under their feet, but in what ways can this be achieved? Parents hope that their childrenYou can have good opportunities and successfully embark on the road to success, but what should you do when you encounter difficulties? When you encounter a low point in life, how do you deal with it? No one teaches children! Children who have loved reading since childhood will take the initiative to find answers to their inner world in books. Books are the nutrition of the world. Life without books is like without sunshine. When a well-known writer just graduated from college, his job was not going well. However, while others were playing games, he devoted himself to reading. By changing his thinking, he finally changed his life\’s destiny. Other workers can still only hold the same job for ten years. This writer has found a new job through reading and has become a well-known cultural figure. A good book can affect a person\’s life. Abdominal poetry and gas from China! Guiding children to read more can make them feel rich, and they will not be panicked when encountering problems or suffer from difficulties. Without excessive mental internal consumption, they will be able to have a sufficient spiritual world. Become a sunny, confident and optimistic person. What good habits will you cultivate in your child before he is 8 years old to lay a solid foundation for his future success?
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