How about a 9-year-old girl selling water on the roadside? Her father promises to take her to the amusement park if she earns 200,000 yuan.

Recently, a reporter discovered that a 9-year-old girl was selling mineral water at Qingdao Second Bathing Beach. The girl’s name was Liu Yanan. Her father was a taxi driver and her mother was selling vegetables. ▼The reporter asked Liu Yanan why he sells mineral water here. Liu Yanan replied, \”Because I want my parents to take me and my sister to the amusement park to ride the roller coaster.\” Moreover, her parents told Liu Yanan to go when they have saved up 200,000. Liu Yanan was full of expectations for going to the amusement park. Although she knew that 200,000 was a large number and it was difficult to earn, she had a longing smile on her face when she thought that she could go to the amusement park after earning 200,000. Liu Yanan is a very sensible little girl. She is very considerate of her parents\’ hard work, and she also feels their parents\’ love for her. She also said she hoped she would work harder and her parents would work less. When the innocent and lively Liu Yanan talked about her parents\’ love for her, she suddenly changed the subject and started complaining about the ugly haircut her parents gave her. She said that this haircut made everyone think she was a little boy. It must be very hard to sell water every day. When the reporter asked the girl if she would cry, she said she would not cry. If she did, she would cry in her heart, not out loud, because crying \”means I am very embarrassed, I am very embarrassed.\” Mom and Dad’s face”. The reporter then interviewed Liu Yanan\’s father. During the interview, Liu\’s father kept smiling at the camera. He said that his child wanted to go to the amusement park, so he told the child, \”I will take you there when I earn enough money\” and returned the child He drew a pie and said, \”If you earn enough 200,000 yuan, I will take you there.\” Finally, the father emphasized that he was just joking. After reading the news, netizens said that the difference between a child\’s perspective and an adult\’s perspective is too big. In the child\’s eyes, the father\’s words are \”seeds of hope\”, but the truth is \”a lie that adults coaxed her to.\” Some netizens also said, \”The children are too sensible, but the parents are a little cruel.\” Netizens expressed the hope that parents would \”stop making wishes for things they cannot do.\” It is true that a casual word from a parent can turn into a dagger that hurts the child. Liu Yanan, a 9-year-old girl, works hard selling water every day with the expectation of earning 200,000 yuan to go to the amusement park, and she cannot cry for the sake of her parents\’ face. Under such circumstances, what she considers is to try to make her parents not have to work so hard, which really makes people sigh that she is too sensible. It\’s just that everyone is worried that they won\’t be able to realize their dream of going to the amusement park. How disappointed and sad she must be! Many times, for parents, it is just a casual perfunctory remark to their children. Maybe the parents forget about it after they have finished speaking and making promises, but in the eyes of their children, they will become their spiritual food and goal of struggle. Children may keep thinking about what their parents said and work hard for it. As parents, we must take our children seriously. Therefore, as parents, we must take every conversation with our children seriously in our daily lives, and carefully consider the feasibility before making a promise. Once a promise is made to a child, it must be fulfilled. And parents need to think carefully when making demands on their children: Are the goals you set for your children something they can achieve through hard work? If parents set an unattainable goal when making a promise to their children, then when the children fail to meet the requirements despite their efforts,He may be disappointed or frustrated, which is not conducive to the growth of the child.