He Youjun: The upbringing of children has nothing to do with family background, but with family tradition

Recently, He Youjun has become popular. In a variety show \”The Strongest Brain\”, the youngest MIT Master of Finance in history beat 100 top students from prestigious schools in the \”Digital Huarong Road\” project in 21 seconds and won the championship. The 23-year-old He Youjun is all over the circle of friends – but not because he is the son of gambling king Stanley Ho. As \”She Magazine\” said in an article: The origin of everything hides its past. He Youjun\’s past belongs to him. Although he comes from a family worth tens of billions, he works harder than anyone else. He has been among the top three in the school since he was in primary school. He won two championships in the Hong Kong Mathematics Competition. When he was 18 years old, he was admitted to Oxford and MIT at the same time because of his excellent academic performance. In that year, he was the only one in Hong Kong who was admitted to MIT. He went on to study for a master\’s degree in finance at MIT and graduated early in three years, becoming the youngest master\’s degree student in the history of MIT. Accustomed to seeing beauties coming and going around Wang Sipei, the appearance of He Youjun shocked netizens and called him a genius! As everyone knows, He Youjun\’s \”genius performance\” is just a microcosm of the family style of Macau\’s gambling king. You think that all the children of the gambling king are Gao Jin, played by Fa Ge, who are just proficient in gambling, but you are wrong! Stanley Ho has only one sentence for the education of his children: \”I can give you anything, but the only thing I can\’t give you is knowledge. Because knowledge must be learned, asked, and absorbed by oneself.\” During normal meals, Stanley Ho would tell his children about his Studying experience, for example, in my early years, I memorized all the textbooks, was admitted to the University of Hong Kong, and received a scholarship. He Youjun\’s mother, Liang Anqi, also loved reading. She said to her son: \”You have to study hard, wealth will not follow you forever, and reading will always benefit you.\” He Youjun grew up in such a family tradition of striving for reading. A family tradition that values ​​culture and education cultivated He Youjun\’s love of reading and made him a top student in his life. In addition to the atmosphere of reading, the family tradition of gambling kings is also full of the spirit of hard work. When Stanley Ho started his business, he encountered pirates hijacking ships, being chased by Japanese ships, and having grenades thrown at him by competitors. Regardless of the difficulties and dangers, Stanley Ho was not afraid and developed the will to forge ahead. And it is integrated into the family tradition and educates the next generation. Influenced by the family tradition of diligence and self-improvement, the gambling king\’s children developed the quality of self-reliance. Each of them has made dazzling achievements in their life. He Youjun left home at the age of 12 to study abroad. He knew how to cook and clean the house. He habitually took the subway when going out and also took economy class when traveling by plane. Now, he has founded his own company in Shanghai. In an interview, He Youjun said: \”I am very competitive in every field. I want to beat my classmates in school. When I play football, I feel I must win. When I play games, I feel I must win. When I start a business, I feel I must win…\” Don\’t blame He Youjun\’s rhetoric for being too sharp. If a person does not have this kind of ambition when he is 20 years old, how can he achieve a career in this life? He Youjun\’s brothers and sisters both graduated from prestigious schools and are currently senior executives of listed companies. The fourth daughter, He Chaoqiong, is the heir to the gambling king. In 2015, she became the richest woman in Hong Kong with a net worth of US$5 billion. anotherThe second daughter, He Chaoxian, is a sculptor. She has lived in the United States for seven years, making a living by selling her sculptures. She earned her first pot of gold by herself and returned to Hong Kong to develop her art business. The fine family tradition of advocating reading and constantly striving for self-improvement has inspired He Youjun and his brothers and sisters to develop the spiritual quality of studying hard and never admitting defeat. Good family tradition is always an essential spiritual culture of a family. Family tradition is the guiding light for a child\’s growth, hiding his or her quality and future. The atmosphere of a family is an invisible force that shapes children\’s character. In \”Metamorphosis\”, Liu Siqi\’s family is well off, but his family style is extravagant and wasteful. She enjoys a wealthy life, spends money as she pleases, buys things without looking at the price, never does housework, and has her meals brought to her by her nanny. Before leaving, I talked to my father on the phone. He didn’t say any instructions, but only said five words: “Bring more money.” Born in such a family, Liu Siqi had no worries about food and clothing, but also because of this family tradition , developed her lazy, wasteful, and barbaric character. One time, her brother said that she was wasting money, so she picked up an object and threw it at him, yelling at him. When participating in the program, she did not work and only wanted to rest and sleep. She had no food and actually killed the chickens raised by her owner. When the show crew was collecting the makeup bag, she punched, kicked, slapped, and even swung an iron rod at the staff. Although she lived a prosperous life and had plenty of food and clothing, her bad family tradition caused her to grow into a person with bad conduct and no education. When many parents raise their children, they try their best to \”enrich\” their children, but they ignore the impact of family tradition on their children. In today\’s society, there is no shortage of good clothing and food, but a noble family tradition. During the Republic of China, Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman both came from wealthy families. However, Lin Huiyin eventually became a talented woman in the Republic of China, while Lu Xiaoman was criticized by the world for his misdeeds. Lin Huiyin\’s father was an official in the late Qing Dynasty. He was upright and had a rich family tradition and cultural heritage, which taught Lin Huiyin to become a literati scholar. Lu Xiaoman\’s family tradition is based on fame and fortune, which makes her a \”social butterfly\” and travels in various social situations. The same family background and different family traditions have developed different characters for the two of them, and they have completely opposite lives. A child\’s upbringing has never been related to money or family background, but to the environment in which he grew up and his family tradition. Family tradition represents the three outlooks of a family and also shapes the three outlooks of children. A good family tradition is a blessing for children; a bad family tradition is a disaster for children. The Li Tianyi incident once caused a sensation across the country, and his overbearing and domineering character stemmed from his family tradition. There is a famous saying by Li Tianyi\’s mother on the Internet: \”Do you know who I am?\” When Li Tianyi makes mistakes, his parents always try their best to protect him, but in fact they are condoning him in disguise to continue causing trouble. Under the influence of this family tradition, Li Tianyi became more violent and arrogant, and fell into the abyss of crime. When children grow up, a large part of their character formation comes from family tradition. When the family tradition is not good and arrogance and unreasonableness are regarded as normal, the children will also become brutal and violent; when the family tradition is simple and the parents are generous to others, the children will also be polite and well-educated. Fu Lei and his wife are known for their honesty, trustworthiness and kindness to others. Before they died, the two left a suicide note: \”Fifty-five yuan and two cents in cash.\”Nine points, please pay the rent for September. \”Even before he committed suicide by hanging from the beam, in order not to disturb the neighbors, he actually spread a quilt under the square stool. Growing up in a good family tradition, his son Fu Cong became a famous piano master, and his daughter Fu Min became a special English teacher. The two of them grew up in a good family tradition. Both brothers and sisters are also very well-educated people. Fu Lei\’s \”Fu Lei Family Letter\” written by Fu Lei to train his children is a classic handed down from generation to generation. While allowing children to learn noble conduct, good family traditions can also be passed down from generation to generation. A good family tradition is The intangible wealth of a family will enable children to develop good education, know etiquette, and be polite. Hu Shi lost his father when he was young, and his mother did not let things go when it came to their children\’s education. Instead, she was a loving mother while being strict at the same time. His father allowed Hu Shi to grow up in an environment with rigorous upbringing and a stable family tradition. When Hu Shi did something wrong when he was young, his mother never criticized him face to face, but punished him in the dead of night to avoid being known and laughed at. This It is a kind of respect for children, and it also creates a family tradition of respecting others. Because he was respected by his mother and retained his dignity, Hu Shi knew the importance of reputation. As an adult, Hu Shi cherished his reputation very much and developed a strict attitude towards it. The character of self-discipline and respect for others. During the New Culture Movement, Hu Shi was attacked many times, but he always dealt with it in a humble way. Hu Shikuan\’s character of treating others made the world want to get to know him, and there was even a trend of \” \”My friend Hu Shizhi\” is a trend that is proud of. In his later years, Hu Shi proposed the \”Tao of Forgiveness\”, advocating the principles of generosity, benevolence, and living in poverty. It was under the influence of such a fine family tradition that he grew up, and \”Mr. Mi\” Hu Shi lived his whole life. Integrity and high self-cultivation. Yang Jiang said that good education is not about being passively taught and disciplined, but about inspiring the consciousness of learning and being taught unconsciously. This is the impact of family tradition on children. \”Red Lantern\” \”The lyrics of \”The saplings planted will produce the same fruits, the seeds planted will produce the same flowers, and the children of the poor will become their own. \”A good family tradition not only shapes the character and upbringing of children, but also spreads and continues to influence future generations. Zeng Guofan taught his brothers and nephews a lesson by writing family letters and left the Zeng family tradition. Therefore, there are many talented descendants of the Zeng family. Fan Zhongyan wrote \”The Rules of Yizhuang\” and established it as the \”basic law\” of the family, so the Fan family has been prosperous for 800 years. Confucius is the \”teacher of all generations\” and left the treasure of Confucianism to his descendants, so the Confucius family has continued for more than 70 generations. Okay The role of family tradition in the growth of children is like the care of sunlight on vegetation and the nourishment of rain and dew on the earth. It is indispensable spiritual food.